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Insecurity happens when we focus too much attn on her due to us NOT focusing on ourselves.What are you talking about lol?
You can call it insecurity if you want, but its being realistic.
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Insecurity happens when we focus too much attn on her due to us NOT focusing on ourselves.What are you talking about lol?
You can call it insecurity if you want, but its being realistic.
Insecurity happens when we focus too much attn on her due to us NOT focusing on ourselves.
You can still be with someone without having to marry.
INB4 someone chimes in with the comforts of being with someone for life (news flash you can do that without getting married)
Make better choices in women and you won't have to think about what ifs
I said it the last three times this thread popped up
Raising kids is the ONLY incentive for a man to get married. (and to a lesser extent tax filing)
I'll wait here patiently while someone gives me just ONE other excuse
INB4 someone chimes in with the comforts of being with someone for life (news flash you can do that without getting married)
Seem like a good dude in my book I wish you luck if you go through with it
Just cover your ***
I just don't want to do the whole ceremony ****. All that wasted $
I said it the last three times this thread popped up
Raising kids is the ONLY incentive for a man to get married. (and to a lesser extent tax filing)
I'll wait here patiently while someone gives me just ONE other excuse
INB4 someone chimes in with the comforts of being with someone for life (news flash you can do that without getting married)
Why do dudes always say this like men have psychic powers and can predict the future
I dont even care anymore.
Most men has very little to gain from marriage and a lot to lose when it comes to tangibles.
And this is coming from a guy that will get married some day.
Fax x2, B
My psychic told me I'd get a divorce like my parents....
So marriage is not an option for me. You can still be with someone without having to marry.
Right. And you can still get taken for half the farm when you split too. A little something called common law marriage.
@ Everyone scared of failing....
My psychic told me I'd get a divorce like my parents....
So marriage is not an option for me. You can still be with someone without having to marry.
Right. And you can still get taken for half the farm when you split too. A little something called common law marriage.
I don't want to get married bc I'm scared not a lot of people will show up.
You are three years in, which I wouldn't consider a long time, first off.On my 3rd year of marriage and sometimes we want kids sometimes we dont, so i guess as a man i really have no incentive to be with the woman I love. Who hurt you so bad that this is your line of thinking? The only excuse I have for being married is because I love my wife. I enjoyed my 20's thoroughly, got tired of the lifestyle and wanted to settle down. Plus women are expensive off the bat, I'm not trying to spend money on someone I know i don't care about like that, or take trips with some random jump. then a few weeks/months get a new broad and start all over with her.....stuff gets old. I'd just rather find the one person i click with and go from there. I focus on trips/spending money because that seems to be the almighty reason most dudes in here don't want to get married, I mean if every chick you meet is making you think about your dough, then maybe go to another watering hole. I have never worried about that kinda stuff when I was growing up because I knew the women I had been with were never thinking like that, and if they were it was my fault.
to an extent it's true. On some deep down level everyone knows who they are truly dealing with and what kind of person they are, the question is "is the juice worth the squeeze?" or when it's time to speak up you do. If a women gets over on you, it's honestly your fault for being a sucker. You can set rules just like they can, why not?