☞☞☞☞☞☞ To all my male NT'ers in committed relationships: How do ya'll stay committed? â˜

[BANLEU]

I'm in my early 20's and I'm as committed as can be right now considering I got a son on the way. So we're doing the whole family thing andunlike some men who have children I plan on staying committed because I wouldn't want to hurt her or my kid by cheating.

But even if I weren't having a kid I would still be committed to her. Why? because I've been with plenty of women and I'm over the whole sleepingaround thing. Maybe some of you haven't noticed but the box is pretty much the same on all girls. I mean it feels the same it just looks different. Besidesmeaningless sex gets boring and meaningful sex is where it's at.

 

[hovkid]

I'm 34, married and we have a daughter with a son on the way. I would never cheat.

It's really hard when she's pregnant also because she won't have sex. To be honest, I don't want to either because its kind of

I just remember how good she looks and how crazy the sex is when she's not pregnant and I'm fine.

 

[cashbanks]

It's def hard work me and ma shorty in a the good ol long distance joint for a couple months its lite tho jus smoke and stay in the house

 

[classy freshman]

Originally Posted by HOVKid

I'm 34, married and we have a daughter with a son on the way. I would never cheat.

It's really hard when she's pregnant also because she won't have sex. To be honest, I don't want to either because its kind of

I just remember how good she looks and how crazy the sex is when she's not pregnant and I'm fine.

PSSSSHHHHH...

pregnant P is the BEST

 

[sighfur]

Originally Posted by teamfrenzy

when you find the one, you'll know "How"

agreed.

 

[mrmoneyindabank]

You gotta just remember that the grass always SEEMS greener on the other side. You got a girl, you know everything about her, accepted her flaws. Why would youwanna start over and deal with a new chick not knowing anything about her? I don't have the patience personally.

As far as the sex, it's better when you know that's all yours. You don't have to worry about who was smashing that the night before and what theygot. Just remember to keep it fresh and try new things.

In conclusion,

Relationships > single life

 

[suppacarz]

not sayin u dont already, but maybe try not just looking at the sex in a relationship as much

 

[sneakerpimp2k8]

its easy, going on 5 years....sex? sex isn't a big issue at all

 

[dearwinter219]

Patience and integrity bro... it's just your hormones telling you to chase new girls.. Don't !*!* up potential happiness in the long run for a shortterm goal, like 15 minutes of unfaithfulness, because you'll have more than 15 minutes of guilt if you don't get caught and less than 15 minutes leftin your relationship if you do. Patience and integrity man... oh yeah, and faith. You have to be able to trust her.

 

[general johnson]

Originally Posted by Classy Freshman

Originally Posted by HOVKid

I'm 34, married and we have a daughter with a son on the way. I would never cheat.

It's really hard when she's pregnant also because she won't have sex. To be honest, I don't want to either because its kind of

I just remember how good she looks and how crazy the sex is when she's not pregnant and I'm fine.

PSSSSHHHHH...

pregnant P is the BEST

This ninja speaks the truth...

I stayed smashing while my girl was knocked up. Both my daughter's labors were induced by me smashing.

It's the gushiest of gush!


As for the original question, I'm good as long as the P ain't being hurled at me. But when I'mcornered by a sexy female and they insist on doming me up or giving me some of that good, I can't resist.

Once the rocket gets ready for launch, I can't even think straight...

 

[i dont pass]

Originally Posted by I Drink Your Milkshake

Originally Posted by I DONT PASS

Originally Posted by awwsome

Originally Posted by I Drink Your Milkshake

Originally Posted by awwsome

I'm too young to be "committed" to any one female honestly.
I just keep it 5 with them and let them know they aint the only one
This creates the false sense of chase for them
On some "oh i'll show him i can be his one and only"
& I always win.

I'm tryna think...I don't do this. But I hate it when guys feel like you are expected to wanna be in a relationship. Then when you say you not looking for one, then comes the "you know...if you ever wanted it to just be us, that would be cool"

I feel you that's some corny %@#% but if shorty doesn't wanna be in a relationship (rarely ever happens), I love that because it just makes it easier on me so i know she aint clingy and %@#%.
But most females fall in that trap tryna go the extra mile for something that will never be...and i love it,

damn my dude im the exact same way...keep a starting 5 and just tell these broads the truth..that they aint the only one

then they put in all this work tryna be my "one and only"

and I just sit back like ayeeeeeee

do you guys ever ask if they are seeing other people? If I know a dude is seeing other people, I automatically become "lazy" I only put in work if a guy is single or at least leads me to believe he is

it's funny when guys try to put in "work" though. I be like

on some I just want us to at least have a chance......

whats wrong with a dude putting in work?
and nope I nvr ask cuz 11 times out of 10 I dont care and Im not trying to wife.

