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Originally Posted by ispeakjewleo
This, save yourself a ton of money and time bOriginally Posted by WhatsLosinLike
Drop her.
well you could go the revenge route (see bottom of 1st page of this thread)...you could just get your stuff, leave on a good note and wait for her to schmooze her way back into her life to smash and dash. But it's hard not to get emotional during something like this...like getting angry and blowing up on a #%%$%.Originally Posted by yomegaaa
Originally Posted by GrimlocK
damn I hate hearing things like this. OP what can I tell you man...your heated and it's understandable. But when you say she was with another man...do you mean physically or just in the presence of another dude? I don't try and do the guesswork in someone else's problems...but if physicality was involved thats kinda hard to just shrug off.
I'd like to tell you to stay calm when dealing with her but that's up to you. If it was me I'd be hurt like no other but i'd get my ring back, pick up the pieces and reassemble them as quickly as possible.
Another thing...don't let these responses you get make you more heated than you already are. I mean this girl was with you for a while and there was something about you that made her stick around so if she *%%%+% up thats on her...
Yea she basically had a one night stand with some guy after going out drinking with her friends. Trust is hard to rebuild and I honestly don't think there is anything that can be done to repair it. I'm just really heated that she is capable of doing something so stupid and throw away everything we had because she made a "mistake." 4 years down the drain
Originally Posted by Mark Antony
I don't think women realize alcohol is a poor excuse. We all been drunk, but there's a difference between choosing to smash a mud duck when you're single vs a friend while you're engaged. Ultimately you know what you're doing.
Originally Posted by jm2000
Dead her. Throw 10 jagers to the dome and go out with your buddies
Originally Posted by keithsweatsjordans
Originally Posted by jm2000
Dead her. Throw 10 jagers to the dome and go out with your buddies
Thats like throwing a band-aid on a point blank shotgun wound.
That really really really really really sucks tho man. Stories like this really lower my expectations for a successful marriage even tho I know they shouldn't. Silver lining in all this is that she at least was honest and told you about it. Could've happened much further down the road when there was more invested, and thats not to say 4 years isn't. Damn bro....
This.Originally Posted by Supermanblue79
-Log off NT.
-Proceed to Ex's home address
-Forcefully relieve Ex of engagement ring.
-Cut off all communication with Ex.
-Live life to the fullest.
This.Originally Posted by Supermanblue79
-Log off NT.
-Proceed to Ex's home address
-Forcefully relieve Ex of engagement ring.
-Cut off all communication with Ex.
-Live life to the fullest.