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Originally Posted by lurkin2long
yea true......................lol. but if it was before you.................? how is it helping you? or any of your business? and if you did get a number...........men lie, women lie. like i said if both parties are clean why let things get complicated? if you pass it up somebody else gonna get that cuz you too worried about some past stuff that happen before you?
am i buggin?
Man I FEEL you on that one... I am talking to this one girl now and I swear every time her name comes up around one of my boys someone tells meeither they or one of our other friend hit. I mean I'm not overly conservative or anything and for the most part a woman's sexual history is none of mybusiness but I'm starting to feel like: "damn girl, who HAVEN'T you been with?"Originally Posted by BeastMode212
I ran through my fair share of girls out here and two days later I hear that my friend and my other friend put in work on her.
Originally Posted by Knivesdesu
Man I FEEL you on that one... I am talking to this one girl now and I swear every time her name comes up around one of my boys someone tells me either they or one of our other friend hit. I mean I'm not overly conservative or anything and for the most part a woman's sexual history is none of my business but I'm starting to feel like: "damn girl, who HAVEN'T you been with?"Originally Posted by BeastMode212
I ran through my fair share of girls out here and two days later I hear that my friend and my other friend put in work on her.
Personally I think men and women alike are too concerned with running through something now. It is getting to the point where I can't go out for a drink with a female without them getting offended I didn't bring them home to smash. I need some kind of challenge here, but half the time I have these girls at "hello" literally.
granted, it is their choice whether sex will take place or not...
so why shouldnt they be held accountable for smuttery?
Originally Posted by eNPHAN
to not even be concerned with your significant others past, sexual or otherwise?Originally Posted by lurkin2long
yea true......................lol. but if it was before you.................? how is it helping you? or any of your business? and if you did get a number...........men lie, women lie. like i said if both parties are clean why let things get complicated? if you pass it up somebody else gonna get that cuz you too worried about some past stuff that happen before you?
am i buggin?
yeah, i think you're bugging.
like i said, random slide? you'd be bugging to ask those questions..
chick you're in a committed relationship with? you'd be bugging NOT to ask, imo...
so why shouldnt they be held accountable for smuttery?Originally Posted by blackmagnus514
granted, it is their choice whether sex will take place or not...
Why would men feel threatened ? Women always use that insecurity excuse on menOriginally Posted by PinkAJs
I had a conversation regarding this with this guy I recently met. We got to talking about sexual partners and he informed me that he has had sex with over 40 women--and he is 21 years old.
While I was thoroughly unaffected by his amount (I understand the nature of men), I could not help but notice how glad he was that my number was much less than his. And, honestly, it made me mad. I sensed this egotistical "I am more experieced than you are therefore I will teach you things" attitude and I wondered, is it a power thing?
Do men just simply feel threatened by a woman who is as experienced, if not more, as they are?
Is that the reason why discussions like these will not seize to continue?
Yo u sound like you should write a bookOriginally Posted by eNPHAN
i never said you should'nt get over it, imo, that is a wonderful guage of your relationship...when you two are open enough to disclose EVERYTHING, and in spite of all of it, you two are still together, strong, and are willing to accept it, because you value each other THAT much...
smell me?
Never said that, I said the question would come up but I wouldnt expect to get the truth if I was in that situation (Trying to wife a chick thatwent away to college for 4 years)Originally Posted by eNPHAN
but see, that goes back to the girl in question...
if you don't think a level of such trust is established,
a.) why are you with her?
b.) why are you asking?
c.) is she really worth it?
i mean, you'll never fully trust anyone 100 percent....but to avoid the question altogether simply because you don't think you'll be told the truth
sounds on par with avoiding monogamous relationships because you don't think anyone will ever be committed...
both are illogical, imo.
Your a better man than me bruhOriginally Posted by eNPHAN
i'm just saying, dudes need to take responsibility for how we treat ALL girls...regardless if she's a slide or not..
Originally Posted by lurkin2long
LOL yo this is funny.
its like i agree with eNPHAN
then good ol real talk of NY yungmatt come thru like he usually do.
Originally Posted by Executive76
Yes...Women can have sex whenever they want...you don't hear about females running a train on a dude.
In dudes circumstances I can see where he's coming from. Alot of dudes wanna feel like an ALPHA male. Thats just how we are, but to be honestI don't see the logic in being so proud about sleeping with that many chicks. He's lucky if he didn'tcatch anything.Originally Posted by PinkAJs
I had a conversation regarding this with this guy I recently met. We got to talking about sexual partners and he informed me that he has had sex with over 40 women--and he is 21 years old.
While I was thoroughly unaffected by his amount (I understand the nature of men), I could not help but notice how glad he was that my number was much less than his. And, honestly, it made me mad. I sensed this egotistical "I am more experieced than you are therefore I will teach you things" attitude and I wondered, is it a power thing?
Do men just simply feel threatened by a woman who is as experienced, if not more, as they are?
Is that the reason why discussions like these will not seize to continue?
Originally Posted by DG Kyrk 33
Where is late80s??? I'm interested in hearing her thoughts on the subject.