Originally Posted by DearWinter219

Patience and integrity bro... it's just your hormones telling you to chase new girls.. Don't !*!* up potential happiness in the long run for a short term goal, like 15 minutes of unfaithfulness, because you'll have more than 15 minutes of guilt if you don't get caught and less than 15 minutes left in your relationship if you do. Patience and integrity man... oh yeah, and faith. You have to be able to trust her.
Once the rocket gets ready for launch, I can't even think straight...

good stuff bro..thanks for all the responses yall

Once the rocket gets ready for launch, I can't even think straight...

aint that the truth

 

[freddymartinez]

Originally Posted by dcortes23

just stay faithful... is watching porn cheating?

yes it is

 

[supermanblue79]

Originally Posted by Classy Freshman

Originally Posted by HOVKid

I'm 34, married and we have a daughter with a son on the way. I would never cheat.

It's really hard when she's pregnant also because she won't have sex. To be honest, I don't want to either because its kind of

I just remember how good she looks and how crazy the sex is when she's not pregnant and I'm fine.

PSSSSHHHHH...

pregnant P neck is the BEST

fixed.
I was crushing during my wife's pregnancy and saw our daugher's knee and an elbow run across my wife's stomach

Yes I finished the deed, but from now on she's rocking the mic after 5 months in.

 

[i drink your milkshake]

Originally Posted by I DONT PASS

Originally Posted by I Drink Your Milkshake

Originally Posted by I DONT PASS

Originally Posted by awwsome

Originally Posted by I Drink Your Milkshake

Originally Posted by awwsome

I'm too young to be "committed" to any one female honestly.
I just keep it 5 with them and let them know they aint the only one
This creates the false sense of chase for them
On some "oh i'll show him i can be his one and only"
& I always win.

I'm tryna think...I don't do this. But I hate it when guys feel like you are expected to wanna be in a relationship. Then when you say you not looking for one, then comes the "you know...if you ever wanted it to just be us, that would be cool"

I feel you that's some corny %@#% but if shorty doesn't wanna be in a relationship (rarely ever happens), I love that because it just makes it easier on me so i know she aint clingy and %@#%.
But most females fall in that trap tryna go the extra mile for something that will never be...and i love it,

damn my dude im the exact same way...keep a starting 5 and just tell these broads the truth..that they aint the only one

then they put in all this work tryna be my "one and only"

and I just sit back like ayeeeeeee

do you guys ever ask if they are seeing other people? If I know a dude is seeing other people, I automatically become "lazy" I only put in work if a guy is single or at least leads me to believe he is

it's funny when guys try to put in "work" though. I be like

on some I just want us to at least have a chance......

whats wrong with a dude putting in work?

because I think back to NT and how you guys always come off as you love girls who don't want committments....

 

[lovemysole]

Originally Posted by Classy Freshman

HOVKid wrote:

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I'm 34, married and we have a daughter with a son on the way. I would never cheat.

It's really hard when she's pregnant also because she won't have sex. To be honest, I don't want to either because its kind of

I just remember how good she looks and how crazy the sex is when she's not pregnant and I'm fine.

PSSSSHHHHH...

pregnant P is the BEST


Yea my man is on some "I want a baby in 2 years" steez and talking about the P is at best at the 3 month mark. If that's the case then Ican't wait! I be fiending sometimes ...

dcortes23 wrote:

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just stay faithful... is watching porn cheating?

at you asking that; NO it's not cheating is thecorrect answer from a female's perspective.

KayCurrency wrote:

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papeshfoo wrote:

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I have been with my girl for almost a year, been smashin for over a year, its all about respect, friendship, and understanding. We dont fight, we dont yell, and we have fun. She is an awesome person and I treat her that way. You can never get tired of smashin the same P if there is a mutual respect and unconditional love. We have a shorty on the way, and maybe that makes our bond stronger, but I dont ever want another woman in my life but her.


