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I would switch up how some relationships ended and how some started....homies and gf's.
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Sup, man. Been MIA pretty much on all platforms for the last several months...going through personal issues at the moment. Thanks for the concern, man. It's wild. I talk to my close friends (couple I met on here) almost daily to discuss my situation.I wish I went out more and traveled like everybody else in their 20s'. I am 28 now and I know I can still do it but I work two jobs 7 days out of the week and it is such a pain. I am just working now to pay off my student loans.
I sacrificed a lot for my family by staying local to help them out with the restaurant. There was something that happened to me in December 2014 where I was hospitalized at a mental health facility because of my anger which came from living with my parents and them being Asian parents didn't help. They would always scold me, tell me I am stupid and that I was a drug addict for smoking weed. The reason why I smoke weed is to ease the stress from them. To make a long story short, I decided to never communicate with them again. I know time heals all wounds but at this point in time, I think everybody needs a breather from it. To me, it is still very very new.
Dang bro, thats tough. Heres a hug man, I wish the best for you bro.
But I wish I didn't waste my time from high school and in college with an unhappy relationship. I was dating this chick for 8 years and was so unhappy, she was horrible man, and instead of walking away, I just stayed around like a dummy. But I learned a lot on how a relationship ISN'T supposed to be and now I can't be happier.
Also, wish I saved my money and didn't get into so much debt with nonsense. CC bills are dumb right now, paying for things I spent in college haha
Oh, wish I took working out seriously, I would be good now! haha now I'm 27 barely trying to get in shape and man it is HARD!! My old *** cant keep up with these young cats haha
Wis, whats up man! Haven't seen you too active on IG lately brother.
Were you out of control with your drinking? I was the youngest one on the team so when I turned 21, it was game on. I'm still convinced we put a couple of shot girls through school. I eventually stopped 2 years later because I adopted a healthier lifestyle and dropped from 220 lbs to 140 lbs in 1.5 years or so. I recently started drinking socially again, and man...I'm gone after 1 margaritaIf I could go back I wouldnt have continued drinking into my 20s I didn't put it down until I was 29 but now I'm disgusted by just the thought of it.
I'm turning 20 next month and would have done a thing or two different. One of them would be to take my mom to the mother son dance.
Hopw to get some great advice from you guys.
At what age do you guys think is your last chance to choose something Career wise? I'm turning 24 next week and i did one year of computer programming but didn't like it.
now I'm kinda stuck on another career choice.
I love how some of yall fake and say, "I wouldn't do ANYTHING differently."
Come on man. ANYTHING?
i looked back and realized that alcohol was involved almost every single time I got in trouble. I did a lot of things that went against my character and it got harder and harder to just brush off. A car accident a few years ago was the last straw and I haven't touched it since. All of a sudden it just clicked. I went out a couple of times with my boys but soon realized I hate drunk people and am genuinely embarrassed that I did that for so long. Yeah bro the weight just fell off my body after I stopped. I also adopted a healthier lifestyle when I stopped and I can't ever see going back. You cant gain anything from it.Were you out of control with your drinking? I was the youngest one on the team so when I turned 21, it was game on. I'm still convinced we put a couple of shot girls through school. I eventually stopped 2 years later because I adopted a healthier lifestyle and dropped from 220 lbs to 140 lbs in 1.5 years or so. I recently started drinking socially again, and man...I'm gone after 1 margarita
Wis, I'm going to be 30 this year as well brother so I know why you ask the questions you ask.
IMHO here are 2 wisdom pieces I hope younger and older NT'ers will understand...
1) The grass will ALWAYS be greener....if you live with some sort of regret about the past
and
2) Hindsight is always 20/20....
It seems to me that this is a human condition for people who are either trying to be successful in the present, feel stuck in life, and/or live with that regret.
there's tons of things I wish I did differently to be honest. I think about it daily. But over the past year i've learned how to better cope with the setbacks i've come across.
So for anyone making a big decision (e.g., type of girl your dating, lending/borrowing money, financial investment, career, education, etc.) I urge you to take the time to gather the facts about the situation....especially the fact about how you feel about the situation and make the best decision possible. The best decision is not always the one that will make you feel good though...initially.
looking back at past decisions will give you insight about how you may feel about your current decisions in the future. They say keeping one foot in the past and the other in the future will have you pissing on the present but you can't make sound decisions without reference points.Were mistakes made in the past? Sure, without question, but what good does it do me and y'all to lament over what "could've been" and "should've been"? Everyday is an opportunity to live or work towards the life you have always imagined for yourself. Seize these present moments brood little about foregone matters
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THIS RIGHT HERE......PERCEPTION IS EVERYTHING.....Grass is always greener, b.
I'm 25... I wish I could fast shared to 35, get all that knowledge, then come back to 25.
That would be
i looked back and realized that alcohol was involved almost every single time I got in trouble. I did a lot of things that went against my character and it got harder and harder to just brush off. A car accident a few years ago was the last straw and I haven't touched it since. All of a sudden it just clicked. I went out a couple of times with my boys but soon realized I hate drunk people and am genuinely embarrassed that I did that for so long. Yeah bro the weight just fell off my body after I stopped. I also adopted a healthier lifestyle when I stopped and I can't ever see going back. You cant gain anything from it.Were you out of control with your drinking? I was the youngest one on the team so when I turned 21, it was game on. I'm still convinced we put a couple of shot girls through school. I eventually stopped 2 years later because I adopted a healthier lifestyle and dropped from 220 lbs to 140 lbs in 1.5 years or so. I recently started drinking socially again, and man...I'm gone after 1 margarita