ex asks you to return gifts...what do you do?

[ussjme]

Originally Posted by WallyHopp

where does it end though? you give back some shoes.. she sees that as a sign of weakness and then digs deeper. theres no end in sight with those types..

so what do i do then? how do i end this?

 

[sk23]

Originally Posted by ussjme

Originally Posted by WallyHopp

where does it end though? you give back some shoes.. she sees that as a sign of weakness and then digs deeper. theres no end in sight with those types..

so what do i do then? how do i end this?

just avoid her

 

[ultraviolentkix]

Originally Posted by thegoat121886

if you dont care about being her friend ever again, keep them

wrong! if shes askin for it back, SHE dont care about bein friends again...

 

[jpap348]

tell her she's not getting them back and that's that

 

[ussjme]

i think she is asking for them back to push my buttons,to see if i still care. but i really dont care about her anymore,so ima jus give them back to prove it

 

[gameover2]

normally i wouldn't return them. but it would really depend on what she gave. i mean i wouldn't want to drive around in a car that she bought.that'd give her all the reason to talk ssshhh about me.

 

[damnneardeadstock]

they were GIFTS, meaning they were bought specifically to be given to you

tell her to ****. stupid birds

 

[kanyewestjayz4life]

Id keep it and ignore her, she'll stop sooner or later.

Or if you really dont care about em then give em up.

 

[ev209]

just hit her with the

and keep it movin

 

[916kings]

With my pride I would give it back just so I wouldnt have to deal with him ever again.
But rightfullly no one should ask for your stuff back unless you are in high school or something.

 

[straight lux]

honestly, id keep them because they were given as a gift
but if you said shes going to keep naggin and causing pointless arguments
then thats mos def something u dont need.

 

[kdawg]

Send her an invoice for all the meals or movie tickets etc that you paid for - and ask for half. You have been keeping a spreadsheet haven't you?

Seems fair if she wants everything she paid for back.

 

[aj232kb8]

Originally Posted by CLuTcH 713

Originally Posted by JordanHead2

no. she gave them to you. Therefore they are yours

 

[ajcollections]

If you really felt like you had to give something back, I'd send her a bunch of fakes including:

 

[djmystery2003]

keep them and stop answering her calls shes give up eventually no need to pick up the phone and hear her whine. If she has something really important to sayshe can leave a message.

 

[eight2one]

naw, Im gonna use it even more!

 

[Pmighty]

my response would be

followed by

&
*cue random "u mad" pic/gif

 

[twig1026]

"Sure...I'll set up a private listing for you on ebay"

 

[AL Andretti]

RamZs8906 wrote:

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Hell no... I'm sure you gave her gifts and stuff... They are gifts... she wouldn't even win that case in court...
I have see this also, word to Judge Mathis.

 

[parada45]

Depend on what it is

Shoes I would keep she can't fit them

 

[ajwings23]

I don't know one gives a present and want it back when things don't go well.
Don't make sense. Don't give it back. Screw her. Yeh I said it!

 

[sdfbheat]

I take it like this you keep it. it was a gift. when people do stuff like that at the end of a relationship i see them treating it like a divorce and beingPetty come on what is she gonna do with the kicks

cant pass em on tothe next dude. shes just trying to break u down man dont give in the least you could do is keep your balls

 

[j671]

keep em

 

[registered]

Keep it bro. Gifts are gifts. I bought tons of ++#$ for my gf and if we break up and she wants some stuff back she bought me I would just say "++#!it" and mention all the ++#$ I bought her.

 

[dirtylicious]

Originally Posted by kdawg

Send her an invoice for all the meals or movie tickets etc that you paid for - and ask for half. You have been keeping a spreadsheet haven't you?

Seems fair if she wants everything she paid for back.

ditto