- Jul 31, 2012
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Talk to her and put her on game.My family owns an apartment building and I overheard my little 13-yo cousin Skyping with her "boyfriend" when her parents were gone. She was talking pretty loudly and it didn't help her that our building's walls are thin.
Things she said to him:
- "What do I mean to you?"
- "I want us to stay together"
- "I wished on my birthday that we would stay together"
Back when I was 13yo, I was hiding from my strict Asian parents and climbing into my girl's window to get the yambs. My little cousin is like a baby sister to me, but she's an only child and her parents spoil her.
I'm 110% sure her parents do not know. She's been hiding it pretty well, but no one is sneakier than me. What do I do, NT fam?
The worst thing you can do is ignore it and leave her to these young savages.
Give her the wisdom and knowledge of an older male and be supportive when things inevitably take a bad turn.
Don't come off condescending but don't be soft with the game.
Tell her about your mistakes and journeys and hopefully she soaks it up.