If you "seal the deal" without taking her out on a date, do you rule her out?

[dipsetgeneral]

Originally Posted by ScottHallWithAPick

Originally Posted by DipsetGeneral

Dates are becoming/became obsolete already. With all the social networking and phone apps/devices (e.i. Skype/Oovoo).
People have already "been on a date" by the time they meet up in person.

1st educated post from you. I agree with this but not just the meet up in person. If I get your number, we could text and tweet each other a lot for awhile and beat.

I disagree wit' the 1st educated post. I stay droppin' knowledge 

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I agree wit' the rest of what you jus' said Razor Ramon.

 

[bratz dos]

Originally Posted by Nktran001

Originally Posted by iBlink

Originally Posted by toast1985

Funny, some of these chicks rule you dudes out too.

Who cares? We already got the tw@

 

[ninjahood]

Originally Posted by Iceberg Slim

No I dont rule her out. Thats that high school mentality. Casual sex happens

this.

 

[Mark Antony]

Keyword "rule". Drop them joints, do you. What are you really feeling?

 

[speakup23]

Originally Posted by Mark Antony

Keyword "rule". Drop them joints, do you. What are you really feeling?

What the hell are you saying dude?

 

[Mark Antony]

Originally Posted by SpeakUp23

Originally Posted by Mark Antony

Keyword "rule". Drop them joints, do you. What are you really feeling?

What the hell are you saying dude?

When it comes to women, especially you nters, you have too many rules and preconditions instead of just going with the flow.  You sposed to do this, don't do that.  $#!! all that and your boys and NT, how do you really feel about this young lady? you dig her? keep digging her. don't like her? strike her.

 

[speakup23]

Originally Posted by Mark Antony

Originally Posted by SpeakUp23

Originally Posted by Mark Antony

Keyword "rule". Drop them joints, do you. What are you really feeling?

What the hell are you saying dude?

When it comes to women, especially you nters, you have too many rules and preconditions instead of just going with the flow.  You sposed to do this, don't do that.  $#!! all that and your boys and NT, how do you really feel about this young lady? you dig her? keep digging her. don't like her? strike her.

Wow, I totally interpreted your original statement completely the wrong way. But yea I 100% agree

. Just do what you want. Like you said if you're feeling her, then that's all that matters. $!%% all these rules.

 

[regal black]

Originally Posted by SpeakUp23

Originally Posted by Mark Antony

Originally Posted by SpeakUp23

What the hell are you saying dude?

When it comes to women, especially you nters, you have too many rules and preconditions instead of just going with the flow.  You sposed to do this, don't do that.  $#!! all that and your boys and NT, how do you really feel about this young lady? you dig her? keep digging her. don't like her? strike her.

Wow, I totally interpreted your original statement completely the wrong way. But yea I 100% agree

. Just do what you want. Like you said if you're feeling her, then that's all that matters. $!%% all these rules.

Realize that every woman is different

 

[651akathepaul]

Depends. The first time I met my ex, we were vibing so hard that by the end of the night it was on. There was no stopping it.

 

[pharelfor3]

mope. might need them later

 

[me no pass]

Originally Posted by shoefreakbaby

Originally Posted by iBlink

Originally Posted by toast1985

Funny, some of these chicks rule you dudes out too.

Who cares? We already got the tw@

But it doesn't make sense. 
You let her smash with no date, that doesn't mean you are a *&^,

 that doesn't mean you are not the relationship type.

Give her a chance.

Its funny cause your damned if you do damned if you don't.

Let him smash, he thinks you're a %$%.

Don't let him smash, he never calls again, your a prude.

She probably thought, "I like this dude and what if I don't put out he wont like me"

Times have changed ppls minds have been tainted.

"If I dont $%$^ the first night I aint gonna call her"

 

[i live in texas]

A lot of you folks are using the club as the setting, which in a sense, means she probably frequents it often and smashes other cats "casually". So yeah, I would drop her.

 

[atlien seeko]

Still has potential. Every situation is different.

 

[koudie from brooklyn]

Definitely ruled out.. i usually keep em around anyway lol i like collecting chicks.. like pokemon <3

 

[monstar1]

I like my woman with no class like school's out
After they get the foot long they all gettin' ruled out

-MonStar

 

[thunderchunk69]

Originally Posted by ScottHallWithAPick

Originally Posted by DipsetGeneral

Dates are becoming/became obsolete already. With all the social networking and phone apps/devices (e.i. Skype/Oovoo).
People have already "been on a date" by the time they meet up in person.

1st educated post from you.

 

[utvol23]

lets say you dated your girl a month before you smashed later in the relationship you found out she had had a one night stand before do you then rule her out?

 

[monstar1]

Originally Posted by ThunderChunk69

Originally Posted by ScottHallWithAPick

Originally Posted by DipsetGeneral

Dates are becoming/became obsolete already. With all the social networking and phone apps/devices (e.i. Skype/Oovoo).
People have already "been on a date" by the time they meet up in person.

1st educated post from you.

  

 

[north dade represent]

Originally Posted by MonStar1

I like my woman with no class like school's out
After they get the foot long they all gettin' ruled out

-MonStar

That was beyond ill.

Back to the question. Definitely depends on the situation. Sometimes it just pops off like that. No need to discard just because it went down.

 

[bleach]

based on past experiences, that's definitely a red flag for me now

 

[supa vegetto]

Originally Posted by sillyputty

Depends on the convo.

She could just be a really cool person thats not into all of that stuff.

since when has this happened to you? 

what the hell have you been up to man

AND it depends on the chick.. you know when you want to seriously date someone.

 

[eight2one]

Originally Posted by DipsetGeneral

Dates are becoming/became obsolete already. With all the social networking and phone apps/devices (e.i. Skype/Oovoo).
People have already "been on a date" by the time they meet up in person.

this, plus sometimes its nice to have someone you're familiar with.

 

[jking0821]

Originally Posted by eight2one

Originally Posted by DipsetGeneral

Dates are becoming/became obsolete already. With all the social networking and phone apps/devices (e.i. Skype/Oovoo).
People have already "been on a date" by the time they meet up in person.

this, plus sometimes its nice to have someone you're familiar with.

I find this to be the biggest problem actually.

Meet a girl one time exchange numbers....text for like 3 days i already know damb near everything about her.  I would rather exchange numbers send her a text and say hey lets grab drinks friday or something and not talk to her until then.  So then i can actually have a conversation with her about life.  Women these days just with the nonstop texting.  When we finally hang out every aspect of your life has already been covered via text.  At that point all i really want to do is have physical relations since we have covered everything else leading up to the date

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But on topic....no i don't rule a girl out if i seal the deal without a date.  Every situation is different.

 

[reeceman10]

She stays on the roster for smashing purposes. I'm not dining the shorty if she gave it up already. Lol. If we chillin, I'm smashing.

 

[g14]

if she got kids...she is RULED WAY OUT~ 1