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Spark notes:
- Met a girl at work, she had a boyfriend that treated her like crap and 11 other boyfriends that all cheated on her.
- Dated for a few months and she would check my myspace, facebook messages, wall-to-walls, chat logs w/ a girl I dated before, text messages, and call logs andwould get mad If I got mad at her about it
- She told me @ least 5 times a week that some new guy was after her or hitting on her at work, etc. so I thought I had a holy grail. She hyped herself up andI fell for it.
- Meets a manager at a club I work @ and thinks hes attractive (young, successful, dressed sharply, financially stable)
- We get into an argument quickly after she finds him attractive and she says that she doesn't feel the same way about me anymore and that she is over me.
- She spends time over my place using my laptop on my bed to talk to the guy via myspace and her friends about him and deletes the chat logs (I found them inthe trash bin of my macbook)
- She is now talking to him and updates me constantly on their status.
I just want to know:
a.) Is she wrong for doing what she did?
b.) Is this girl a b---h?
c.) Is this girl very insecure?
Long Version
So I met this girl that I work (I DJ @ a nightclub and shes a waitress there) w/ but at the time she had a boyfriend of 3 years. Her boyfriend treated herlike crap and did every horrible thing a boyfriend could do except for physical abuse to her for 3 years (ie: telling her about hot girls to her face, nottaking her out on dates, not getting her anything for anniversaries, emotionally abusing her).
I wasn't really after her cuz she had a boyfriend but then she came out and said she liked me and I said ditto. Girl ended up breaking up w/ her boyfriendbecause she realized she couldn't take that crap anymore and started dating me for about 2 months. During this time she would check my facebook messages,wall-to-walls, chat logs w/ a girl I dated right before her, text messages, call logs.
I wasn't too into the girl at first but she was pretty cute and she always told me 5 days out of 7 about some guy hitting on her or trying to get w/ herand about guys at work who tried to get at her. So I was feelin' like damn, I got a treasure here. She was hyping herself up and I fell into it.
Anyway fast forward after the 2 months we would just get into arguments about little things because shes always had bad relationships (11 boyfriends that allcheated on her and the previous one that treated her like crap) and she wanted someone perfect and I'm not nearly as experienced as she was so I was makingmistakes and she was getting fed up so she was thinking that we couldn't be in a relationship, but we still dated.
Then one day she goes into meet w/ a manager for this new club that our promotion company was doing and I was gonna DJ and she was gonna be a waitress and thisdude is a 28 year old, young manager, dressed sharply, and was probably financially stable. She tells me that night that she was attracted to dude and at thatmoment she realized a.) she couldn't be w/ me because I wasn't what she was lookin' for and b.) she couldn't be in a relationship because shewas looking at other dudes. So I was alright, cool, I understand.
Then a few days later, we get into one final argument because I talked to my ex about the girl problem and shes furious even tho me and my ex are not nearlyinterested/attracted to each other anymore so she says that she's over me and doesn't see me the same way anymore.
Fast forward a few days and shes at my place after work and shes drunk and I'm drunk and I'm just taking care of her letting her sleep at my place. Next morning I go about my day and shes still in my bed until 4pm. I get us food and come back and leave it for her and I'm chillin' outsidewatchin' the Patriots game. She stays in my bed the entire time and is talking to the dude via MySpace and talking to her friends about him on AIM on mylaptop the entire night. She leaves and I check the trash bin on my computer and I see that theres deleted chat logs. Being the bigger person, I didn'tread it but confronted her about it and she says that she only did it to protect my feelings.
Now her and the dude are talking. And she constantly updates me on their status.
I just want to know:
a.) Is she wrong for doing what she did?
b.) Is this girl a b---h?
c.) Is this girl very insecure?
- Met a girl at work, she had a boyfriend that treated her like crap and 11 other boyfriends that all cheated on her.
- Dated for a few months and she would check my myspace, facebook messages, wall-to-walls, chat logs w/ a girl I dated before, text messages, and call logs andwould get mad If I got mad at her about it
- She told me @ least 5 times a week that some new guy was after her or hitting on her at work, etc. so I thought I had a holy grail. She hyped herself up andI fell for it.
- Meets a manager at a club I work @ and thinks hes attractive (young, successful, dressed sharply, financially stable)
- We get into an argument quickly after she finds him attractive and she says that she doesn't feel the same way about me anymore and that she is over me.
- She spends time over my place using my laptop on my bed to talk to the guy via myspace and her friends about him and deletes the chat logs (I found them inthe trash bin of my macbook)
- She is now talking to him and updates me constantly on their status.
I just want to know:
a.) Is she wrong for doing what she did?
b.) Is this girl a b---h?
c.) Is this girl very insecure?
Long Version
So I met this girl that I work (I DJ @ a nightclub and shes a waitress there) w/ but at the time she had a boyfriend of 3 years. Her boyfriend treated herlike crap and did every horrible thing a boyfriend could do except for physical abuse to her for 3 years (ie: telling her about hot girls to her face, nottaking her out on dates, not getting her anything for anniversaries, emotionally abusing her).
I wasn't really after her cuz she had a boyfriend but then she came out and said she liked me and I said ditto. Girl ended up breaking up w/ her boyfriendbecause she realized she couldn't take that crap anymore and started dating me for about 2 months. During this time she would check my facebook messages,wall-to-walls, chat logs w/ a girl I dated right before her, text messages, call logs.
I wasn't too into the girl at first but she was pretty cute and she always told me 5 days out of 7 about some guy hitting on her or trying to get w/ herand about guys at work who tried to get at her. So I was feelin' like damn, I got a treasure here. She was hyping herself up and I fell into it.
Anyway fast forward after the 2 months we would just get into arguments about little things because shes always had bad relationships (11 boyfriends that allcheated on her and the previous one that treated her like crap) and she wanted someone perfect and I'm not nearly as experienced as she was so I was makingmistakes and she was getting fed up so she was thinking that we couldn't be in a relationship, but we still dated.
Then one day she goes into meet w/ a manager for this new club that our promotion company was doing and I was gonna DJ and she was gonna be a waitress and thisdude is a 28 year old, young manager, dressed sharply, and was probably financially stable. She tells me that night that she was attracted to dude and at thatmoment she realized a.) she couldn't be w/ me because I wasn't what she was lookin' for and b.) she couldn't be in a relationship because shewas looking at other dudes. So I was alright, cool, I understand.
Then a few days later, we get into one final argument because I talked to my ex about the girl problem and shes furious even tho me and my ex are not nearlyinterested/attracted to each other anymore so she says that she's over me and doesn't see me the same way anymore.
Fast forward a few days and shes at my place after work and shes drunk and I'm drunk and I'm just taking care of her letting her sleep at my place. Next morning I go about my day and shes still in my bed until 4pm. I get us food and come back and leave it for her and I'm chillin' outsidewatchin' the Patriots game. She stays in my bed the entire time and is talking to the dude via MySpace and talking to her friends about him on AIM on mylaptop the entire night. She leaves and I check the trash bin on my computer and I see that theres deleted chat logs. Being the bigger person, I didn'tread it but confronted her about it and she says that she only did it to protect my feelings.
Now her and the dude are talking. And she constantly updates me on their status.
I just want to know:
a.) Is she wrong for doing what she did?
b.) Is this girl a b---h?
c.) Is this girl very insecure?