BS...One of yall is being a "push over" then....

"Yes honey.." ....."OK honey"...."Alrighty babe...ill do it ASAP"
"Push over"? Yes to some extent because the last dude I dated for about 4 years only argued like once every 6 months, give or take. Iguess we just had jack %%+% to argue about. We both had school and work and I lived on my own and his parents didn't care when I stayed there. It was theeasiest relationship I'd ever been in.

 

[hypebeast mcstreetwear]

Staying committed isn't for everyone. Some people are just more disciplined that others.

With that said it'll be 3 years no break ups/cheating in November

 

[i drink your milkshake]

Originally Posted by lovemysole

Originally Posted by Classy Freshman

HOVKid wrote:

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I'm 34, married and we have a daughter with a son on the way. I would never cheat.

It's really hard when she's pregnant also because she won't have sex. To be honest, I don't want to either because its kind of

I just remember how good she looks and how crazy the sex is when she's not pregnant and I'm fine.

PSSSSHHHHH...

pregnant P is the BEST

Yea my man is on some "I want a baby in 2 years" steez and talking about the P is at best at the 3 month mark. If that's the case then I can't wait! I be fiending sometimes ...

this all just seems like an odd conversation---dude wants u to get pregnant to have better sex? What about the ensuing 70+ years to follow thatinvolve raising/having a child??

 

[bowzer blitz]

No relationship is mutual...
I catch heat here for my views but I get older & it keeps happening.
You haves dudes who cheat & expect they female not to.
You have dudes who cheat & they females cheats because they cheat.
I've had 1 relationship...I was faithful...mutual break up she was on some broad 2 weeks later.
Now for something that quick that %%+% was in the works behind my back. For who knows how long..
But do I feel like a fool for being faithful...yes I do. but at the same time %!+!*%$ mad broads never been me...thou before that relationship I was alwaysbout the sex because I feared being made a fool of behind my back.

I debated with some female here..saying women accept this and rather have this dude in they life no matter the situation. Every broad I meet can't be thatstupid...but I'm starting to blame myself for the broads I meet. I just feel most females rather be cheated on..treated like dirt so they can try to riseup and be on a power trip. If you not playing games with her shes playing with you.

So basically I'm saying if one person is faithful the other isn't so why even be in a relationship?

 

[lovemysole]

Originally Posted by I Drink Your Milkshake

lovemysole wrote:

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Originally Posted by Classy Freshman

HOVKid wrote:

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I'm 34, married and we have a daughter with a son on the way. I would never cheat.

It's really hard when she's pregnant also because she won't have sex. To be honest, I don't want to either because its kind of

I just remember how good she looks and how crazy the sex is when she's not pregnant and I'm fine.

PSSSSHHHHH...

pregnant P is the BEST

Yea my man is on some "I want a baby in 2 years" steez and talking about the P is at best at the 3 month mark. If that's the case then I can't wait! I be fiending sometimes ...

this all just seems like an odd conversation---dude wants u to get pregnant to have better sex? What about the ensuing 70+ years to follow that involve raising/having a child??

Not for the sex; he just wants a kid period but the bettersex is a plus.

I told him he's trippin' if he wants ME to bear a child in 2 years!!! And to get another bm cuz I'm not gonna be that chic just yet.

 

[hiram408]

Idk how i manage to do it, but i do

especially being in college...

 

[kiiidthrash]

im 19 and me and my girl live together.
we have been committed.
its way hard for me though

 

[iheartboost]

Originally Posted by airkeung88

just don't cheat and treat her good.

Pretty much.

Good Well Great, I mean, dope sex works too.

 

[vrp32tl]

Originally Posted by ninjahood

Bottomline is every "comitted" person I ever spoke to has cheated various times.

QFT.

 

[aveezythebeast]

its hard. its getting to the point that im just plain fed up..updates soon

 

[antbanks81]

It's tough as hell. I used to feel the only point to having a gf was to be able to go raw.

When the relationship is going well, its easy because then I can focus on more important things (money, career, school). But when we on the outs, temptation bea mofo.

Also, I think about what will happen if I get caught.

OP,I agree with you, it's difficult hitting the same one for an extended period of time.