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Ok, I'll try to be brief. We had been together for almost three years now. We have been very up and down. I have a friend who is a girl, I'm gonna call her Ashley (not her name) the ex accused me a few times of doing things with her, which I've never done anything with at all. My ex prior, was her ex's brother, so we had a pretty good friendship from that. Well about a month ago I really wanted to see Shutter Island, my girl says nope, she wants nothing to do with that movie. So I tell her I'll see one of her girly movies with her if she sees that with me, she still says no. Well Ashley writes on my facebook wall she'll see it with me, so all of a sudden the next day my girl decides to see Shutter Island w/me. I ask if thats why and she denies. A few weeks later Ashley mentions seeing the movie on a Wednesday night, me and my girl were hanging out the previous night, and I asked her to hang out the next day and she said she can't, she has class from 6-9 and has to be up early the next day. So I end up seeing the movie with Ashley.
Now Ashley dislikes my g/f because she accused her of doing things with me, so she makes her facebook clearly state she's at a movie with me. I already know its not going to end well. The movie ends and my girl asks what I've been doing, I tell her I was at a movie with Ashley, she gets very pissed off. I go off on her about how she has no right to be pissed off, I asked her the night before to do something, me and Ashley are just friends, she's hung out with guys one on one before... I did nothing wrong. She claims I tried to hide it from her. We end up breaking up that night.
A week later I go to get my golf clubs I left at her place, and we talk for a bit. She tells me basically it was the last straw, she needs to move on, she's sick of me lying to her, I need to get my life on the right track, she feel's I had been taking her for granted. I lied to her about going to school this semester when I Was taking the semester off to work more and try to save up money to fix my car. And lie to her about little things, like how much I spent on my speakers, when I am at home doing nothing I would tell her I wasn't playing COD because she was sick of me playing it all the time, and so on. Now i'll admit I had my wrongs, and so has she, I was taking her for granted and not treating her the way she deserved all the time.
Now it's been three weeks and she won't talk to me at all. I've tried a few times to get in contact with her, and she has no response. On AIM she still has away messages that are clearly toward me. It's obvious she misses me, but feels we were stuck in a slump and she even said she wants to be with me but doesn't want to fall into the same old thing of us arguing/fighitng/ etc.
So my question is... will she come around, if I give her space and leave her alone for a few months will she be able to be my friend again? Will she talk to me again? I'm just afraid at this part she wants to forget our 3 years and move on with life completely. Where on a positive note, maybe she needs a break and hopes its a way for us to build on our relationship.
Ehhhh a few pics since its inevitable and I never post any, save any negative comments to yourself please
Now Ashley dislikes my g/f because she accused her of doing things with me, so she makes her facebook clearly state she's at a movie with me. I already know its not going to end well. The movie ends and my girl asks what I've been doing, I tell her I was at a movie with Ashley, she gets very pissed off. I go off on her about how she has no right to be pissed off, I asked her the night before to do something, me and Ashley are just friends, she's hung out with guys one on one before... I did nothing wrong. She claims I tried to hide it from her. We end up breaking up that night.
A week later I go to get my golf clubs I left at her place, and we talk for a bit. She tells me basically it was the last straw, she needs to move on, she's sick of me lying to her, I need to get my life on the right track, she feel's I had been taking her for granted. I lied to her about going to school this semester when I Was taking the semester off to work more and try to save up money to fix my car. And lie to her about little things, like how much I spent on my speakers, when I am at home doing nothing I would tell her I wasn't playing COD because she was sick of me playing it all the time, and so on. Now i'll admit I had my wrongs, and so has she, I was taking her for granted and not treating her the way she deserved all the time.
Now it's been three weeks and she won't talk to me at all. I've tried a few times to get in contact with her, and she has no response. On AIM she still has away messages that are clearly toward me. It's obvious she misses me, but feels we were stuck in a slump and she even said she wants to be with me but doesn't want to fall into the same old thing of us arguing/fighitng/ etc.
So my question is... will she come around, if I give her space and leave her alone for a few months will she be able to be my friend again? Will she talk to me again? I'm just afraid at this part she wants to forget our 3 years and move on with life completely. Where on a positive note, maybe she needs a break and hopes its a way for us to build on our relationship.
Ehhhh a few pics since its inevitable and I never post any, save any negative comments to yourself please