Being ugly unappreciation. Vol. nah man, we dont love you.

[speakup23]

Originally Posted by neverflopped

Originally Posted by H01YshNIK3S

NO but really, i have a friend that is worse then you on the confidence scale,
he thinks that he will never find anyone to love him. The problem with my friend is
he is so narrow minded. The way he speaks about himself is RIDICULOUS to me.
How can you walk around like you are not good enough for what you want.
If you just be PERSONABLE any female is obtainable.

I bet u his standards are ridiculously high too lol.

how tall is lima btw?

Shes like 5'11" but she was wearing heals. Im about 6 feet

StaXX wrote:

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Originally Posted by H01YshNIK3S

NO but really, i have a friend that is worse then you on the confidence scale,
he thinks that he will never find anyone to love him. The problem with my friend is
he is so narrow minded. The way he speaks about himself is RIDICULOUS to me.
How can you walk around like you are not good enough for what you want.
If you just be PERSONABLE any female is obtainable.

I will NEVER understand people like this.
I have a friend exactly like this and he goes out of his way to find flaws with himself.

I do this. I can tell you 2 things that I actually like about myself, but 100 things that I hate

Originally Posted by Stockholm Patriot


Make all the excuses you want for why she didn't show that brother no love...son got Ivo'd

I swear Im the only one who got shown no love

Originally Posted by AntonLaVey

Originally Posted by SpeakUp23

expectations of the adriana

I was expecting it to be me holder her waist, her arm all my shoulder, all smiles. Nothing crazy at all.

Originally Posted by SneakerFr

You think I look thuggish?



But yea, idk.... you guys think Im putting too much stock into beauty?

Way too much. You're never going to smash if you act like a star struck fan to any beautiful chick in the street & worship the ground that they walk on. Take the P off the pedestal. However, in your case, it's easier said than done bro. But if you ever want to smash any chicks that you can actually brag about, you have no choice but to take the P off the pedestal.
Nah I dont mean beauty when it comes to other girls. I mean in me. I always think that because Im not this gorgeous guy, that I will be forever alone. Yea I attract a good amount of females, but I always lose them because I let my insecurities get the best of me and I feel that Im not good enough for them, so I pull back and then they take off

Originally Posted by RavageBX

I think because you're really smitten by Adriana you sunk into your shell. Isht happens man, nothing to gripe about. You had no chance anyway. You should be more concerned with whether or not the mentality that led to this fail actually hinders your shot with girls you do have a chance at.

I wont even lie to you when I say it actually does.

Originally Posted by JewSeeJay

at dudes gassin themselves... anyway OP its not that ur ugly... its that ur small and not overly attractive... she was taller than u bruh what r u 5'7?

invest in some Timbs, some weights and some swag and ull have better results Id bet

Chill Im 6 feet, (about 6' 1" with Griffeys)and she had on heels. Im not really small at all.

Originally Posted by Tego Calderon El Abayarde

OP you're not ugly. No honcho. I don't get why and how you're so insecure. Whats your height and weight? Its all about your demeanor. I have gaps between my teeth and I used to feel ugly and I was scared of talking to chicks because I felt like they didn't even hear me and all they was thinkin was "damn this n grill is fubar". I started reading articles on body language, confidence etc and I've seen a huge improvement with the way I act around girls. The way they responded to the "new" me had me like dude from the wire goin

. You gotta be on some *Kanye*you can go ahead and sneeze cuz my presence blessed you*Kanye*, you lucky to be breathin my air steez. "Fake" it till it becomes natural. Body language is contagious. I mean if someone walks towards you with they fists clenched you gon get defensive. If your body language says confident, comfortable etc chicks will respond well to it. And stop putting the p on a pedestal. If it wasn't for the money, I'd take a cute dominican chick from uptown over Adriana any day. Might have to join team dr chicks.

6 feet, 180 pounds

But yea man good looks

. If you wanna join team DR chicks, feel free

Originally Posted by UPPTEMPO8387

This thread is pointless because every dude on NT swears they're the neighborhood heart throb.

Originally Posted by Smokee Robinson

you look hella awkward. you're not ugly though you're a good looking dude, i mean i'd smash

Thanks?

 

[D StaXX]

Originally Posted by Checks McGee

Bruh.  In your case it is not about your looks.  Your attitude is off, if you go up to a chick thinking she is better than you right away, it will not end well.

This. Why do you constantly think so negatively about yourself OP?
I just don't get it. We can't really help you unless you change your attitude.

