Confessions

[rare]

I'm the guy she's cheating with.

 

[Spectacular23]

I watch BBW and enjoy it.....

 

[boxdok]

Just recently met this cool girl who i really like. I'm really starting to catch strong feelings for her. We been out on like 3 dates and I have yet to kiss her. Planning on going out again Friday evening and most likely staying over at her crib. told me she wants to cuddle with me

. Im eager to hang out with her but I'm a little hesitant in sexing. My sex games has been kind of off with any female who is not my ex.Also, I'm a Scorpio and for some reason she is expecting the best sex of her life. Lastly, My ex was in town last week and on the final day of her visit I couldn't hold out anymore and smashed. smh. I'm not sure if I ever will get over my ex.

 

[joepac12]

New poon tang can easily make one forget about an ex. I speak for myself only. But it might work for u as well

 

[ILLMATTERS]

I don't think il ever get over my Ex.
We dated for 6 years from 16-24 with a 1year break in there. We were in love like crazy but I was young and dumb and so was she and we lost ourselves and ended up splitting up. Didn't see each other for a year then caught up and ended up rooting and getting back into a relationship sort of, which last 6months or so before she decided she dosent know what she wants and left. She found a new partner which lasted this past year but ended now. Weve always remained in contact, even caught up, gone to movies, late nights together but nothing as far as even a kiss for years now. She knows how I feel even tho I don't try to do anything about it. She comes across as she dosent have any feelings for me at all and she just likes being mates. Which I believe most the time, but why would she keep coming back and staying in contact with me to only loose contact with me once she feels we are getting close again. She says its cos she dosent want anything more, but latly im thinking shes just telling herself that. What do I do fam cos we really work well together but shes just so un sure. I hate it cos we hang and then I rememeber how I feel and then she goes away, im assuming she feels something too but why does she come and go ever since we had some kinda relationship and just catches me on the random for the odd Saturday sunday hang and then not speak for months again...Im now 29 and single now

 

[Coromanti]

Hey NT...so I've (finally) come to the realization that my mother is the kind of person who is only with you (in the emotional sense) when you're up.

Though she financially supports me through school, she makes constant reminders about my past failures (i didnt fail just didnt do so great) out of the blue such as "your cousin should be getting a full ride to college because she got excellent grades unlike some people", and being condescending when I make any remarks about my academic progress.

I dont want to come off as unappreciative because financially she does have my back but in every other regard she's dismissive/condescending/rude.

How do you behave toward someone like that?

 

[Remy LeBeau]

Hey NT...so I've (finally) come to the realization that my mother is the kind of person who is only with you (in the emotional sense) when you're up.
Though she financially supports me through school, she makes constant reminders about my past failures (i didnt fail just didnt do so great) out of the blue such as "your cousin should be getting a full ride to college because she got excellent grades unlike some people", and being condescending when I make any remarks about my academic progress.
I dont want to come off as unappreciative because financially she does have my back but in every other regard she's dismissive/condescending/rude.
How do you behave toward someone like that?

Keep working hard till you reach your goal, you're the only person that truly knows how hard you're working and you see your progress so nothing/noone else matters.

 

[Coromanti]

 

Hey NT...so I've (finally) come to the realization that my mother is the kind of person who is only with you (in the emotional sense) when you're up.
Though she financially supports me through school, she makes constant reminders about my past failures (i didnt fail just didnt do so great) out of the blue such as "your cousin should be getting a full ride to college because she got excellent grades unlike some people", and being condescending when I make any remarks about my academic progress.
I dont want to come off as unappreciative because financially she does have my back but in every other regard she's dismissive/condescending/rude.
How do you behave toward someone like that?

Keep working hard till you reach your goal, you're the only person that truly knows how hard you're working and you see your progress so nothing/noone else matters.

Thanks.  I need to remind myself that outside validation is not whats important.

 

[calikev34]

You know that drinking game where you hold a glass up a say "Never have I ever..." And you say something that you've never done but take a drink if you have done that thing?

Well I just realised something. Never have I ever had sex with someone who loves me. My life is pathetic

This was powerful. And different.
My past is filled with scattered meaningless sex, but I always beat myself up by saying I didn't love any of them.
The other side of the coin is mysterious and really scary to think about.

Original thoughts are the best gifts in my opinion.
Thank you.

 

[brabbit1]

I miss the N.T.K.L days

 

[calikev34]

Just recently met this cool girl who i really like. I'm really starting to catch strong feelings for her. We been out on like 3 dates and I have yet to kiss her. Planning on going out again Friday evening and most likely staying over at her crib. told me she wants to cuddle with me . Im eager to hang out with her but I'm a little hesitant in sexing. My sex games has been kind of off with any female who is not my ex.Also, I'm a Scorpio and for some reason she is expecting the best sex of her life. Lastly, My ex was in town last week and on the final day of her visit I couldn't hold out anymore and smashed. smh. I'm not sure if I ever will get over my ex.

is the new girl a pisces?

