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Originally Posted by ATLien Seeko
Or maybe the rules of the game have changed? Try being polygamous and see where it goes... Just tell girls you dont plan on being with only her and keep a few women around. You'll be surprised with how women will actually accept this if they actually like you, and if they are actually down AND they want to be monogamous with you, and prove it with actions, then you my friend, have found a good woman.
Now, I'm now saying that's the only way to go about doing things, but if you're feeling like you wont ever get married, what do you have to lose?
If you do something like this, you have to be very straight forward and honest. Honesty is the key to making that type of thing actually work...
Good luck...
Originally Posted by AndOneFlip
i feel im gonna get married just gotta find the right woman
Originally Posted by Put em up
I was at the park yesterday and this cat whose always balling with us bought a nice looking lady(wearing red bottoms to the park) with him. She sits on the sideline the whole time. Later on his best friend tells me the lady has some big time marketer job for DKNY, and is easily making 80+ a year. Come to find out shes been married for 6 years, but this cat that comes to the park every monday, average cool dude is dickin her on the side. Her husband knows nothing about it, but his wife is coming to the park to watch some other dude come play pickup basketball. i felt complete disgusted by the situation, not knocking the dude at all for dickin her. But the women is married, and will prolly go home and ask her husband "How was your day today honey?".While earlier in the day she was all in another dudes face. Nobody takes marriage serious anymore. $++! is sad. People get married just for the title.
i will marry the women im with bc im confidence and shes everything i want. But still the marriage thing is scary as hell.
Originally Posted by Put em up
I was at the park yesterday and this cat whose always balling with us bought a nice looking lady(wearing red bottoms to the park) with him. She sits on the sideline the whole time. Later on his best friend tells me the lady has some big time marketer job for DKNY, and is easily making 80+ a year. Come to find out shes been married for 6 years, but this cat that comes to the park every monday, average cool dude is dickin her on the side. Her husband knows nothing about it, but his wife is coming to the park to watch some other dude come play pickup basketball. i felt complete disgusted by the situation, not knocking the dude at all for dickin her. But the women is married, and will prolly go home and ask her husband "How was your day today honey?".While earlier in the day she was all in another dudes face. Nobody takes marriage serious anymore. $++! is sad. People get married just for the title.
i will marry the women im with bc im confidence and shes everything i want. But still the marriage thing is scary as hell.
Originally Posted by raptors29
Originally Posted by Put em up
I was at the park yesterday and this cat whose always balling with us bought a nice looking lady(wearing red bottoms to the park) with him. She sits on the sideline the whole time. Later on his best friend tells me the lady has some big time marketer job for DKNY, and is easily making 80+ a year. Come to find out shes been married for 6 years, but this cat that comes to the park every monday, average cool dude is dickin her on the side. Her husband knows nothing about it, but his wife is coming to the park to watch some other dude come play pickup basketball. i felt complete disgusted by the situation, not knocking the dude at all for dickin her. But the women is married, and will prolly go home and ask her husband "How was your day today honey?".While earlier in the day she was all in another dudes face. Nobody takes marriage serious anymore. $++! is sad. People get married just for the title.
i will marry the women im with bc im confidence and shes everything i want. But still the marriage thing is scary as hell.This kinda stuff runs rampant in our society.
Originally Posted by Kn0wledgeable
going the derek jeter/ jay z route. not getting married til damn near 40
Originally Posted by mandown91
oh so true... hes angry lol... its gonna get better though big homie, cause i know someone did hurt you just say F it n go on with yo life...it doesnt mean you gotta go act all macho and treat these @%+##+ like garden toolsOriginally Posted by pookieman
WHO HURT YOU!?!?Originally Posted by Sid Nasty
I swear after high school, I threw away any ounce of sentimental/simpish feelings. I feel like I'm done with that part of my life and I have no intentions of ever having a relationship or "talking" to a female like that ever again. Seems like I can get by with just my family, friends, and random no strings attached @*%##.
Relationships dont even seem to be worth the headache anymore, and how could I ever get married knowing that it will most likely end bad. Maybe its cause im still young, but does anybody else feel like this?
Originally Posted by Type X
I felt like that all thru my 20's, only thing i focused on was partying, vegas & the gym lol
Then i met my girl , partying stopped.... vegas stopped & gym stopped hahha
I'm much happier
1. That i met an awesome girl
2. That i have all those crazy stories & no regrets that i didn't "live"
3. Led a full life to this point by amassing chill friends that stuck with partying me & chill relationship me
You need to get a good balance in your life!
if a girl cheats 2 weeks into a relationship, that wouldnt really affect anyone. but if your "perfect loving" wife cheated on you after 30 years, while you've done nothing but been faithful, then that could just $%%% up your lifeOriginally Posted by UPPTEMPO8387
Don't bring up risk of being cheated on as a reason not to get married because that's just stupid. A girl can cheat on you 2 weeks into a relationship, or she can be with you for 30 years and never even think about cheating. It depends on her true character and the morals that she has. If your wife cheats on you and you have proof, then in court when you file for divorce she won't get jack so it's no different than just dumping her like you would a girlfriend
Hey Kids, this man knows what he's talking about. Good post manOriginally Posted by WISEPHAROAH
At the end of the day you can look at all the stats, horror stories and whatever else but it just boils down to people getting married for the wrong reasons. Most people have no clue what REAL love is and the constant conscious effort of changing things up and being adventurous. I was with a girl that I just KNEW I was going to marry but here I am a year and a half later and I don't even speak to her anymore. People cheating and all that is typically a personal problem they have and doesn't always stem from their partner. There are amazing women out there most of us are busy chasing the wrong ones. Love with the big butt half naked aint mature enough for all that commitment stuff yet. Your spouse should be just the icing on the cake anyway. The main focus of your life should be YOU and the completion of your goals and well roundedness. Your time will come for all that love stuff but you gotta be ready. I wasn't ready when I experienced it and I lost someone that I loved DEEPLY and now someone I molded is being enjoyed by someone else. I didn't even get to enjoy the fruits of my labor..................... but #%!# it, that's life and the next girl I take seriously is going to be incredibly lucky.
Originally Posted by Kramer
Ill get married but I dont know bout kids