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First maybe stop referring to women as Chicks. Also being introduced to women by their Mom’s is not how 99% of the population dates.
ASIDE FROM BEING SOMEWHAT UNATTRACTIVE, WHAT AM I DOING WRONG?? (ANOTHER THREAD ABOUT GIRLS)
First maybe stop referring to women as Chicks. Also being introduced to women by their Mom’s is not how 99% of the population dates.
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you aint gotta be to best looking sweater in the closet....BUT
few things to always keep you on point with the ladies.......it aint ALL about looks, moreso how you represent yourself
Physical stuff:
• gotta brush them teeth everyday dawg (hope you already are lol)
• gotta cut and clean them fingernails as often as possible bro, trust me women see dirty fingernails right away its NOPE
• deodorant every day
• find a good colonge, women love a good smelling man, good way to have her think about you when you not even around, also a good way make or leave a subtle impression
• if you got nose hair, trim it asap, you got a unibrow LET IT BANG, alpha af
• Gotta shave and get your haircut consistently, this shows you clean and civilized. Chicks dig a guy who maintains his physical appearance (you aint gotta fall in love with the mirror, but make sure your the best version of you before you step out)
• a good haircut can be a LIFE CHANGER man, not sure what type of hair you got, but consider a clean fresh cut that applies to your hair style.
• if you tryna get fresh at work, its about how your work clothes FIT and fall. Make sure u get some nice fitting stuff and nake sure its ironed and clean everyday, make sure to have a good rotation of stuff you can mix and match so it doesn't appear your wearing the same 5 outfits every single week. Rotation is key and women really notice this....
• you aint gotta be muscle man randy savage but doing some kind of physical activity is attractive to women, wether it be riding your bike, shooting hoop, skating, just some physical activity...DOESNT have to be pumping iron at the gym. Remember the buffest doods are usually the most insecure, women pick up on this as well.
• walk upright with your chest out, if you have bad posture it might feel douchey but nothing looks more unattractive to a women than a slunking man
The rest is up to you...
god speed my son...
few things to always keep you on point with the ladies.......it aint ALL about looks, moreso how you represent yourself
Physical stuff:
• gotta brush them teeth everyday dawg (hope you already are lol)
• gotta cut and clean them fingernails as often as possible bro, trust me women see dirty fingernails right away its NOPE
• deodorant every day
• find a good colonge, women love a good smelling man, good way to have her think about you when you not even around, also a good way make or leave a subtle impression
• if you got nose hair, trim it asap, you got a unibrow LET IT BANG, alpha af
• Gotta shave and get your haircut consistently, this shows you clean and civilized. Chicks dig a guy who maintains his physical appearance (you aint gotta fall in love with the mirror, but make sure your the best version of you before you step out)
• a good haircut can be a LIFE CHANGER man, not sure what type of hair you got, but consider a clean fresh cut that applies to your hair style.
• if you tryna get fresh at work, its about how your work clothes FIT and fall. Make sure u get some nice fitting stuff and nake sure its ironed and clean everyday, make sure to have a good rotation of stuff you can mix and match so it doesn't appear your wearing the same 5 outfits every single week. Rotation is key and women really notice this....
• you aint gotta be muscle man randy savage but doing some kind of physical activity is attractive to women, wether it be riding your bike, shooting hoop, skating, just some physical activity...DOESNT have to be pumping iron at the gym. Remember the buffest doods are usually the most insecure, women pick up on this as well.
• walk upright with your chest out, if you have bad posture it might feel douchey but nothing looks more unattractive to a women than a slunking man
The rest is up to you...
god speed my son...
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Not sure if serious but, whatever is giving you insecurity.. work on it, get better. You're fat? lose weight, diet, exercise. Acne? get a skin care regimen that works. Yellow teeth? teeth whitener. Crooked teeth? braces/Invisalign. In this day and age almost everything can be worked on..
It has been said several times here already, but CONFIDENCE is it. Work on your insecurities, do things that help keep your confidence high, whatever they may be (gym, haircut etc.). Take care of yourself, look good, feel good
It has been said several times here already, but CONFIDENCE is it. Work on your insecurities, do things that help keep your confidence high, whatever they may be (gym, haircut etc.). Take care of yourself, look good, feel good
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rick rude was that dude.
