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*@#%% is crazy
Girl problem, please give me your insight
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That's the pinnacle of frustration right there.
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I'd run. She needs to work on her insecurities before she can be in a healthy relationship. Either that or she's cheating on you.
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My man, I just got out of a similar situation....you did TOO MUCH....never give these girls yourpasswords man, she will try to turn every single occurrence into you cheating on her.....trust me, she doesn't trust you now, she prolly never did....notyour fault tho, she just has far too much baggage. I always tell these chics to figure themselves out first before we can go further....cause I am not dealingwith your exes, I'm dealing with you, I don't need to feel the pain that they caused you, cause I aint them......
with that said, you need to take a break from this chic so she can collect herself.....the absencewill either make her smarten up, or it will make her extreme case of insecurity come closer to light.....if it's the latter of the two, you need to end itcompletely
with that said, you need to take a break from this chic so she can collect herself.....the absencewill either make her smarten up, or it will make her extreme case of insecurity come closer to light.....if it's the latter of the two, you need to end itcompletely
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I would've posted pics of your ex on NT. But yeah dump her, you dont want that kind of headache.
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how can she slap?
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no disrespect fam, but u need to grow some balls and play THE MAN'S role. based on what u said, it is obvious that SHE is the dominant force in thisrelationship and SHE wears the pants.
apparently u've allowed her to treat u this way and conduct herself in this manner so obviously she doesn't see anything wrong with the way she treatsu. this is now normal and acceptable behavior in her mind when she gets upsaet b/c u didn't set the perameters from the jump like u were supposed to.
the dead giveaway is when u said she called back and asked if U were done having an attitude.
although all women will usually TRY this reverse psychology,once u let her know what time it really is that will come to a screeching halt... UNLESS it is apparent that u are the WEAKER of the 2 (see: pushover) and shewill continue with this kind of behavior.
WHY??
becaue she KNOWS that u are easily manipulated.
i was essentially raised by my older sister. she is where i got all my game from. i had the advantage of growing up seeing the type of evil, manipulativethings women will do to men, IF WE ALLOW THEM TO. they LOVE to get in our heads.
one thing to remember though, regardless of what they may tell u, A REAL WOMAN DOES NOT RESPECT A MAN THAT IS A PUSHOVER. women want to be dominated and toldwhat to do. they want to know their man has everything under control and can take care of everything.
take it for what it's worth fam, but the bottom line is YOU HAVE ALLOWED THINGS TO GET THIS FAR, PERIOD.
apparently u've allowed her to treat u this way and conduct herself in this manner so obviously she doesn't see anything wrong with the way she treatsu. this is now normal and acceptable behavior in her mind when she gets upsaet b/c u didn't set the perameters from the jump like u were supposed to.
the dead giveaway is when u said she called back and asked if U were done having an attitude.
WHY??
becaue she KNOWS that u are easily manipulated.
i was essentially raised by my older sister. she is where i got all my game from. i had the advantage of growing up seeing the type of evil, manipulativethings women will do to men, IF WE ALLOW THEM TO. they LOVE to get in our heads.
one thing to remember though, regardless of what they may tell u, A REAL WOMAN DOES NOT RESPECT A MAN THAT IS A PUSHOVER. women want to be dominated and toldwhat to do. they want to know their man has everything under control and can take care of everything.
take it for what it's worth fam, but the bottom line is YOU HAVE ALLOWED THINGS TO GET THIS FAR, PERIOD.
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pookie speakin that knowledge
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you have no idea, she broke up with me to try and prove a pt and I was like F this, I'm not getting back...she was one of those types (thinkini'd be like I'M SO SORRY), she tried to get back with me for 2 yrs but I wasn't having it, I hit it for a good 2 yrs then she realized it was nevergonna be a relationship again b/c I refused to go through that BS with her, no strings she had no leg to stand on as far as fighting with me, I was in control
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Cheat on her so she'll have a reason to act like that
but forreal... dump her... thats way too much drama and trouble
but forreal... dump her... thats way too much drama and trouble
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If he did delete them then they're in the recycling binOriginally Posted by Crank Lucas
I know you still got the ex pictures, and hope you didnt REALLY delete them
you never delete pictures like that my friend, you just keep then very hidden, you probably had the %*#% on your desktop like what
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Honestly, as politically incorrect as this is, I feel the same.
