Anyone here ever have a sugar mama?

I met her at a mutual friend's dinner party. We exchange email for business purposes, she's a web developer. Called her a couple days later and asked her out.

Older women are very direct, so go at them direct. They don't like games, and be very honest.

If you don't mind, how old are both of you?
 
I'm 31, she's 38 but I met her 3 years ago. :lol
 
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Are the yambs good?

The best yet to come. Older women are open to just about anything especially 3 somes if you go about it the right way.

But they're the freakest they come and is totally about pleasing the mate.8)

Only problem, they want it all the time....I mean allll the time. So you have to be on top of your game.
 
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How long have you been with her? 8o

We were friends for 2 years...She didn't want a commitment. (with benefits) And at the time, I was seeing other women and she was cool with it as long as I was honest.
 
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man I was close.. she was a coworker.. she had money (psych major)... through her parents too.. she sent me a facebook message saying if I wanted to come out to cali to see her.. let her know..

the ball was dropped we she asked if I wanted to catch a movie and that same day I had to go back to school for summer football camp.

hi sara. 8o
 
I had opportunities but the last thing I needed was some mid 40's attractive lady to still be ripe and I'm locked into a kid with someone 20 years older...I kept my head straight but an older milf is so niccce, it's like going for the wine and passing on the miller lite
 
Met one at an event I worked for my company last Spring. Shes about 10 years older than me, blonde with a nice pair and a career in finance/banking. I went to the bar with her a couple of weeks ago, had a really great time then proceeded to get top from her as she dropped me off at my car without me asking
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. I have a gf though so i felt really bad and have been curving her ever since. She has a bf too which is why its so lulz.  
 
Met this lady at Starbucks, I'm 19, she's 33 (tech writer for Microsoft). We exchange numbers, we go out to eat at cheesecake factory the next day, she pays and we smash at her crib the same night. 2 days pass and she calls me up to go shopping with her. She's buying expensive *** **** ex. Gucci purses, coach wallets and she forces me to pick out some items I want (no matter the price). I pick up out some Dre beats, Couple shirts, a fitted hat, and some penny 1/2 cents. Girl whipped out the card like it was nothing and paid for all of it. Felt a little uncomfortable during the process of me picking up the items but she told me I'll pay her back in another way. (winks) :smoking Anyways this goes on for months and she's paying big things for me like college tuition and what not. Everything is going good and were smashing on the regular. Then she hits me out of the blue some months into the ''relationship'' to come meet her at some restaurant in the city and we have a serious talk. She say's that she has meet someone else that was a lot older and more financially set then me. (remember I'm only 19) So she tells me that this is the last time we'll ever see each other and I'm all like butt hurt because I was enjoying all of this. ha-ha She tells me I'm young and I'll find someone else better then her. So we finish up eating, head to the parking lot and I try to get some action before we leave. I take her to my car and she domes me up. Call it a last request. lol Greatest thing to happen to me since High School commencement. :smokin
 
Its all fun and games until she gets tired of you and finds someone else who can satisfy her. Its all about sex for them. Few of them are looking for actual companionship. If all you're looking for is the sex, accept that you're her cabana boy. If you want more, try not to get too attached.
 
Met this lady at Starbucks, I'm 19, she's 33 (tech writer for Microsoft). We exchange numbers, we go out to eat at cheesecake factory the next day, she pays and we smash at her crib the same night. 2 days pass and she calls me up to go shopping with her. She's buying expensive *** **** ex. Gucci purses, coach wallets and she forces me to pick out some items I want (no matter the price). I pick up out some Dre beats, Couple shirts, a fitted hat, and some penny 1/2 cents. Girl whipped out the card like it was nothing and paid for all of it. Felt a little uncomfortable during the process of me picking up the items but she told me I'll pay her back in another way. (winks) :smoking Anyways this goes on for months and she's paying big things for me like college tuition and what not. Everything is going good and were smashing on the regular. Then she hits me out of the blue some months into the ''relationship'' to come meet her at some restaurant in the city and we have a serious talk. She say's that she has meet someone else that was a lot older and more financially set then me. (remember I'm only 19) So she tells me that this is the last time we'll ever see each other and I'm all like butt hurt because I was enjoying all of this. ha-ha She tells me I'm young and I'll find someone else better then her. So we finish up eating, head to the parking lot and I try to get some action before we leave. I take her to my car and she domes me up. Call it a last request. lol Greatest thing to happen to me since High School commencement. :smokin

:hat how did you approach her at first?
 
True story
One of my friends that I've known for half my life has managed to have multiple sugar mamas over the years. The way he did was pretty easy. The were never really the best looking, sometimes a bit chubby NT standards would say helll no but some would say they were smashable and I myself probably would too. They're almost always younger than him. They're really dumb girls...but he gets them to buy him multiple pairs of jays, at least 2 a month. He gets them to get an apartment. They buy and/or cook 3 meals a day for him, he has no car and never has, but the girls always do and they take him every where he needs to go all day. They buy him cologne, tees and levis, fitteds and all. He rarely is employed. He lives off them. It's crazy. But props to him he's doin it.
Props for...?

The dude's a loser.

Just goes to show NT's age.
 
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How much for the script? I'm about to have every chick in the US crying in theaters across the country
 
Kind of. I was just out of college and in my first job. Used to hit it off over the phone with the woman who did travel for our company on the West Coast.

She came to NY for a few months. She was 15 years older than me. We got it poppin' for a bit.

Me having my first job I didn't have a ton of disposable income. So she paid for everything. And would break me off with Nikes an clothes as well.

I say this because I feel you're most likely to meet one at work. When you're young and you're out of school and start working, you're bound to be surrounded by some older women.

Some married. Some not. Mine was not though I've had more than a few married women holler. But a few of them are bound to be THIRSTY!

Which is why, to answer your last question, they will likely approach you first.
 
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Could have had one when I was 20, she was 59.

The yambs where mine for the taking, passed on it though, she didn't take it very well :{
 
First met, I don't know how to get around the age difference 8o

She approached me first when we were in line at Starbucks. Complemented my shoes and we just started some normal conversation. We talked for a good 15 mins after we got our order and we exchanged numbers. She was really displaying some provocative body signals when we were engaged in conversation. She really wanted the ''D'' lol
 
sort of dating one right now. offered for me to quit my part time job and give me a 400 dollar allowance and focus entirely on school. (full time student with pt time job).
offered to get me a nice car.
refused on both of the offers.
lmfao son i know you putting the pipe down.... she look old too smh and you young and i dont see you as the playa type and you got down with that.. props to ya
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i totally agree with yall about the whole thing that the cougars are in it for the sex. thats why its so great. women reach their sexual peak around 35 and thats why they go for the younger guys.
when i met my chick we were just smash buddies. we ate/drank a lot when we were together going to bars and what not. i think we both collectively spent 20k in just going out to eat and drink. then she caught feelings first and i was reluctant to do so. but she kept giving it to me 110% to show how much she cared and wanted me. right when we had a label she automatically wanted me to move in with her and contribute to w.e. she said that because my income doesnt match hers that i only had to pay like 20% of the bills/expenses which wasnt bad but i felt like it was too early to move in so i never took that offer either.
 
Also, women at this age are at their most insecure. You thought that teenage girls were insecure? You haven't seen a woman in mid life who's looks and figure are fading away. Its the reason why they throw sex and money at younger guys like its nothing. For those that don't want a relationship, let them know from jump because some want that.
 
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