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Its been on my mind for a while now but its been bothering more the last few weeks.
I feel like I don't want to tell my bff anything good that happens to me cuz it always turns into why can't things like that happen for her.
Its more along the lines of guys. If I was to tell her I got an amazing job I doubt she would be jelly but let me meet a guy and things are going well it turns into "why is it so easy for you and why can't i meet guys who treat me like that".
Tonight she straight up said you're the kind of girl I hate on I'm about to start hating on you. On the inside I was like
I dont really have alot of close female friends (not cuz I dont get along with them I just don't) and I've been friends with her for awhile.
I watched the Super Bowl with the new guy and his friends and she texts me "you get invited to the friends house I get invited to THE house' meaning they always just want sex from her.
I'm not really one to speak on my relationships to much good or bad cuz I just dont but I dont want to feel like I can't even tell the smallest details to my friend.
We've never had any problems in our friendship so I'm not even sure on how to approach it but I already know I'm gonna scale all the way back on what I tell her. The 'youre the type I hate on' part really killed me tho.
Not even looking for advice just wondering if anyone else has felt the same. It obviously wouldn't be with guys but maybe with work/school/or girls.
No pics will be posted
Any of you that know me know what friend it is. Hope she doesn't see this
I feel like I don't want to tell my bff anything good that happens to me cuz it always turns into why can't things like that happen for her.
Its more along the lines of guys. If I was to tell her I got an amazing job I doubt she would be jelly but let me meet a guy and things are going well it turns into "why is it so easy for you and why can't i meet guys who treat me like that".
Tonight she straight up said you're the kind of girl I hate on I'm about to start hating on you. On the inside I was like
I dont really have alot of close female friends (not cuz I dont get along with them I just don't) and I've been friends with her for awhile.
I watched the Super Bowl with the new guy and his friends and she texts me "you get invited to the friends house I get invited to THE house' meaning they always just want sex from her.
I'm not really one to speak on my relationships to much good or bad cuz I just dont but I dont want to feel like I can't even tell the smallest details to my friend.
We've never had any problems in our friendship so I'm not even sure on how to approach it but I already know I'm gonna scale all the way back on what I tell her. The 'youre the type I hate on' part really killed me tho.
Not even looking for advice just wondering if anyone else has felt the same. It obviously wouldn't be with guys but maybe with work/school/or girls.
No pics will be posted
Any of you that know me know what friend it is. Hope she doesn't see this