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Was sup NT first off thanks for taking the time to read this,I am really going through a lot and have no one to talk to. Basically me and mywife of two years are having problems and might be headed to divorce courtbecause we can’t communicate and we think it might be best we go our separateways. Things started to go down hill last yr when she lost her job in January andI stated doing overtime the whole yr to make ends meet pay for some trips wehad already started paying for and brought my mom to stay for summer cause I didn’tsee her for four years. All this time I am working hard paying all the bills andother stuff you would think she would make it easy for me to come home after working10 to 10 each day, instead she would complain about us not spending time, whichI understood and apologized multiple times and asked her to hold me down whileim doing this for us cause as much she was missing me I was to missing heralso, so I would try to take her out on dates from time to time and do littlethings to show her I care so you would think she would take it easy on me atleast for showing effort but no all she does is nag and continue to complain.So I basically got sick of it because I don’t feel she is appreciative at all, Istill have to clean the house most times and cant even have a sandwich madeafter a hard days work. So we now have been arguing for months, she cant standme and I cant stand her, I would like to make things work and have asked herfor us to start over and try to work as a team but she insists that I should bethe one the make the first move to try to make things right but I refuse to lether sit and evaluate me on what im doing while she has nothing to give. Should Ibe the bigger man and try to make things work or keep it moving with my life,mature suggestions only. Sorry for the long read and please excuse my grammer