If you about to wife a chick....vol: how many it been now?

Originally Posted by Capricorn1229

I can usually tell how young-minded a dude is if he is very concerned about a woman's body count and has the rule she has to be a virgin or close to it when he has been loose and in the streets.
THIS. Hypocritical standards.

I find it so ridiculous for a man to expect an idealistic body count when he has had more than his fair share. To me, right there, you are not equating her as an equal sexual being and you see her as beneath you. Women love sex as much as men too and they get really horny too.

I can understand some men being turned off by high numbers and vice a versa with women turned off by high numbers from men. But, as for men, if they are very concerned with numbers, I think it tends to be insecurity with them. They think that maybe they can't satisfy or compare to the other partners that she's had before him. Penis complex plays into it too.

  
 
Originally Posted by Capricorn1229

I can usually tell how young-minded a dude is if he is very concerned about a woman's body count and has the rule she has to be a virgin or close to it when he has been loose and in the streets.
THIS. Hypocritical standards.

I find it so ridiculous for a man to expect an idealistic body count when he has had more than his fair share. To me, right there, you are not equating her as an equal sexual being and you see her as beneath you. Women love sex as much as men too and they get really horny too.

I can understand some men being turned off by high numbers and vice a versa with women turned off by high numbers from men. But, as for men, if they are very concerned with numbers, I think it tends to be insecurity with them. They think that maybe they can't satisfy or compare to the other partners that she's had before him. Penis complex plays into it too.

  
 
Originally Posted by Russ tha G

Your favorite sweet girl with the low body count and self respect will go out with her girl friends for the first time in ages, get drunk, and smash a guy on the first night and not give a damb in the morning. Does it make her a better person if her overall count is low if most of them have come from nights like this and maybe one or two come from long term boyfriends?
What do you mean by this question? That if a girl with a very low body count has a one night stand, it would change your perspective about her?

  
 
Originally Posted by Russ tha G

Your favorite sweet girl with the low body count and self respect will go out with her girl friends for the first time in ages, get drunk, and smash a guy on the first night and not give a damb in the morning. Does it make her a better person if her overall count is low if most of them have come from nights like this and maybe one or two come from long term boyfriends?
What do you mean by this question? That if a girl with a very low body count has a one night stand, it would change your perspective about her?

  
 
Originally Posted by Hazeleyed Honey

Originally Posted by Capricorn1229

I can usually tell how young-minded a dude is if he is very concerned about a woman's body count and has the rule she has to be a virgin or close to it when he has been loose and in the streets.
THIS. Hypocritical standards.

I find it so ridiculous for a man to expect an idealistic body count when he has had more than his fair share. To me, right there, you are not equating her as an equal sexual being and you see her as beneath you. Women love sex as much as men too and they get really horny too.

I can understand some men being turned off by high numbers and vice a versa with women turned off by high numbers from men. But, as for men, if they are very concerned with numbers, I think it tends to be insecurity with them.
They think that maybe they can't satisfy or compare to the other partners that she's had before him. Penis complex plays into it too.

  
yeah its the GUYS fault for being mad at the chicks number when its high... riiiiiiiight, it can't be she's just a roller, oh no, apparently its because the guy is insecure 
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there is NOTHING you can do about the double standard but do you REALLY think that its bs? you don't see the relationship between a high number of sexual relations and how a women respects herself? there is NO devils advocate slim ahaha. 

but just to play... by your logic, because a man sleeps around, he can't be mad if he finds out his girl is a bop joint? 
 
Originally Posted by Hazeleyed Honey

Originally Posted by Capricorn1229

I can usually tell how young-minded a dude is if he is very concerned about a woman's body count and has the rule she has to be a virgin or close to it when he has been loose and in the streets.
THIS. Hypocritical standards.

I find it so ridiculous for a man to expect an idealistic body count when he has had more than his fair share. To me, right there, you are not equating her as an equal sexual being and you see her as beneath you. Women love sex as much as men too and they get really horny too.

I can understand some men being turned off by high numbers and vice a versa with women turned off by high numbers from men. But, as for men, if they are very concerned with numbers, I think it tends to be insecurity with them.
They think that maybe they can't satisfy or compare to the other partners that she's had before him. Penis complex plays into it too.

  
yeah its the GUYS fault for being mad at the chicks number when its high... riiiiiiiight, it can't be she's just a roller, oh no, apparently its because the guy is insecure 
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there is NOTHING you can do about the double standard but do you REALLY think that its bs? you don't see the relationship between a high number of sexual relations and how a women respects herself? there is NO devils advocate slim ahaha. 

but just to play... by your logic, because a man sleeps around, he can't be mad if he finds out his girl is a bop joint? 
 
Originally Posted by Hazeleyed Honey

Originally Posted by Capricorn1229

I can usually tell how young-minded a dude is if he is very concerned about a woman's body count and has the rule she has to be a virgin or close to it when he has been loose and in the streets.
THIS. Hypocritical standards.

I find it so ridiculous for a man to expect an idealistic body count when he has had more than his fair share. To me, right there, you are not equating her as an equal sexual being and you see her as beneath you. Women love sex as much as men too and they get really horny too.

I can understand some men being turned off by high numbers and vice a versa with women turned off by high numbers from men. But, as for men, if they are very concerned with numbers, I think it tends to be insecurity with them. They think that maybe they can't satisfy or compare to the other partners that she's had before him. Penis complex plays into it too.

  
Or maybe they have old fashioned values, or are concerned about their health in terms of STDs. It also isn't a favorable personality trait to swing from penis to penis to penis.

