On Facebook, wife learns of husband's second wedding vol. I wonder what she did wrong

[brettthejett]

CLEVELAND - Dread of the unknown hung in the air as Lynn France typedtwo words into the search box on Facebook: the name of the woman withwhom she believed her husband was having an affair.

Click. Andthere it was, the stuff of nightmares for any spouse, ****olded or not.Wedding photos. At Walt Disney World, no less, featuring her husbandliterally dressed as Prince Charming. His new wife, a pretty blonde,was a glowing Sleeping Beauty, surrounded by footmen.

"I wasnumb with shock, to tell you the truth," says France, an occupationaltherapist from Westlake, a Cleveland suburb. "There was like an albumof 200 pictures on there. Their whole wedding."

Affairs wereonce shadowy matters, illicit encounters whispered about and oftendifficult to prove. But in the age of Facebook and Twitter andlightning-fast communication, the notion of privacy is fast becomingobsolete. From flirtatious text messages to incriminating emails,marital indiscretions are much easier to track — especially ifpotentially damaging photographic evidence is posted online.

"Allof these things are just a trail of cyber breadcrumbs that are easilytracked by good divorce lawyers," says Parry Aftab, an expert onInternet safety and privacy laws.

France, 41, was not completelyblindsided by her Facebook discovery, which happened in January 2009.That fall, she had grown suspicious when her husband began takingfrequent business trips, even leaving the day the couple's newborn soncame home from the hospital. Once, she found his passport at home whenhe was supposed to be in China for business.

In October, before leaving for another trip, her husband left a hotel website up on the couple's computer screen.

"SoI actually went there with a girlfriend, just to see for myself forsure," France says. "He was there with this girlfriend. I said, 'Hey,I'm his wife. We've got a baby.'"

http://www.metronews.ca/edmonton/wo...k-wife-learns-of-husband-s-2nd-wedding--page1

 

[brettthejett]

CLEVELAND - Dread of the unknown hung in the air as Lynn France typedtwo words into the search box on Facebook: the name of the woman withwhom she believed her husband was having an affair.

Click. Andthere it was, the stuff of nightmares for any spouse, ****olded or not.Wedding photos. At Walt Disney World, no less, featuring her husbandliterally dressed as Prince Charming. His new wife, a pretty blonde,was a glowing Sleeping Beauty, surrounded by footmen.

"I wasnumb with shock, to tell you the truth," says France, an occupationaltherapist from Westlake, a Cleveland suburb. "There was like an albumof 200 pictures on there. Their whole wedding."

Affairs wereonce shadowy matters, illicit encounters whispered about and oftendifficult to prove. But in the age of Facebook and Twitter andlightning-fast communication, the notion of privacy is fast becomingobsolete. From flirtatious text messages to incriminating emails,marital indiscretions are much easier to track — especially ifpotentially damaging photographic evidence is posted online.

"Allof these things are just a trail of cyber breadcrumbs that are easilytracked by good divorce lawyers," says Parry Aftab, an expert onInternet safety and privacy laws.

France, 41, was not completelyblindsided by her Facebook discovery, which happened in January 2009.That fall, she had grown suspicious when her husband began takingfrequent business trips, even leaving the day the couple's newborn soncame home from the hospital. Once, she found his passport at home whenhe was supposed to be in China for business.

In October, before leaving for another trip, her husband left a hotel website up on the couple's computer screen.

"SoI actually went there with a girlfriend, just to see for myself forsure," France says. "He was there with this girlfriend. I said, 'Hey,I'm his wife. We've got a baby.'"

http://www.metronews.ca/edmonton/wo...k-wife-learns-of-husband-s-2nd-wedding--page1

 

[mytmouse76]

she's an idiot...

i read this on another site...she takes him back and then he kidnaps their kids to go live w/the other woman...

i'm sure her marriage was over long before he even met that other woman...

he's a POS too for not divorcing her before getting married to the other woman and for taking their kids like that

 

[mytmouse76]

she's an idiot...

i read this on another site...she takes him back and then he kidnaps their kids to go live w/the other woman...

i'm sure her marriage was over long before he even met that other woman...

he's a POS too for not divorcing her before getting married to the other woman and for taking their kids like that

 

[tsx24]

Cleveland takes another L

 

[tsx24]

Cleveland takes another L

 

[dirtylicious]

wicked....but this part isn't that funny though.

Lynn says she was cleaning the sink when her husband took the couple's 2-year-old son out of her arms and said he was going to give him some milk. Minutes later, she heard the car running.

"He threw them in, no car seats, no nothing, and took off," she says.

She hasn't seen her sons since. John France had taken them to Tampa, Fla., where he currently lives with his new wife and, according to his attorney, is seeking custody of their children.

Lynn France called 911, but as in most parental custody disputes, little could be done. She is in contact with the Center for Missing and Exploited Children and has a team of attorneys preparing for a court fight. Authorities have told her not to attempt to take back the children forcibly.

For Lynn, the only glimpse of her children now comes, ironically, from the same Facebook page where she found those fairy-tale wedding photos.

Until the day she can see her children again, Lynn France says she continues to text her husband, pleading with him to bring the children back to Ohio.

"The only way I've been able to see my children is on her Facebook page," she says. "It's stranger than fiction to watch this woman living my life."

 

[dirtylicious]

wicked....but this part isn't that funny though.

Lynn says she was cleaning the sink when her husband took the couple's 2-year-old son out of her arms and said he was going to give him some milk. Minutes later, she heard the car running.

"He threw them in, no car seats, no nothing, and took off," she says.

She hasn't seen her sons since. John France had taken them to Tampa, Fla., where he currently lives with his new wife and, according to his attorney, is seeking custody of their children.

Lynn France called 911, but as in most parental custody disputes, little could be done. She is in contact with the Center for Missing and Exploited Children and has a team of attorneys preparing for a court fight. Authorities have told her not to attempt to take back the children forcibly.

For Lynn, the only glimpse of her children now comes, ironically, from the same Facebook page where she found those fairy-tale wedding photos.

Until the day she can see her children again, Lynn France says she continues to text her husband, pleading with him to bring the children back to Ohio.

"The only way I've been able to see my children is on her Facebook page," she says. "It's stranger than fiction to watch this woman living my life."

 

[ninjallamafromhell]

Originally Posted by brettTHEjett

CLEVELAND

 

[ninjallamafromhell]

Originally Posted by brettTHEjett

CLEVELAND

 

[mangudai954]

Originally Posted by TSX24

Cleveland takes another L

 

[mangudai954]

Originally Posted by TSX24

Cleveland takes another L

 

[bigtomgetsgwap]

That has to suck

 

[bigtomgetsgwap]

That has to suck

 

[serendipity]

I read this earlier in the week. She's dumb for taking him back like everything really was gonna go back to normal. Its messed up that he just up and left with the kids and she hasnt seen them since.

 

[serendipity]

I read this earlier in the week. She's dumb for taking him back like everything really was gonna go back to normal. Its messed up that he just up and left with the kids and she hasnt seen them since.

 

[juicy j 32]

Dude straight up had a wedding with his side piece.

 

[juicy j 32]

Dude straight up had a wedding with his side piece.

 

[crumbs]

yea that's a wild story.

 

[crumbs]

yea that's a wild story.

 

[cubinican]

Originally Posted by TSX24

Cleveland takes another L

 

[cubinican]

Originally Posted by TSX24

Cleveland takes another L

 

[sco cuddie1]

Originally Posted by TSX24

Cleveland takes another L

 

[sco cuddie1]

Originally Posted by TSX24

Cleveland takes another L

 

[stephenhatking]

how do you have a planned marriage without your wife knowing?