I think that's the problem... We the majority out here and frankly, latinas are racist as heck... They only want to date light skinned mexicans at the least the cute ones. Then you have the *******s who want the eses which im not and then you got the gold diggers who want the narco type dudes and im not that either. White girls out here don't like mexicans or non black dudes at all, all the attractive black girls seem to only date black guys or rich white guys and thsn you got asian girls who exclusively date white guys. Im just a regular looking dark brown hispanic dude. I aint got colored eyes or any of that ish.. That essentially just categorizes me as "just another mexican". I am very quiet when im around people i dont know but once Im given a chance, i get along with everyone. I am very self conscious about myself and have zero confidence in myself because of the lack of attention i get from the opposite sex. I mean, i even get ignored at strip clubs by females. The part i dont understand is I've been told by some girls that I'm not an ugly guy but i can't get that out of my head because again of my failures in getting girls
damn homie. we like brothers. i cant help you on that one homie im right there with you.
i look like a ese and i think im a pretty ugly dude no homo, im in shape .ive had quite a few girls who've been in to me but they think im an ese but im not. Im just a regular dude so they get let down.
Work on self. Work on self. You need to really start working on yourself. Think about all the things to want to change about you. Write them down. Then pick one and start there. You're shy? Start listening to audio books on public speaking, picking up women, body language etc. Get into hobbies to make yourself more interesting. Get a subscription to GQ magazine. Start dressing stylish. Hit the gym regularly and eat right. Take care of your skin. Step your cologne game up. Most importantly, have fun.
+1
good ish right here , ive been trying to take that in to action. my ability in all that i bolded needs major improvement.