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Well NT I need your advice and sorry I don't have pictures
To give you a little background info we've been together for 10 months and the L word is in effect. For the past month me and my girl soon to be free agenthave been going through a nice number of problems. Don't worry I'm not going to sit here and bore you and spill my guts on the keyboard.
Well last night me and my girl were arguing about her text issues. She has a male friend she texts ALOT. When I asked her about it she said they text late (1-5A.M.) because he gets off at 11(like I give a F). So I proceeded to to get more and more pissed because I don't know about you guys/ladies but it soundslike a girlfriend making time for her boyfriend. So then I start to think who fights this hard for a male/female friend their just cool with?
So to fast forward, before I went home we were talking to her Mom and she sided with me saying it sounds like they are getting too close and she needs to chillwith all that. So when I get home we start texting and she starts to saying how she thinks she may have rushed into this relationship. So I start thinking"where was all this when I was spending cash I didn't have? Where was this when I'm always looking at bus times making sure she gets to work ontime? Where was this when I was taking food out my fridge to give to her because the food money was gone and she didn't have anything to eat or drink?Where was this all those nights I risked my safety to go meet her downtown and made sure she got home safe? EVERYNIGHT just about." Anyway she starts toramble on how Michael Jackson (YES WACKO JACKO) didn't have a childhood and how that has effected him. So I just came out and said "You basicallywant to play the field and then have me to come back to when your done?" and she basically said yeah but she doesn't fully want that because then Iwon't be there (YOU DAMN SKIPPY I WONT). So then she starts saying how people at that age (17) can't control who they fall for.And this is basicallywhere I broke down and I hate crying but I couldn't help it.My grandpa passed away due to a heart attack and other health problems two weeks ago (God Blesshis soul) and she hits me with the "I don't know what I want right now.I still love you though"
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Well that basically wraps it up. She now has feelings for her male friend and she said she doesn't know what to do with those feelings because she stillloves me. I'm not even going to go into further detail on what I've done for this girl
. Well NT your advice/input is needed. Oh and my bad if there are any errors oryou can't understand what was said. Just tell me and I'll edit it.
To give you a little background info we've been together for 10 months and the L word is in effect. For the past month me and my girl soon to be free agenthave been going through a nice number of problems. Don't worry I'm not going to sit here and bore you and spill my guts on the keyboard.
Well last night me and my girl were arguing about her text issues. She has a male friend she texts ALOT. When I asked her about it she said they text late (1-5A.M.) because he gets off at 11(like I give a F). So I proceeded to to get more and more pissed because I don't know about you guys/ladies but it soundslike a girlfriend making time for her boyfriend. So then I start to think who fights this hard for a male/female friend their just cool with?
So to fast forward, before I went home we were talking to her Mom and she sided with me saying it sounds like they are getting too close and she needs to chillwith all that. So when I get home we start texting and she starts to saying how she thinks she may have rushed into this relationship. So I start thinking"where was all this when I was spending cash I didn't have? Where was this when I'm always looking at bus times making sure she gets to work ontime? Where was this when I was taking food out my fridge to give to her because the food money was gone and she didn't have anything to eat or drink?Where was this all those nights I risked my safety to go meet her downtown and made sure she got home safe? EVERYNIGHT just about." Anyway she starts toramble on how Michael Jackson (YES WACKO JACKO) didn't have a childhood and how that has effected him. So I just came out and said "You basicallywant to play the field and then have me to come back to when your done?" and she basically said yeah but she doesn't fully want that because then Iwon't be there (YOU DAMN SKIPPY I WONT). So then she starts saying how people at that age (17) can't control who they fall for.And this is basicallywhere I broke down and I hate crying but I couldn't help it.My grandpa passed away due to a heart attack and other health problems two weeks ago (God Blesshis soul) and she hits me with the "I don't know what I want right now.I still love you though"
Well that basically wraps it up. She now has feelings for her male friend and she said she doesn't know what to do with those feelings because she stillloves me. I'm not even going to go into further detail on what I've done for this girl