I was brainwashed by the media in to thinking the majority of women are on some "independant woman" steez, when it's just a couple of loudfeminists and scorned women who feel that way. I've done phone surveys across the nation for near 4 years and you won't believe how many grown womensay "The man should be the head of the household" or some other comment like that. Then chicks I personally know who are on that "A woman can doeverything a man can do" tip all of a sudden saying similar things
I'm not saying women are born this way, but they are cultured in to wanting this type of thing. Once you realize this it completely change your outlookon women.
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u have to remember... "politically correct" really means be FAKE and never say what's REALLY on ur mind.
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*remembers to better hide naked pics of ex*
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Some great advice in here, thank you all for your help I really appreciate this. I do feel like I am doing too much, I really like this girl and didn'twant to lose her but now I just can't take this drama anymore. For anyone that is in my situation, or may be in the future..This is not worth it..There isbetter out there trust me.
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you have no idea, she broke up with me to try and prove a pt and I was like F this, I'm not getting back...she was one of those types (thinkin i'd be like I'M SO SORRY), she tried to get back with me for 2 yrs but I wasn't having it, I hit it for a good 2 yrs then she realized it was never gonna be a relationship again b/c I refused to go through that BS with her, no strings she had no leg to stand on as far as fighting with me, I was in control
I mean on the bright side, it looks like you came out on top (no pun).
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I couldnt help but to stop reading after this point.
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Insecure chicks FTL
put em up
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Originally Posted by CharmCityKid
no disrespect fam, but u need to grow some balls and play THE MAN'S role. based on what u said, it is obvious that SHE is the dominant force in this relationship and SHE wears the pants.
apparently u've allowed her to treat u this way and conduct herself in this manner so obviously she doesn't see anything wrong with the way she treats u. this is now normal and acceptable behavior in her mind when she gets upsaet b/c u didn't set the perameters from the jump like u were supposed to.
the dead giveaway is when u said she called back and asked if U were done having an attitude.although all women will usually TRY this reverse psychology, once u let her know what time it really is that will come to a screeching halt... UNLESS it is apparent that u are the WEAKER of the 2 (see: pushover) and she will continue with this kind of behavior.
WHY??
becaue she KNOWS that u are easily manipulated.
i was essentially raised by my older sister. she is where i got all my game from. i had the advantage of growing up seeing the type of evil, manipulative things women will do to men, IF WE ALLOW THEM TO. they LOVE to get in our heads.
one thing to remember though, regardless of what they may tell u, A REAL WOMAN DOES NOT RESPECT A MAN THAT IS A PUSHOVER. women want to be dominated and told what to do. they want to know their man has everything under control and can take care of everything.
take it for what it's worth fam, but the bottom line is YOU HAVE ALLOWED THINGS TO GET THIS FAR, PERIOD.
this mans knows what hes talking bout.
Dominating her doesnt mean yelling and screaming at her, but when something is done wrong that you dont agree with(like adults) let it be known asap. Make yourwomen feel sercure.(letting her know you got her back in any situation) Let her know all that questioning and not trusting you, is slowing push you away fromthe relationship. You and her should both sit down and have a talk about things that bother yall and how BOTH can work on fixing them.
mean relationships are hard work yo.
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control your girl
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Nah leave that homie, spitting? #+* how old is your girl? and hitting you in the head like you some little kid. Looks like she doesnt know how to act and talkthings out. She is too imature for relationships. By the way do you still have those pics of the ex? Send me those and il send some of a chick i know.
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that dude Keithdajuiceman will give you the best answer
