Gays have a lot of drama too, but I really value mine because they have both the male and female perspective yet I know they want nothing from me... i.e. sex,relationship etc like my other male friends.
Mai Tais is cool but do NOT act up there If you're with anyone who can't handle their alcohol, don't go there. There are always fights.
I would take a drive down to the North Shore and check out Ted's... They are known for their desserts/pies but have an awesome shrimp plate. They'vewon awards...