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Parents need to be parents and stop letting their kids run them and tell them what they will and will not do. There is no reason to allow a boy to walk around dressed as a girl and vice versa.
If they child expresses interest in clothing of the opposite sex, the parent needs to make them aware what gender and sex they are and what is appropriate for it. They crossing the line and causing confusion when there doesn't need to be.
I think a lot of these parents do this **** for attention. They want to be known as the parent who supports their kids and pushing a particular agenda. Whether they are forcing them to or not, they aren't doing their jobs as parents condoning this. I heard a story of a man who was raised by his grandmother that forced him to dress up as a girl and play with dolls and such. He did it to please her, but as he grew up he became confused. He thought he wanted to be a woman and eventually got a complete sex change done. Afterward he realized he made a mistake, and wanted to kill himself. After serious counseling and therapy he realized his grandmother influenced his decision by making him dress like a girl causing confusion for him. I know this is an extreme case, but the guardian literally forced it on the child for her own personal reasons, but it still shows how this stuff can mess a person up and confuse the hell out of them.
We need to be parents and show our kids the right way. For some it seems harmless, and maybe even cute but when these children get older it isn't harmless anymore. It can ruin their lives, have them looking for acceptance in the wrong places.
You guys posting pics of men in clothing similar to dresses are missing the point. Comparing cultural garments to what we know to be a dresses isn't the same thing. Even if you want to use that as an example, the argument will still stand that men and woman of a particular culture don't dress the same. So clothing that may resemble a dress to us in on culture differs from what the women wear in that very same group.
If they child expresses interest in clothing of the opposite sex, the parent needs to make them aware what gender and sex they are and what is appropriate for it. They crossing the line and causing confusion when there doesn't need to be.
I think a lot of these parents do this **** for attention. They want to be known as the parent who supports their kids and pushing a particular agenda. Whether they are forcing them to or not, they aren't doing their jobs as parents condoning this. I heard a story of a man who was raised by his grandmother that forced him to dress up as a girl and play with dolls and such. He did it to please her, but as he grew up he became confused. He thought he wanted to be a woman and eventually got a complete sex change done. Afterward he realized he made a mistake, and wanted to kill himself. After serious counseling and therapy he realized his grandmother influenced his decision by making him dress like a girl causing confusion for him. I know this is an extreme case, but the guardian literally forced it on the child for her own personal reasons, but it still shows how this stuff can mess a person up and confuse the hell out of them.
We need to be parents and show our kids the right way. For some it seems harmless, and maybe even cute but when these children get older it isn't harmless anymore. It can ruin their lives, have them looking for acceptance in the wrong places.
You guys posting pics of men in clothing similar to dresses are missing the point. Comparing cultural garments to what we know to be a dresses isn't the same thing. Even if you want to use that as an example, the argument will still stand that men and woman of a particular culture don't dress the same. So clothing that may resemble a dress to us in on culture differs from what the women wear in that very same group.
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