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If she "loves you to death" than why is she scared?
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It can't be killed, only contained.
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Go to Jared.
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because girls and logic never go together no matter the situation
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first rule -- keep the lines of communication open and honest.
question about all this stuff you guys are bickering about -- are you guys fighting about straight up dealbreakers, or just stupid stuff that you two can'tagree on? either you guys come to some compromise on the issue, or you agree to disagree.
if you are honestly not perturbed by the fighting, just assure her that your feelings and concern for her will always be there, even if it seems like y'allhate each other while arguing.
question about all this stuff you guys are bickering about -- are you guys fighting about straight up dealbreakers, or just stupid stuff that you two can'tagree on? either you guys come to some compromise on the issue, or you agree to disagree.
if you are honestly not perturbed by the fighting, just assure her that your feelings and concern for her will always be there, even if it seems like y'allhate each other while arguing.
sundaze1g
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we fight over sometimes serious stuff sometimes stupid stuff. We are both stubborn but when i try to make up and stuff she is already mad pisseddddd. its moreour tones and the way we talk.. no curses or swears but just attitude and stuff sometimes. every other time we are perfectly fine. sometimes she forgets aboutour fights because shes so happy next to me but its also bad cause she forgets and holds it in sometimes and blows up later on
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HAHAAH YYESSSSSS! girls have ZERO logic. In an argument, they only really make sense for about 30 seconds.
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those commercials keep showing up lately due to Valentine's day
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spit this line to her
"Look we been arguin bout erything for ages, do it every change +#@!? We wind up iggin eachother for the whole week. It's a lot of men in this worldbaby u chose me. Like I chose u. We been rockin for years. U signed up, u're not a victim u're a volunteer..."
"Look we been arguin bout erything for ages, do it every change +#@!? We wind up iggin eachother for the whole week. It's a lot of men in this worldbaby u chose me. Like I chose u. We been rockin for years. U signed up, u're not a victim u're a volunteer..."
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when you get caught up in a particularly nasty fight with passive aggressiveness, attitude, defensiveness, curse words, sarcasm, etc., you gottalearn to step away from all that.
it takes a lot of courage and effort to keep your head above all the static, but in my experience, it works wonders. a lot of (but not all
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is she an only child?
or the youngest?
or the youngest?
sundaze1g
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oldest. very responsible. just stubborn when we fight. never ever in other situations really.
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I know i have been around long enough to knwo this but what does
QFT mean ????
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oh then iuno, same stuff happening with my girl but she's an only child (so her whole life she got what she wanted her way... and thats not flying withme.)
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when things are fine like a day or two later, just ask her, "why do you get so stubborn when we fight? not tryna argue now, i just don'twant us to be like that when we fight. when you're like that, it makes it harder for us to make up."
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yeah i try but we fight sometimse when i bring up a problem.. its hard for us to talk about fights but i try and we take care of it most of the times.
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Either Quoted for truth or quit *++!!!! trippingOriginally Posted by brandonb2005
I know i have been around long enough to knwo this but what does
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sounds like she enjoys the drama.
for some chicks, throwin attitude or holding onto a grudge (even if it's THEIR fault) is their way of maintaining control of the situation and/or theirfeelings.
you gotta make it clear to her that this stuff is not healthy for the two of you. no, it's not a a deal-breaker (yet), but it's something that youguys need to work on. i would say "something she needs to work on," but in my experience, it goes over better if you say "we" instead of"you."
i find it interesting to see that she is the one who is worried that the fighting will instill doubts in your faith in the relationship, yet her stubbornnessis the exact reason you guys don't make up sometimes.
for some chicks, throwin attitude or holding onto a grudge (even if it's THEIR fault) is their way of maintaining control of the situation and/or theirfeelings.
you gotta make it clear to her that this stuff is not healthy for the two of you. no, it's not a a deal-breaker (yet), but it's something that youguys need to work on. i would say "something she needs to work on," but in my experience, it goes over better if you say "we" instead of"you."
i find it interesting to see that she is the one who is worried that the fighting will instill doubts in your faith in the relationship, yet her stubbornnessis the exact reason you guys don't make up sometimes.
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make a few promises and oaths. tell her to just have trust. basically sweet talk her so it will make her feel good.
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Love ain't real kid.