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I think a negative relationship has a much stronger effect on a child's view on marriage much more than a positve one does.
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That's really why I never had one. I never even believed in high school "relationships", those are a joke to me. Then when I got to college I thought, "why get a girlfriend now?" Started to be a little more open to the idea as graduation got closer... but now, I've realized all these chics are crazy. So, I'm dealing with younger chics hoping to catch them before some dude scar her or before she jack her credit up.Originally Posted by AirAnt23
YO!
While I am not 26, I don't see myself getting into a relationship during college at all. I have seen how it has affected my boys and their is too much drams in relationships for me.
Kartoon2005 wrote:
AirAnt23 wrote:
I (at 26) have never had a girlfriend.
- on tha real? my popswasis a womanizer. im the only one between him and my mother but i have 7 siblings. the youngest is 2years old (my pops is 50). growing up i seen all the drama in his life playing around with females and it influenced me greatly growing up. ive always been thetype to not play games, and if i had a girlfriend that was it. if i wanted to be with more than one person i didnt commit to one person.
- it never made sense to me why cats tie themselves down just to play around? i mean what sense does that make?? if you wanna sleep around then do it, dontwaste time lying to a female about commitment when its bound to blow up in your face.
- ive seen so many instances of my pops getting caught up in lies its ridiculous. he snapped his Achilles once, had a cast up to his hip, and one of his babymamas came through with a crowbar and straight took it to dude.
- but me? in the exact opposite of my pops all from paying attention to the stuff he went through. its crazy because most cats get exposed to something likethat and still come up doing the same things, making the same mistakes.
- it never made sense to me why cats tie themselves down just to play around? i mean what sense does that make?? if you wanna sleep around then do it, dont waste time lying to a female about commitment when its bound to blow up in your face.
for a lot of them....they're scared....they want to be that playboy they dream of being...but at the same time they need that comfort ofsomething stable
for the rest...they just don't give a damn
I think a negative relationship has a much stronger effect on a child's view on marriage much more than a positve one does.
Def agreed.
Originally Posted by AirAnt23
YO! The biz...
I was eating with 2 of my homegirls last week, talking about how I (at 26 24) have never had a girlfriend. Most of the young women I deal with are friends - some very close, others just friends.
That's really why I never had one. I never even believed in high school "relationships", those are a joke to me. Then when I got to college I thought, "why get a girlfriend now?" Started to be a little more open to the idea as graduation got closer... but now, I've realized all these chics are crazy. So, I'm dealing with younger chics hoping to catch them before some dude scar her or before she jack her credit up.that I kinda !++!+! up.
Dirtylicious wrote:
- it never made sense to me why cats tie themselves down just to play around? i mean what sense does that make?? if you wanna sleep around then do it, dont waste time lying to a female about commitment when its bound to blow up in your face.
for a lot of them....they're scared....they want to be that playboy they dream of being...but at the same time they need that comfort of something stable
for the rest...they just don't give a damn
- man, when i was in the military i seen so many cases of this, i mean outrageous cases.
- i worked with this dude that would bring a change of clothes to work on Friday. after work change his clothes at the job, and would not go home untilMonday......after work, and had a wife at home with 3 kids. dude acted like his wife kept him in the basement chained up or something.
- military cats are the worst! they treat their wives like this then go over seas for a year plus and expect their wives not to cheat on them while their gone.that same dude i talked about before got orders to Korea (the tour is a year, and you cant take spouses) so they threw a going away for him. i go to theparty....why dude wife is trying to get at me right there at the party?? im trying to ignore the chick, then she brings another wife over there, now they bothcoming at me right there in front of everybody.
- a week or so later after dude left, homegirl gets a hold of his recall roster, gets my number, and calls me to come over. i declined and havent seen ortalked to her since
Def agreed.Originally Posted by blackmagnus514
I think a negative relationship has a much stronger effect on a child's view on marriage much more than a positve one does.