 

[D StaXX]

Originally Posted by Checks McGee

Bruh.  In your case it is not about your looks.  Your attitude is off, if you go up to a chick thinking she is better than you right away, it will not end well.

This. Why do you constantly think so negatively about yourself OP?
I just don't get it. We can't really help you unless you change your attitude.

 

[g14]

Originally Posted by boogie bwoy

Originally Posted by 651akathePaul

Originally Posted by RavageBX

I think because you're really smitten by Adriana you sunk into your shell. 
  

Yeah. I'm thinkin' if you weren't so fixated on Lima you might have noticed yellow and green to your left. They look damn good. Moreso than Lima if you ask me.

This. Green & Yellow>Lima

  

REAL TALK

CHICK IN THE YELLOW LOOKS WAY MORE FUN, HAVING A GOOD TIME & SEXY

I WOULD OF BEEN ALL OVER THAT, YOU WOULD OF GOT SOME ATTENTION & RESPECT FOR THAT

LIMA LOOKS LIKE A ZOMBIE  & SHE ISN'T ALL THAT BRO FOR YOU TO BE DOWN IN THE DIRT

PLUS SHE IS "MARRIED!" YOU SHOULD OF BEEN CLOSED OUT THAT OPTION IN YOUR GAME PLAN

SMILE MORE TOO MAN CHICKS LOVE A GUY WHO IS CHEESING & NEVER WITH THE 

BUT IF  I WAS YOU I WOULD HANG THIS PHOTO ON MY WALL & USE IT AS A MOTIVATOR TO HIT THE GYM 


THAT WILL HELP YOU GET BACK MOST OF THE SOUL YOU LOST THAT DAY

 

[g14]

Originally Posted by boogie bwoy

Originally Posted by 651akathePaul

Originally Posted by RavageBX

I think because you're really smitten by Adriana you sunk into your shell. 
  

Yeah. I'm thinkin' if you weren't so fixated on Lima you might have noticed yellow and green to your left. They look damn good. Moreso than Lima if you ask me.

This. Green & Yellow>Lima

  

REAL TALK

CHICK IN THE YELLOW LOOKS WAY MORE FUN, HAVING A GOOD TIME & SEXY

I WOULD OF BEEN ALL OVER THAT, YOU WOULD OF GOT SOME ATTENTION & RESPECT FOR THAT

LIMA LOOKS LIKE A ZOMBIE  & SHE ISN'T ALL THAT BRO FOR YOU TO BE DOWN IN THE DIRT

PLUS SHE IS "MARRIED!" YOU SHOULD OF BEEN CLOSED OUT THAT OPTION IN YOUR GAME PLAN

SMILE MORE TOO MAN CHICKS LOVE A GUY WHO IS CHEESING & NEVER WITH THE 

BUT IF  I WAS YOU I WOULD HANG THIS PHOTO ON MY WALL & USE IT AS A MOTIVATOR TO HIT THE GYM 


THAT WILL HELP YOU GET BACK MOST OF THE SOUL YOU LOST THAT DAY

 

[mangudai954]

Take small steps OP and dont freak out by over analyzing things. In time you'll be straight

 

[mangudai954]

Take small steps OP and dont freak out by over analyzing things. In time you'll be straight

 

[sneakerfr]

SpeakUp23 wrote:

Originally Posted by SneakerFr

You think I look thuggish?



But yea, idk.... you guys think Im putting too much stock into beauty?

Way
too much. You're never going to smash if you act like a star struck fan
to any beautiful chick in the street & worship the ground that they
walk on. Take the P off the pedestal. However, in your case, it's
easier said than done bro. But if you ever want to smash any chicks that
you can actually brag about, you have no choice but to take the P off
the pedestal.
Nah I dont mean beauty when it comes to other girls. I mean in me. I always think that because Im not this gorgeous guy, that I will be forever alone. Yea I attract a good amount of females, but I always lose them because I let my insecurities get the best of me and I feel that Im not good enough for them, so I pull back and then they take off

OP, no romo, you aint ugly, b. those insecurities are all in your head. Your whole mindset is #*$*#* up. Saying that you're not good enough for a chick is putting the P on a pedestal. Don't do that. the notion that another human being is "better than you" is a thought that should never cross your mind.

 

[sneakerfr]

SpeakUp23 wrote:

Originally Posted by SneakerFr

You think I look thuggish?



But yea, idk.... you guys think Im putting too much stock into beauty?