 

[Kaleo15]

Just recently met this cool girl who i really like. I'm really starting to catch strong feelings for her. We been out on like 3 dates and I have yet to kiss her. Planning on going out again Friday evening and most likely staying over at her crib. told me she wants to cuddle with me . Im eager to hang out with her but I'm a little hesitant in sexing. My sex games has been kind of off with any female who is not my ex.Also, I'm a Scorpio and for some reason she is expecting the best sex of her life. Lastly, My ex was in town last week and on the final day of her visit I couldn't hold out anymore and smashed. smh. I'm not sure if I ever will get over my ex.

is the new girl a pisces?

What does tha mean? Is there of a significance?

 

[Ox.]

I don't think il ever get over my Ex.
We dated for 6 years from 16-24 with a 1year break in there. We were in love like crazy but I was young and dumb and so was she and we lost ourselves and ended up splitting up. Didn't see each other for a year then caught up and ended up rooting and getting back into a relationship sort of, which last 6months or so before she decided she dosent know what she wants and left. She found a new partner which lasted this past year but ended now. Weve always remained in contact, even caught up, gone to movies, late nights together but nothing as far as even a kiss for years now. She knows how I feel even tho I don't try to do anything about it. She comes across as she dosent have any feelings for me at all and she just likes being mates. Which I believe most the time, but why would she keep coming back and staying in contact with me to only loose contact with me once she feels we are getting close again. She says its cos she dosent want anything more, but latly im thinking shes just telling herself that. What do I do fam cos we really work well together but shes just so un sure. I hate it cos we hang and then I rememeber how I feel and then she goes away, im assuming she feels something too but why does she come and go ever since we had some kinda relationship and just catches me on the random for the odd Saturday sunday hang and then not speak for months again...Im now 29 and single now

cut her of m8, she's using you on an emotional level 

she's stringing you along and you're taking the bait, you gotta understand that it's over, she obviously hopped on another D, she's obviously over you. just using you when she needs a blanket. trust me brah, went through it with my ex. cut off all contact with her. my PM is open

 

[ILLMATTERS]

cut her of m8, she's using you on an emotional level 
she's stringing you along and you're taking the bait, you gotta understand that it's over, she obviously hopped on another D, she's obviously over you. just using you when she needs a blanket. trust me brah, went through it with my ex. cut off all contact with her. my PM is open

Thanks brother

 

[6 Rings G.O.A.T.]

People are getting on my last nerves..

 

[eracism]

Sometimes when I'm in the comfort of my home and I hear a loud motorcycle drive by, I think to myself "please crash please crash".

 

[SC kid]

That's horrible.

Dahell lol

 

[OBAMA]

im cathching feels for an instagodess right now...she replied to my DM guys. up until i asked if she had a man(i know she does because she has pics with him)....this morning she deleted all the pics of them tho...im too old for **** like this tbh

 

[joepac12]

^sac up man

 

[OBAMA]

Brehh..she look like lauren london and she a virgo too(we're hella compatible)

 

[AgentZero]

You guys actually believe that Zodiac sign/horoscope nonsense?

 

[calikev34]

To me , its undeniable
I don't care to convert you but I'm bored and my experience was cool

My friend who's really into astrology tried to put me on and I called her stupid
She tells me to look up my birth chart (these are crazy long/in depth)
She then said to look up the birthdays of anyone I'd ever felt strongly about (best friends , irresistible girls, mortal enemies)
And it got wild bc there were very clear patterns

Every girl I've ever loved is an Air sign (as I'm i-- libra baby )
My fatal attraction is Aries- these girls are irresistBle but I blow it with them EVERY SINGLE timeee (this one is 5/5)

And then There's my family
Me and my sister hate each other. Wouldn't ya know it, I've never gotten along with a Taurus- this goes back to grade school nemeses
My friend Tony (truly my brother, been close for about 8 years) has always had this really undefinable masculine presence to me , in the way he walks, approaches girls, everything.
Turns out, tony and my dad are both here courtesy of Janurary 25th (Aquarius)
And, my longest relationships were with Sagittarius-- my mothers sign
- this is the most interesting bc I don't LOVE these girls all mushy like the air signs, but I learned how to define a woman through my mother right? So with them it's the easiest/most natural

And if none of that tickles your fancy, well then comes da yambzzzz
When I can guess a girls sign upon meeting her I become a wizard in her eyes (a ruggedly handsome one at that) and basically- I'm in there like swimwear

Keep in mind that all this was found when I was looking back on my past, so I was never biased by some "oh this girls a Leo, I already know what time it is"

To me astrology, is a tool I use to understand people
Like familial structure (only child/middle child), what city you were raised in, or the Chinese zodiac-- you can use these tools as much or as little as you desire
Even if you think it's all ******** and it's my religion- were both right
Bc astrology is a way to analyze ppl through comparison, and my granite belief is that Oprah quote "were more alike then we are different"

 

[OBAMA]

My mothers husband and I share a birthday. I can predict his reaction to any situation and I dont even talk to him like that

 

[AgentZero]

Thanks for the insight @calikev34  

I guess the thing I have the hardest time believing is how it's based on birth date as opposed to early exhibited personality traits, etc. It just seems such an arbitrary thing to base it off of.

 

[mangudai954]

im cathching feels for an instagodess right now...she replied to my DM guys. up until i asked if she had a man(i know she does because she has pics with him)....this morning she deleted all the pics of them tho...im too old for **** like this tbh

Woah.