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damn, he has been summoned
now the entire thread is gonna be flooded with reggaeton videos from the past 20 years 
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We needed a reggaetone expert to confirmdamn, he has been summoned
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I used to work at jfk airport , one of the most populated airports in the world
I used to see 20/10 women with the most bangin natural bodies in the world with dudes that could have played smeagle in lord of the rings
i remember this one time I saw this ridiculously sexy European lady holding hands with a dude that looked like hagrid from Harry Potter
moral of the story - yes looks do matter but looks go to **** in a matter of seconds if you have the confidence to talk to women
i mean bruh, Sasquatch looking mother f’ers dating sexy looking women, it was ridiculous lmao
I used to see 20/10 women with the most bangin natural bodies in the world with dudes that could have played smeagle in lord of the rings
i remember this one time I saw this ridiculously sexy European lady holding hands with a dude that looked like hagrid from Harry Potter
moral of the story - yes looks do matter but looks go to **** in a matter of seconds if you have the confidence to talk to women
i mean bruh, Sasquatch looking mother f’ers dating sexy looking women, it was ridiculous lmao
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I see what you mean but they prolly had money. Ugly brehs usually have to make up for their ugliness with something .
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jay-z
“Ain’t no such thing as an ugly billionaire, I’m cute”
Get your chips up, take better care of yourself, and make girls laugh. And stand up straight and project some positive energy and vibes.
elpablo21
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You ain't lying
mega be poppin
Mister Meaner
formerly super producer j
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Get your money up.
Work out.
Brush your teeth.
Someone will take notice.
Work out.
Brush your teeth.
Someone will take notice.
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Confidence > everything
It’s a fact - women love confidence
so build up yourself and love yourself fam.
It’s a fact - women love confidence
so build up yourself and love yourself fam.
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starts off by being healthy.
your health is the foundation of everything
do you even lift?
your health is the foundation of everything
do you even lift?
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Not at all. I really want to hit the gym though.
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Confidence
Hygiene
Health
Had women say to me before that they tryna figure out what im so confident about
Just hit em with the
come find out
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I think the question that everyone wants to know is... what's ya kick game look like? I think it's been confirmed if you pay above retail you'll probably get laid if you have the newest hypest shoe as long as there's no creases.
Also if you wear a shoe that sits good look at ever having children. Women HATE that, your girl would probably leave you and go date someone who works at finish line or something so she can actually get some she wants to be tagged in Instagram photos with.
Also if you wear a shoe that sits good look at ever having children. Women HATE that, your girl would probably leave you and go date someone who works at finish line or something so she can actually get some she wants to be tagged in Instagram photos with.
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UPDATE!!!! UPDATE!!!!!
Okay guys I need some input. Some input. Check this out. Theres this girl that I've been apprehensive about talking to for the past month or so. I couldnt tell if she was interested or uninterested but today I made my move. So I'm going go through the minutiae of the scenario and yall tell me what yall think. Okay so I said "how you doing" she said "Im fine how are you" So I stopped her again as if I was...ugh... inaugurating proposal (which was we get to know each other). And she said "I dont got time" and I said "I know I know just let me talk to you for a quick second" So were walking together and talking she asked me my name and I told her. Then she asked me age. I asked her age and then I went on about my business to go do my work as she went to do the same. Fast forward 4 hours and 23 minutes later, I catch her before lunch. As I'm approaching her she says "what's up" I say "what's up" I asked her name and she told me. She asked me my name (again, red flag) and I told. I shook her hand and she said nice to meet you. So asked her "how was her flight" she had dubious look on her face and asked "what flight?" And I said "You know, your flight, because you obviously flew from heaven to here so how was it? Any turbulence?" She laughed (I want to say blushed but I couldnt tell). So then I said "Hey listen. I know you're here just to work. The last thing you probably want is a horde of hungry horn dogs salivating over you). she laughed. I told I her I was interested in her and I liked what I saw. Then told her if shes uninterested that cool (she looked like she was say something like "what makes you think I'm uninterested" while smiling but I kept talking" but if is interested not to deprive herself and that it's okay to indulge in a chocolatey decadence from time time (referring to myself. She laughed). She asked me if I had kids and I said no. But she didnt ask if I had a girlfriend. I asked her if she had kids and a liability *cough* I mean boyfriend and she laughed and said no. I also told her I dont have a car and I still live with my mom but that didnt seem to bother. After a few more word she said "you can write your number" and I replied "I dont have a pen" She grabs her phone and locks me and said we'll be in touch. Oh yeah she interrupted me to tell me I smell good. But yea to encapsulate
- She seemed interested. She was facing me. I got her to laugh and smile alot. She has my number but I dont have hers.
What do yall think??? Is she leading me on or did seem interested and yall I get a text or something. Now I dont expect anything within these next 3-4 days or so. But yea talk to me yall. I mean I'll be honest I'm fairly unattractive guy. I'm kinda charming when I want to be and while I'm no genius or half of that I'm definitely no dummy. Since she has my number should I still talk to her when I see her?? I'm not going to press her about texting or calling or whatever. I might be a square but Im not lame. Yall think she played like she was interested to lead up to me giving her number so I could just get away from her??? Talk to me TAY gods please.