Way
too much. You're never going to smash if you act like a star struck fan
to any beautiful chick in the street & worship the ground that they
walk on. Take the P off the pedestal. However, in your case, it's
easier said than done bro. But if you ever want to smash any chicks that
you can actually brag about, you have no choice but to take the P off
the pedestal.
Nah I dont mean beauty when it comes to other girls. I mean in me. I always think that because Im not this gorgeous guy, that I will be forever alone. Yea I attract a good amount of females, but I always lose them because I let my insecurities get the best of me and I feel that Im not good enough for them, so I pull back and then they take off

OP, no romo, you aint ugly, b. those insecurities are all in your head. Your whole mindset is #*$*#* up. Saying that you're not good enough for a chick is putting the P on a pedestal. Don't do that. the notion that another human being is "better than you" is a thought that should never cross your mind.

 

[rareairbreeds23]

No romo but dude you really aint ugly though. Your confidence and the way you handled the situation was ugly as hell though but those can be fixed.

 

[rareairbreeds23]

No romo but dude you really aint ugly though. Your confidence and the way you handled the situation was ugly as hell though but those can be fixed.

 

[D StaXX]

Real life..
You need to repeat some affirmations to yourself or something to get rid of your negative attitude.
Where did your attitude stem from?

 

[D StaXX]

Real life..
You need to repeat some affirmations to yourself or something to get rid of your negative attitude.
Where did your attitude stem from?

 

[speakup23]

StaXX wrote:

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Originally Posted by Checks McGee

Bruh.  In your case it is not about your looks.  Your attitude is off, if you go up to a chick thinking she is better than you right away, it will not end well.

This. Why do you constantly think so negatively about yourself OP?
I just don't get it. We can't really help you unless you change your attitude.

StaXX wrote:

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Real life..
You need to repeat some affirmations to yourself or something to get rid of your negative attitude.
Where did your attitude stem from?


I have no idea where it came from. Ive never been teased growing up, other then some good natured ribbing. I honestly have no idea where its from. But Ive been this way for YEARS. It probably comes from me comparing myself to people I shouldnt be comparing myself to. Like Chris Browns, and LeBron James and people like that. Im on the comeup though, but its pretty hard to undo 8 years of piss poor mentality. Im working on it though.

Originally Posted by G14


BUT IF  I WAS YOU I WOULD HANG THIS PHOTO ON MY WALL & USE IT AS A MOTIVATOR TO HIT THE GYM 


THAT WILL HELP YOU GET BACK MOST OF THE SOUL YOU LOST THAT DAY

Yea, thats EXACTLY what Im using it for. Dont want to have that happen EVER again.

 

[speakup23]

StaXX wrote:

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Originally Posted by Checks McGee

Bruh.  In your case it is not about your looks.  Your attitude is off, if you go up to a chick thinking she is better than you right away, it will not end well.

This. Why do you constantly think so negatively about yourself OP?
I just don't get it. We can't really help you unless you change your attitude.

StaXX wrote:

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Real life..
You need to repeat some affirmations to yourself or something to get rid of your negative attitude.
Where did your attitude stem from?


I have no idea where it came from. Ive never been teased growing up, other then some good natured ribbing. I honestly have no idea where its from. But Ive been this way for YEARS. It probably comes from me comparing myself to people I shouldnt be comparing myself to. Like Chris Browns, and LeBron James and people like that. Im on the comeup though, but its pretty hard to undo 8 years of piss poor mentality. Im working on it though.

Originally Posted by G14


BUT IF  I WAS YOU I WOULD HANG THIS PHOTO ON MY WALL & USE IT AS A MOTIVATOR TO HIT THE GYM 


THAT WILL HELP YOU GET BACK MOST OF THE SOUL YOU LOST THAT DAY

Yea, thats EXACTLY what Im using it for. Dont want to have that happen EVER again.

 

[ignantbliss]

@these replies....brah you can't be down on no celebrity "dissing you"....no matter how much you admire her. Keep it pushing...plenty of box out there. You ever heard you look like Bobby V tho?

 

[ignantbliss]

@these replies....brah you can't be down on no celebrity "dissing you"....no matter how much you admire her. Keep it pushing...plenty of box out there. You ever heard you look like Bobby V tho?

 

[Nujavez]

can relate a lot to OP

 

[Nujavez]

can relate a lot to OP

 

[hendrix watermelon]

Son.... I am disappoint.

