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Problem is, I don't want to call it off with any of them. It's still in the early stages but getting serious. One guy is in the army, another is a programmer, another an analyst. None of them live in the same city as me or in the in same city as the other. I can easily date and not run into the other.
I've never done anything like this before and as you well know I had feelings for someone who did some really dirty things to me. I really can't help the way it's affected me because I feel like I'll never let someone hurt me to the extent that he did. There's a lot that I haven't disclosed about that situation but whatever. I don't want to hurt that way again and it just feels good having a back up plan.
So far , all of the guys are really nice. They've expressed wanting to take things further....further like having serious relationships/ messing around. All but one is several years younger than me.
I don't want to stop talking to any of them. My ex really messed me up. You can slap sense into me. To be clear, I have not slept with any of them at this point.
I've never done anything like this before and as you well know I had feelings for someone who did some really dirty things to me. I really can't help the way it's affected me because I feel like I'll never let someone hurt me to the extent that he did. There's a lot that I haven't disclosed about that situation but whatever. I don't want to hurt that way again and it just feels good having a back up plan.
So far , all of the guys are really nice. They've expressed wanting to take things further....further like having serious relationships/ messing around. All but one is several years younger than me.
I don't want to stop talking to any of them. My ex really messed me up. You can slap sense into me. To be clear, I have not slept with any of them at this point.