NT, I am catching feelings for a girl who is engaged....need advice (Pic)

[i noah dentist]

I am going to make this as short as possible.
- Began working with this girl several months ago. (she was already engaged before I met her)

- I wasn't trying to catch feelings, but did.

- I can tell she is feeling me.

- He fiance is a lame, but he has money.

- IMO, She seems a little young (22) to be engaged.

- She is clearly not madly in love with her fiance.

Bottom line....what should I do?  Should I just cut her off before the feelings get stronger, or try to get her to break off the engagement (which I think is possible)?

Pic of her

 

[i noah dentist]

I am going to make this as short as possible.
- Began working with this girl several months ago. (she was already engaged before I met her)

- I wasn't trying to catch feelings, but did.

- I can tell she is feeling me.

- He fiance is a lame, but he has money.

- IMO, She seems a little young (22) to be engaged.

- She is clearly not madly in love with her fiance.

Bottom line....what should I do?  Should I just cut her off before the feelings get stronger, or try to get her to break off the engagement (which I think is possible)?

Pic of her

 

[oidreez]

why dont you find a girl who is not engaged?

 

[oidreez]

why dont you find a girl who is not engaged?

 

[dirtylicious]

cute girl.
but walk away

btw....
- I can tell she is feeling me.
- She is clearly not madly in love with her fiance.
..how do you know this?

 

[dirtylicious]

cute girl.
but walk away

btw....
- I can tell she is feeling me.
- She is clearly not madly in love with her fiance.
..how do you know this?

 

[brettthejett]

girls cheat. just have her as a sider

 

[mauriciogarcia]

Originally Posted by I Noah Dentist


just cut her off before the feelings get stronger

Shes engaged for a reason.



  

 

[brettthejett]

girls cheat. just have her as a sider

 

[mauriciogarcia]

Originally Posted by I Noah Dentist


just cut her off before the feelings get stronger

Shes engaged for a reason.



  

 

[maza4ever14]

Damned if you do and damned if you don't.

Might as well try to get at her. She is attractive.

 

[maza4ever14]

Damned if you do and damned if you don't.

Might as well try to get at her. She is attractive.

 

[kickhead23]

Obviously she is down for commitmentm so if your trying to hit-n-run don't do it in the name of the engadgement. But if the feelings are mutual and you are wanting to commit heavy to her as well, I would still say leave it alone but that at least stands better ground for going for it instead of just trying to hit.

 

[kickhead23]

Obviously she is down for commitmentm so if your trying to hit-n-run don't do it in the name of the engadgement. But if the feelings are mutual and you are wanting to commit heavy to her as well, I would still say leave it alone but that at least stands better ground for going for it instead of just trying to hit.

 

[rawex5]

She's just a flirt.

 

[atlien seeko]

Way to put her on blast.

 

[rawex5]

She's just a flirt.

 

[atlien seeko]

Way to put her on blast.

 

[acidicality]

that is quite young to get engaged (relatively). just stay away.

 

[juggy4805]

If she feeling you she should end the engagement. If she messes with you and doesn't end the engagement, she skank material anyway. If this is a serious job to you.... walk away, if it isn't serious....... a smash and flee sounds about right.

 

[juggy4805]

If she feeling you she should end the engagement. If she messes with you and doesn't end the engagement, she skank material anyway. If this is a serious job to you.... walk away, if it isn't serious....... a smash and flee sounds about right.

 

[acidicality]

that is quite young to get engaged (relatively). just stay away.

 

[general johnson]

What kind of feelings could you possibly have for someone you've spent no real time with?

Do you have deep, meaningful convos with the broad while she's running wings to her table?

Stop being a creep, Van Alden.

Are you smashing? If so, that changes everything.

 

[general johnson]

What kind of feelings could you possibly have for someone you've spent no real time with?

Do you have deep, meaningful convos with the broad while she's running wings to her table?

Stop being a creep, Van Alden.

Are you smashing? If so, that changes everything.

 

[manglor]

Put yourself in HIS shoes and ask yourself what you would want.



Actually, is she already having sex with you?

If so you might as well break them up.

You'd be doing him a huge favor.