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I'll keep this short and sweet. A chick I've been messing with since the end of January says she wants to slow down due to the fact that she just ended a 5 year relationship in January and still has feelings for the other dude.
Honestly, I don't care about having a relationship and just want to keep smashing. She says that she really likes me but when shes alone she thinks about her ex. Now, she gets all funny when I try to kiss her on the cheek and says that she wants to be friends. But she still wants to "talk, and chill" like we've always been doing. I really don't know if that would be a good idea since I feel like I would be wasting time on a chick that "wants to be friends".
I told the broad I have enough friends but she told me that that's the immature way to handle things and she doesnt see why we cant keep doing what we've always been doing but just in a strictly platonic way. Take note that we've been spending ALOT of time with each other and there arent any nights that pass when we dont talk and we dont go without seeing each other for more than a day (We have Astronomy together 3 times a week and see each other on weekends).
I really don't feel like waiting around for her to make up her mind and I don't want her to think that I was just hanging around her for the sexual contact. However, I think I would be best if I started concentrating my time on a girl that knows what she wants instead of a chick that just wants hi fives and to give me kisses on the cheek What should I do?
cliffs
met a chick in late jan
started fore play in early march
started sexing in early april
now she thinks that we're moving too fast so she wants to be friends
not over her last bf of 5 years
still wants do do exactly what we've been doing before minus sexual contact
no pics, i dont want mediatakeout jacking my +%%+
Honestly, I don't care about having a relationship and just want to keep smashing. She says that she really likes me but when shes alone she thinks about her ex. Now, she gets all funny when I try to kiss her on the cheek and says that she wants to be friends. But she still wants to "talk, and chill" like we've always been doing. I really don't know if that would be a good idea since I feel like I would be wasting time on a chick that "wants to be friends".
I told the broad I have enough friends but she told me that that's the immature way to handle things and she doesnt see why we cant keep doing what we've always been doing but just in a strictly platonic way. Take note that we've been spending ALOT of time with each other and there arent any nights that pass when we dont talk and we dont go without seeing each other for more than a day (We have Astronomy together 3 times a week and see each other on weekends).
I really don't feel like waiting around for her to make up her mind and I don't want her to think that I was just hanging around her for the sexual contact. However, I think I would be best if I started concentrating my time on a girl that knows what she wants instead of a chick that just wants hi fives and to give me kisses on the cheek What should I do?
cliffs
met a chick in late jan
started fore play in early march
started sexing in early april
now she thinks that we're moving too fast so she wants to be friends
not over her last bf of 5 years
still wants do do exactly what we've been doing before minus sexual contact
no pics, i dont want mediatakeout jacking my +%%+