Okay guys I need some input. Some input. Check this out. Theres this girl that I've been apprehensive about talking to for the past month or so. I couldnt tell if she was interested or uninterested but today I made my move. So I'm going go through the minutiae of the scenario and yall tell me what yall think. Okay so I said "how you doing" she said "Im fine how are you" So I stopped her again as if I was...ugh... inaugurating proposal (which was we get to know each other). And she said "I dont got time" and I said "I know I know just let me talk to you for a quick second" So were walking together and talking she asked me my name and I told her. Then she asked me age. I asked her age and then I went on about my business to go do my work as she went to do the same. Fast forward 4 hours and 23 minutes later, I catch her before lunch. As I'm approaching her she says "what's up" I say "what's up" I asked her name and she told me. She asked me my name (again, red flag) and I told. I shook her hand and she said nice to meet you. So asked her "how was her flight" she had dubious look on her face and asked "what flight?" And I said "You know, your flight, because you obviously flew from heaven to here so how was it? Any turbulence?" She laughed (I want to say blushed but I couldnt tell). So then I said "Hey listen. I know you're here just to work. The last thing you probably want is a horde of hungry horn dogs salivating over you). she laughed. I told I her I was interested in her and I liked what I saw. Then told her if shes uninterested that cool (she looked like she was say something like "what makes you think I'm uninterested" while smiling but I kept talking" but if is interested not to deprive herself and that it's okay to indulge in a chocolatey decadence from time time (referring to myself. She laughed). She asked me if I had kids and I said no. But she didnt ask if I had a girlfriend. I asked her if she had kids and a liability *cough* I mean boyfriend and she laughed and said no. I also told her I dont have a car and I still live with my mom but that didnt seem to bother. After a few more word she said "you can write your number" and I replied "I dont have a pen" She grabs her phone and locks me and said we'll be in touch. Oh yeah she interrupted me to tell me I smell good. But yea to encapsulate
- She seemed interested. She was facing me. I got her to laugh and smile alot. She has my number but I dont have hers.
What do yall think??? Is she leading me on or did seem interested and yall I get a text or something. Now I dont expect anything within these next 3-4 days or so. But yea talk to me yall. I mean I'll be honest I'm fairly unattractive guy. I'm kinda charming when I want to be and while I'm no genius or half of that I'm definitely no dummy. Since she has my number should I still talk to her when I see her?? I'm not going to press her about texting or calling or whatever. I might be a square but Im not lame. Yall think she played like she was interested to lead up to me giving her number so I could just get away from her??? Talk to me TAY gods please.
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I stopped reading at that lame *** pick up line. Good luck mayne!
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I know I'm corny but I dont go up to girls to talk to them. Very seldom. I did this time because it's a new year and I'm still learning and practicing at this ****. New year new me.
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Once she asked if you had any seeds I think that was a tell she def feeling you
the corny pick up line was corny but it works if you can pull it off and you did. So just cool it and wait for her to hit your line...set something up ASAP too
find something unique to do for a date bra. Escape room or you can keep it reg and do dinner or some ****
the corny pick up line was corny but it works if you can pull it off and you did. So just cool it and wait for her to hit your line...set something up ASAP too
find something unique to do for a date bra. Escape room or you can keep it reg and do dinner or some ****
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Congrats man, great news on stepping out of your comfort zone and approaching her. I hope you came to realize it wasn't that difficult? Don't sit and wait for her text, continue to pursue things that you enjoy doing and build. Don't reflect on her, but rather how approaching her made you feel, more alive I hope. This is all we can ask for in this thing called life.
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You talk too much and hit the enter button.
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Focus most of your attention on u not women(less attention u give em the more will flock to u)
Alotta the examples given ive seen dudes have knocks against them for having (bad health - outta shape - bad teeth-musty -dirtbombs etc) yet still had chicks on deck (decent to dimes) sht its been times when i was dirty in work clothes or just finished playing ball/ having bad breath / braids (when i had em) all fuzzy & undone & still had women come & bag me
Stop prioritizing women just focus on u theyll come gradually..too many dudes be putting chicks on a pedestal then wonder why it go left for them
Alotta the examples given ive seen dudes have knocks against them for having (bad health - outta shape - bad teeth-musty -dirtbombs etc) yet still had chicks on deck (decent to dimes) sht its been times when i was dirty in work clothes or just finished playing ball/ having bad breath / braids (when i had em) all fuzzy & undone & still had women come & bag me
Stop prioritizing women just focus on u theyll come gradually..too many dudes be putting chicks on a pedestal then wonder why it go left for them
