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i with a girl and i cheated a bunch of times and she knew but she still stayed with me its been to years wince i last talked to her and she said i never wannahear from you again
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i must say I agreeOriginally Posted by freshhh
real talk ima sound like a jerk
but if i cheated, and i still wanted to be with the girl, id think eventually she'd forgive me
but if she was creepin, its a wrap.
i know its not fair, but thats just how it is for me i guess
Originally Posted by Pill Clinton
op always making threads about females and #*$!
simp
This exact situation happened to me 3 weeks ago and i dropped shorty.Originally Posted by PrurientSole
If my girl just got drunk one night and *+%#+$ some dude, then immediately came to me and admitted that she *+%#+$ up, I could forgive her for that. People make mistakes, that's why there's a word for it.
tru story!!Originally Posted by kidUFC
once you cheat and been forgiven, the relationship is never the same.. so why be in it?
Thank you for your honesty. I basically said what you said, but I was the one betrayed. What I bolded in what you said is very true. It is suchself-destructive behaviour. It is one of the most despicable selfish acts you can do. To give someone that false sense of security, trust, and love. The lies,the deceit,the betrayal. You sharing all that with the one who was your supposed one and only, and then giving it to someone else just as easy. Then what wassacred anymore? How can you love someone and do that to them? I still have all these questions that will never be answered. Definitely has shook me to thecore.Originally Posted by superuntouchable
Cheating is one of the most vile things that you can do to the one that you love. An affair is even worse because it involves emotional attachments and requires quite a bit more deception. To be able to forgive that sort of betrayal takes a big heart, a strong soul and maybe a little something else that some of us don't have (IDK what it is tho). While I have been the betrayer and have been forgiven (but not taken back) before in my lifetime (these things not only destroy relationships, they destroy families too), I am not sure that I would be able to do the same. This behavior can BREAK a person and knowing the pain that it causes, I for one, would never do it to ANYONE again. I sincerely regret what I did and like Infyrno said, sometimes it takes a person losing the person they really love to see that they royally f'ed up. With all that said, I'm not really sure I could forgive someone who does it to me (Karma is a @#*#% ...) but because of the fact that I was forgiven, I would at least try...
but the point is that you're completely ignoring the effect of your actions, regardless of the fact that it's "just physical,"on your girl and your relationship.Originally Posted by SneakerPimp2k8
some peoples responses seem really bizarre to me, reason being you have to understand a man to really understand what cheating is for MOST of us. It is completely physical, there is no love/emotion/feelings involved. They are just a body, just a fuxx... I don't even remember some of their names. Its just a casual act, therefore when i get back to my wife aka "home" I didn't come from making love or wining/dining.....we are not loving these hos mannnnn. The sooner women understand this the sooner the more simple their life will be.
Originally Posted by UCLAMIKE
Originally Posted by Seymore CAKE
Honestly... once the trust is gone its GONE.
Originally Posted by Enlightened Thought
Originally Posted by SneakerPimp2k8
Originally Posted by freshhh
real talk ima sound like a jerk
but if i cheated, and i still wanted to be with the girl, id think eventually she'd forgive me
but if she was creepin, its a wrap.
i know its not fair, but thats just how it is for me i guess
THIS IS HOW EVERY MAN ON EARTH FEELS. THE END
essentially.
Originally Posted by Dirtylicious
but the point is that you're completely ignoring the effect of your actions, regardless of the fact that it's "just physical," on your girl and your relationship.Originally Posted by SneakerPimp2k8
some peoples responses seem really bizarre to me, reason being you have to understand a man to really understand what cheating is for MOST of us. It is completely physical, there is no love/emotion/feelings involved. They are just a body, just a fuxx... I don't even remember some of their names. Its just a casual act, therefore when i get back to my wife aka "home" I didn't come from making love or wining/dining.....we are not loving these hos mannnnn. The sooner women understand this the sooner the more simple their life will be.
in other words... you chose to ignore and abandon your relationship and your girl...just so that you can get a piece.
Originally Posted by airmaxpenny1
My brother's GF caught him cheating a year ago. Brother took a girl home was getting some top and his girl popped out from under the bed swinging at him and the chick.
He managed to work it out with his girl but there relationship hasn't been the same since. Whenever he goes out, she tells him if he cheats on her she is going to kill him. %%*$* is a crazy rican chick so I wouldn't put it past her.
Originally Posted by AKA King Arthur
if you cheat on a girland you tell heryou are a weak person
there is no reason to make her feel bad about
you did it now live with it thats your burdden you have to bare
not hers
Originally Posted by SneakerPimp2k8
Dirtylicious wrote:
but the point is that you're completely ignoring the effect of your actions, regardless of the fact that it's "just physical," on your girl and your relationship.Originally Posted by SneakerPimp2k8
some peoples responses seem really bizarre to me, reason being you have to understand a man to really understand what cheating is for MOST of us. It is completely physical, there is no love/emotion/feelings involved. They are just a body, just a fuxx... I don't even remember some of their names. Its just a casual act, therefore when i get back to my wife aka "home" I didn't come from making love or wining/dining.....we are not loving these hos mannnnn. The sooner women understand this the sooner the more simple their life will be.
in other words... you chose to ignore and abandon your relationship and your girl...just so that you can get a piece.
Originally Posted by Hugo
Originally Posted by YoUNg bR3aD
Originally Posted by SneakerPimp2k8
Originally Posted by freshhh
real talk ima sound like a jerk
but if i cheated, and i still wanted to be with the girl, id think eventually she'd forgive me
but if she was creepin, its a wrap.
i know its not fair, but thats just how it is for me i guess
THIS IS HOW EVERY MAN ON EARTH FEELS. THE END
QFT
Originally Posted by DearWinter219
Yeah.... aight my __... $@#$ around and be quoting "See I'm a man with pride, you don't do %+*$ like that. I was just %!%%*!@ them girls, I was gon get right back" next...