The aura being expelled from that picture is sickening. You need to start feeling more comfortable under your own skin. Yea the pic would have provided motivation to hit the gym, but if you need that to motivate you, then you aren't looking for your own peace. If you really want something then do it. The hell does a woman model have to do with your decisions that will benefit you and you only? You finna see her again bruh? Most likely not. Was she gonna get at you? Nope, yo money ain't right and you ain't right with yourself most and foremost. That right there should be enough motivation to get you working towards what you really want. When you look at yourself you should come in terms with your own flaws. Accept them. Embrace them and learn to appreciate who you are when you look at yourself in the mirror. It will take time to accept these things without making you feel negative about yourself. It becomes easier when you strive to better yourself. FOR YOUR OWN BENEFIT. You need to face what you're afraid of in order to overcome it. Self-esteem issues, beauty, etc.. will all be unknown things to you once you accept yourself for who you truly are. Don't hide it. Come in peace with your self.

My inbox is open if you'd like to discuss anything man. Friend to friend advice.

 

[hendrix watermelon]

Son.... I am disappoint.

The aura being expelled from that picture is sickening. You need to start feeling more comfortable under your own skin. Yea the pic would have provided motivation to hit the gym, but if you need that to motivate you, then you aren't looking for your own peace. If you really want something then do it. The hell does a woman model have to do with your decisions that will benefit you and you only? You finna see her again bruh? Most likely not. Was she gonna get at you? Nope, yo money ain't right and you ain't right with yourself most and foremost. That right there should be enough motivation to get you working towards what you really want. When you look at yourself you should come in terms with your own flaws. Accept them. Embrace them and learn to appreciate who you are when you look at yourself in the mirror. It will take time to accept these things without making you feel negative about yourself. It becomes easier when you strive to better yourself. FOR YOUR OWN BENEFIT. You need to face what you're afraid of in order to overcome it. Self-esteem issues, beauty, etc.. will all be unknown things to you once you accept yourself for who you truly are. Don't hide it. Come in peace with your self.

My inbox is open if you'd like to discuss anything man. Friend to friend advice.

 

[vprbullet]

 

[vprbullet]

 

[speakup23]

Originally Posted by Hendrix Watermelon

Son.... I am disappoint.

The aura being expelled from that picture is sickening. You need to start feeling more comfortable under your own skin. Yea the pic would have provided motivation to hit the gym, but if you need that to motivate you, then you aren't looking for your own peace. If you really want something then do it. The hell does a woman model have to do with your decisions that will benefit you and you only? You finna see her again bruh? Most likely not. Was she gonna get at you? Nope, yo money ain't right and you ain't right with yourself most and foremost. That right there should be enough motivation to get you working towards what you really want. When you look at yourself you should come in terms with your own flaws. Accept them. Embrace them and learn to appreciate who you are when you look at yourself in the mirror. It will take time to accept these things without making you feel negative about yourself. It becomes easier when you strive to better yourself. FOR YOUR OWN BENEFIT. You need to face what you're afraid of in order to overcome it. Self-esteem issues, beauty, etc.. will all be unknown things to you once you accept yourself for who you truly are. Don't hide it. Come in peace with your self.

My inbox is open if you'd like to discuss anything man. Friend to friend advice.

Word, I really need to embrace who I am. Honestly, when it comes down to it, Im a pretty awesome guy. But I sometimes dont believe it, even when everyone else tells me its true. Like I said, its hard but Im working on it. Thanks for the advice man

Originally Posted by vprbullet

That is EXACTLY what I expected to go down. EXACTLY!

 

[speakup23]

Originally Posted by Hendrix Watermelon

Son.... I am disappoint.

The aura being expelled from that picture is sickening. You need to start feeling more comfortable under your own skin. Yea the pic would have provided motivation to hit the gym, but if you need that to motivate you, then you aren't looking for your own peace. If you really want something then do it. The hell does a woman model have to do with your decisions that will benefit you and you only? You finna see her again bruh? Most likely not. Was she gonna get at you? Nope, yo money ain't right and you ain't right with yourself most and foremost. That right there should be enough motivation to get you working towards what you really want. When you look at yourself you should come in terms with your own flaws. Accept them. Embrace them and learn to appreciate who you are when you look at yourself in the mirror. It will take time to accept these things without making you feel negative about yourself. It becomes easier when you strive to better yourself. FOR YOUR OWN BENEFIT. You need to face what you're afraid of in order to overcome it. Self-esteem issues, beauty, etc.. will all be unknown things to you once you accept yourself for who you truly are. Don't hide it. Come in peace with your self.

My inbox is open if you'd like to discuss anything man. Friend to friend advice.

Word, I really need to embrace who I am. Honestly, when it comes down to it, Im a pretty awesome guy. But I sometimes dont believe it, even when everyone else tells me its true. Like I said, its hard but Im working on it. Thanks for the advice man

Originally Posted by vprbullet

That is EXACTLY what I expected to go down. EXACTLY!