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So I find myself often looking out of getting "burnt". Seems like from my experience that in college I'm always seeing girls messing withmultiple guys or talking with multiple guys. I guess there is so much temptation in college, at bars, etc that I often wonder how you guys deal with this. For example, I've been talking to one since summer and our friendship/fling has been off and on. She came out of a relationship when I started talkingwith her (near end of her relationship) and we hung out a lot and get along great but she said she didn't want another relationship etc. Long story short,she sort of lead me on but we are great friends and usually still mess around when we hang out. Anyways, I 'm good friends with her roommate and herroommate is bouncing around a lot and they both tend to say they want to enjoy senior year.
What I'm getting at is last night with this chick, we went to the NCAA games, had dinner, and just an awesome day together. We go out to a bar back intown when we get back and I hung with some of my friends and she went with hers. Anyways were not together but she knows I like her and I'm not sure herfeelings towards me at the moment, but she was talking to some guy for a little and then at end of the night I asked her if she was going back to her placebecause my stuff was there and she said she "Didn't know". I sort of played *+%* block card figuring something seemed fishy. Anyways I stayedwith her last night ultimately but this morning she was saying she made good decisions last night and didn't go with that one guy and I asked her if shewanted to and she said she "Didn't Know" but he's a nice guy, etc. and glad we didn't mess around for once last night as she doesn'twant to lead me on (complicated from past stuff). I know she's not a %#@% or anything but it amazes me that even thought were not togather she would evenconsider the other guy whom she doesn't even talk to beside maybe see in class or something , etc. She doesn't want any relationships which makes oursituation complicated but how should I handle it? It's hard for me to say anything because were not togather so she shouldn't have any"ties" to me , etc. I know some of you know what I'm talking about here. They face temptations everywhere and how do you guys react to keepthings in tact with your ladies ?
I do see some good advice on NT sometimes and I'd like some views on this.
What I'm getting at is last night with this chick, we went to the NCAA games, had dinner, and just an awesome day together. We go out to a bar back intown when we get back and I hung with some of my friends and she went with hers. Anyways were not together but she knows I like her and I'm not sure herfeelings towards me at the moment, but she was talking to some guy for a little and then at end of the night I asked her if she was going back to her placebecause my stuff was there and she said she "Didn't know". I sort of played *+%* block card figuring something seemed fishy. Anyways I stayedwith her last night ultimately but this morning she was saying she made good decisions last night and didn't go with that one guy and I asked her if shewanted to and she said she "Didn't Know" but he's a nice guy, etc. and glad we didn't mess around for once last night as she doesn'twant to lead me on (complicated from past stuff). I know she's not a %#@% or anything but it amazes me that even thought were not togather she would evenconsider the other guy whom she doesn't even talk to beside maybe see in class or something , etc. She doesn't want any relationships which makes oursituation complicated but how should I handle it? It's hard for me to say anything because were not togather so she shouldn't have any"ties" to me , etc. I know some of you know what I'm talking about here. They face temptations everywhere and how do you guys react to keepthings in tact with your ladies ?
I do see some good advice on NT sometimes and I'd like some views on this.