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Man I swear I was like a lot of the people, saying they would never go to a bar or club alone, but things just got to a point where it was either sit at home alone bored like a lame, or AT LEAST go out somewhere and try and get something going even if it is solo dolo. I'm at the age now (25) where most of my friends got kids, getting married, or just too boo'd up to wanna go out and hang out on a regular basis, only once and a while. So I had been thinking about it for a couple of months and told myself that next time I felt like going out and had no one to go with, I would give solo dolo a try. Last night I was at home bored and decided to roll out alone.....
And I gotta say it was one of the BEST Saturday night experiences ever! Went to this bar that had a live dj and a small dance floor that I had went to once before in the past, so I knew it was a decent spot. At first, I almost walked right outta the joint because I wanted to go to the bar and get a drink, but all the seats were full. Sat at this table behind the bar and waited for a bar seat to become available for about 10 mins then I noticed the guy who checked my id at the door kept looking over at me like "this lame ninja over here just looking mad lonely
". After that I was like f it, I aint come all the way out here just to be lonely, so I went to the other side of the joint and was able to squeeze in at the bar to get a drink. Got my drink then proceeded to the area where there were pool tables and watched guys play pool for like 2 minutes, then this chick comes outta nowhere and asks if I came alone. With no shame in my game I replied "yeah". She tells me that her friend she came with was scoping me out since I came in and was feeling the hell out of me and asked if I wanted to come over and meet her. I was like sure... it didn't even cross my mind that this could be some ragedy, beat up girl, I was just happy to have some people to talk to
.
So I go to their table and OMG this woman is just fine as all out doors. She was puerto rican, short, and just the right size with one of those haircuts Cassie made real popular. I bought her a drink and we started talking about ourselves to each other, just kicking it and having a good ol time. After a few drinks we went out to the dance floor and started dancing. Gotta say it was the most difficult dancing I ever did though cause she was mad short and I'm mad tall so I had to bend my knees to dang near a 45 degree angle to dance with her
!
While we dancing, we look back at her friend and she's just going all out tonging this other girl down like they was bout to make love in the club, lol! Then on the dance floor we see this lady who had to be like 50+ with shoulder length blonde hair and obviously a bunch of drinks... she was on the dance floor by herself wasted shaking her hair like Waka Flocka Flame, one of the most hilarious things I've ever seen in life! Toward the end of the night they were about to leave, so I walked them out and left also. By this time I had already got my girl's number. All her friend was telling me was how much ol girl was feeling me and couldn't take her eyes off me since I had came in...
I gotta say this is the best win I ever pulled off from going out anywhere. And no I didn't bring her home and "smash". Never did that before after meeting a girl at the club/bar
lol.
Moral of the story is don't be afraid or ashamed to go out alone every now and then. Yeah sure, not every night is gonna be a win like mine, but you'll never know until you try it. I might have just got lucky, but I know that even if I didn't, i probably wouldn't have had as much fun at home by myself!
Anyone else have any stories from going out to a bar, club, lounge or wherever solo dolo???
And I gotta say it was one of the BEST Saturday night experiences ever! Went to this bar that had a live dj and a small dance floor that I had went to once before in the past, so I knew it was a decent spot. At first, I almost walked right outta the joint because I wanted to go to the bar and get a drink, but all the seats were full. Sat at this table behind the bar and waited for a bar seat to become available for about 10 mins then I noticed the guy who checked my id at the door kept looking over at me like "this lame ninja over here just looking mad lonely
So I go to their table and OMG this woman is just fine as all out doors. She was puerto rican, short, and just the right size with one of those haircuts Cassie made real popular. I bought her a drink and we started talking about ourselves to each other, just kicking it and having a good ol time. After a few drinks we went out to the dance floor and started dancing. Gotta say it was the most difficult dancing I ever did though cause she was mad short and I'm mad tall so I had to bend my knees to dang near a 45 degree angle to dance with her
While we dancing, we look back at her friend and she's just going all out tonging this other girl down like they was bout to make love in the club, lol! Then on the dance floor we see this lady who had to be like 50+ with shoulder length blonde hair and obviously a bunch of drinks... she was on the dance floor by herself wasted shaking her hair like Waka Flocka Flame, one of the most hilarious things I've ever seen in life! Toward the end of the night they were about to leave, so I walked them out and left also. By this time I had already got my girl's number. All her friend was telling me was how much ol girl was feeling me and couldn't take her eyes off me since I had came in...
I gotta say this is the best win I ever pulled off from going out anywhere. And no I didn't bring her home and "smash". Never did that before after meeting a girl at the club/bar
Moral of the story is don't be afraid or ashamed to go out alone every now and then. Yeah sure, not every night is gonna be a win like mine, but you'll never know until you try it. I might have just got lucky, but I know that even if I didn't, i probably wouldn't have had as much fun at home by myself!
Anyone else have any stories from going out to a bar, club, lounge or wherever solo dolo???