In regards to the purse holding convo, my girl (met online a couple months ago) is the exact opposite. Just for reference, she's a homegrown Texas country chick while I'm a city guy originally from L.A.. She's waiting for her open carry permit while I won't even touch a firearm (word to Batman). When we shop, she insists on carrying everything herself. She doesn't mind if I look in her bag, but she doesn't want me holding it in public. Same with opening the car door. Did it in the beginning, but now she's like (paraphrasing), "you're a gentlemen, I get it, but I don't want to waste time sitting down just to wait for you to open the door."