HEARTBREAK

Discussion in 'General' started by KHUFU, Jul 18, 2019.

  1. KHUFU

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    How many of you have had a woman break your heart, disappoint you, which changed your thinking about women forever?
    Did you ever think about revenge on the offending individual? Or have you decided to simply try and take it out on all other women?
    Have you ever recovered from the pain, or are you still bitter?

    Can you trust women?
     
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  2. alchemist iq

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    I trust nobody.
     
  3. KHUFU

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  4. RIP sleazyy

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    Have had my heart broken. Used to take it out on other women.

    Had a daughter, somewhat changed my way of thinking. Only trust other people to a certain extent though. Definitely not bitter. Couldn’t imagine holding on to those feelings, sounds like torture.
     
  5. tr1ll

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  6. アキラ

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    Heart broken twice. You never really fully recover because it’s always in your memories I feel like. But as time went by it got better and better and you learn to move on as much as possible.
     
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  7. KHUFU

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  8. nawghtyhare

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    yes i have
    spoken about her a few times on here............


    It was the fall of 2003
    This girl was like a rose blooming in a pile of ****
    She had braces wore glasses
    Had dusty *** white/white air forces
    She was white/mexican
    Long black flowing hair
    Perky ****
    Lil cute butt
    Slim waist
    Pretty face
    But pretty much a ******* square
    I scooped her up when she was nothing
    Put her on to good music and artist to listen to
    Helped her get contacts
    Showed her the proper jordans and dunks and air forces to wear
    Helped her ice out the right clothes to show off her body while still being classy and looking nice
    Bruhs I showed her what it was like to eat at the Cheesecake Factory
    Man I even ate the box religiously
    Her juices tasted so damn sweet
    Like nectar
    Introduced her to moms
    Always ate dinner at her fams house
    Used to beat it up on her couch while her parents and brother in the next room
    Used to finger her while at the movie theater
    Used to have her come over to my house and beat it up all day
    Sneak her in at night and beat that thang up till early morning
    Used to catch the bart train every wed Friday sat and Sunday
    From concord to sf to meet her after school and go to the movies
    Or take her shopping or out to eat
    BRUHS I was in love
    I loved her bruhs
    Like I really did
    I wanted her to have my baby :smh:
    I even sucked her toes
    I wanted to trap her
    She was a legit 10 after I fixed her up
    She was a 6 before
    She lied to me bruhs
    She lied
    She started talking to this dude Mike
    Bruhs
    She was seeing him behind my back
    I wanted to fight dude so damn bad
    But she was playing games
    Idk if she was just playing me
    Or both of us
    I legit had tears
    I thought she was mine
    All mine
    She was until Mike came in the picture
    I gave her a choice
    :smh: :smh: :smh:
    She choose Mike
    I was hurting yall
    I was hurting
    Took a minute to get over it
    Honestly if I'm being real im still not
    I'm fb friends and ig friends with her
    We watched the notebook together
    BRUHS
    She said she wanted that to be us
    And I believed her :smh:
    It really hurt me took a few months for me to move on
    I saved her only for her to run off to someone else.
    ive reopened the wound now..........
     
  9. アキラ

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    You was my baby’s, my ****ing cinnamon apple!
     
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  10. DoubleH

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    Takes time to heal. Years maybe. Still having trouble trusting them.
     
  11. debso

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    Theres levels to love...I thought I felt heartbreak before but I hadn't...
    Til I broke up with who I felt like was the one.
    I was sick son. Sick. I don't think you ever fully recover either. Itll always be in the back of my head but I've moved on and this was years ago. I learned a lot from that relationship and it helped me to become a better person. I was at fault and didnt know what I had... I didnt cheat or anything but I was bombing at that time and put more effort into that than I did my relationship at the time.

    Kinda the start of what made me stop.
    I deadass had a 2 hour convo walking home after bombing with a homeless dude who also was heartbroken. **** is real.
     
  12. KHUFU

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    If you could, what would you say to other men who have suffered through that same situation? How would you help them to recover?
     
  13. nawghtyhare

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    get u some P
    hop on plenty of fish
    if thats still a thing
    and get to work
    or call up all ur old work who u know u can smash
    and just do random dates with females
    to get ur mind off it
     
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  14. debso

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    Everything has a purpose. Sometimes ppl are put into your life for the purpose of learning.

    Sometimes you learn what you want or dont want or to become a better person or to understand yourself better.
     
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  15. KHUFU

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    How about working on yourself, improving self esteem without trampling upon others? Any reading advice, something to empower yourself to not make the same mistakes again? As DC says, I come in peace!
     
  16. KHUFU

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    Hmmm, learning how NOT to be. People can only take advantage of what you are not aware of, right my man? Recognizing that takes courage. I admire your response.
     
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  17. nawghtyhare

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    oh.....
    i mean.......
    yeah thats cool
    but im vindictive
    kinda heartless unless its my kids and immediate fam
    so maybe i deserved it
    but when i got played
    i went all in on the yambs
    like i was actually faithful to her ***
    when i coulda cheated multiple times :smh:
     
  18. KHUFU

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    It seems as if this world has set men up to fail. We often have expectations of others, that we are not able to live up to ourselves. The whole idea of MAN, has heights that are not achievable for many. So when we fall, the ego is bruised so badly, we need others to feel that pain. We become a bully of sorts. The main issue is the male ego, and the need to control others. You can't buy people, and you can't make people love you. Monogamy is a huge problem as well.
     
  19. wayniac211

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    Lol at thread start. Let it go bruh. Don’t let em get to you. It’s all jokey jokes
     
  20. Meangene45

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    Been Dealing with heartbreak for over a month right now. IT sucks man. Right now just working on myself.
     
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  21. Upptempo

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    I think having your heart broken makes you not care, but in a positive way. Like when you’re in love with a girl that you invest your entire outlook on your future into, you care TOO much because the idea of her leaving and altering the future in your mind is too painful.

    But when a girl breaks your heart and you move on, you can still care for another woman but you have the ability to not care about what you can’t control. You do all you can to make her happy but you don’t stress over the idea she might wanna leave one day. You just think “if she wants to go she can go” At least that’s my experience
     
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  23. KHUFU

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    Great, quick read.
     
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  25. wayniac211

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    It happens. But it can run deeper and trigger past trauma. Being an empathetic healthy person helps you deal better when ratchet *** **** step outta line