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at acting like there's something wrong with everybody else because they have an issue with women who are +*%@.
 
Originally Posted by Hazeleyed Honey

Originally Posted by Capricorn1229

I can usually tell how young-minded a dude is if he is very concerned about a woman's body count and has the rule she has to be a virgin or close to it when he has been loose and in the streets.
THIS. Hypocritical standards.

I find it so ridiculous for a man to expect an idealistic body count when he has had more than his fair share. To me, right there, you are not equating her as an equal sexual being and you see her as beneath you. Women love sex as much as men too and they get really horny too.

I can understand some men being turned off by high numbers and vice a versa with women turned off by high numbers from men. But, as for men, if they are very concerned with numbers, I think it tends to be insecurity with them. They think that maybe they can't satisfy or compare to the other partners that she's had before him. Penis complex plays into it too.

  
Or maybe they have old fashioned values, or are concerned about their health in terms of STDs. It also isn't a favorable personality trait to swing from penis to penis to penis.

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at acting like there's something wrong with everybody else because they have an issue with women who are +*%@.
 
It's 2011 and although women are becoming more like men, are you guys still asking this? Let go of your insecurity and investigate her through another light i.e her loyalty trust etc.. chances are even if the count is low, she could still b a !@*@ (in your logic)
 
It's 2011 and although women are becoming more like men, are you guys still asking this? Let go of your insecurity and investigate her through another light i.e her loyalty trust etc.. chances are even if the count is low, she could still b a !@*@ (in your logic)
 
Listen don't go asking/looking for stuff you can't handle I thought your parents showed you that.
 
Listen don't go asking/looking for stuff you can't handle I thought your parents showed you that.
 
i'm way to tired to really chime in how i want...maybe in the morning if this thread isn't a million pages
 
i'm way to tired to really chime in how i want...maybe in the morning if this thread isn't a million pages
 
I never believe women on this. Miraculously, they're all angels with low body counts who never ever had one night stands or sex outside the context of a relationship.

Honestly, if they're #*%$%+, there's nonverbal stuff to look out for.
 
I never believe women on this. Miraculously, they're all angels with low body counts who never ever had one night stands or sex outside the context of a relationship.

Honestly, if they're #*%$%+, there's nonverbal stuff to look out for.
 
Originally Posted by Aze201

You don't ask this question, ever.
agreed. if they give you a number its gonna be low anyways. 
if you can't figure out if whether or not a girl is loose without asking her directly, you need to step your game up.
 
Originally Posted by Aze201

You don't ask this question, ever.
agreed. if they give you a number its gonna be low anyways. 
if you can't figure out if whether or not a girl is loose without asking her directly, you need to step your game up.
 
Originally Posted by AceMaster193

Originally Posted by Furrell

Never ask a woman about other men. Either she'll tell you a lie, and you still won't know, or if she tells you the truth, you might not have wanted to hear it in the first place. - Malcolm X
Did Malcolm really say that? A wise man in all aspects. Yeah, a girl will almost never tell you the truth if her body count is high (5-7+), so why even bother asking. At the end, just let it be because you might find out something devastating that can alter your view of the relationship.
*Girls divide their body count, while guys multiply their count when revealing.
Malcolm X was a pimp, dude. Like, legitimately.
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Originally Posted by AceMaster193

Originally Posted by Furrell

Never ask a woman about other men. Either she'll tell you a lie, and you still won't know, or if she tells you the truth, you might not have wanted to hear it in the first place. - Malcolm X
Did Malcolm really say that? A wise man in all aspects. Yeah, a girl will almost never tell you the truth if her body count is high (5-7+), so why even bother asking. At the end, just let it be because you might find out something devastating that can alter your view of the relationship.
*Girls divide their body count, while guys multiply their count when revealing.
Malcolm X was a pimp, dude. Like, legitimately.
roll.gif
 
Originally Posted by PUSHA C

Originally Posted by Hazeleyed Honey

Originally Posted by Capricorn1229

I can usually tell how young-minded a dude is if he is very concerned about a woman's body count and has the rule she has to be a virgin or close to it when he has been loose and in the streets.
THIS. Hypocritical standards.

I find it so ridiculous for a man to expect an idealistic body count when he has had more than his fair share. To me, right there, you are not equating her as an equal sexual being and you see her as beneath you. Women love sex as much as men too and they get really horny too.

I can understand some men being turned off by high numbers and vice a versa with women turned off by high numbers from men. But, as for men, if they are very concerned with numbers, I think it tends to be insecurity with them.
They think that maybe they can't satisfy or compare to the other partners that she's had before him. Penis complex plays into it too.

  
there is NOTHING you can do about the double standard but do you REALLY think that its bs? you don't see the relationship between a high number of sexual relations and how a women respects herself? there is NO devils advocate slim ahaha. 
but just to play... by your logic, because a man sleeps around, he can't be mad if he finds out his girl is a bop joint? 
I see the relationship but you know a lot dudes out here sell nice cozy ever-after dreams that mess with girls minds and they won't stay around too long if she isn't giving it up. Alcohol, bad choices, bad boys and a false sense of sexual independence lead to crazy body counts for women. I personally believe that since women are the receivers we shouldn't just invite any ol' body in but that takes a certain kind of will in this day and age. Women having sex shouldn't be so taboo but you know *%+# happens.
 
Originally Posted by PUSHA C

Originally Posted by Hazeleyed Honey

Originally Posted by Capricorn1229

I can usually tell how young-minded a dude is if he is very concerned about a woman's body count and has the rule she has to be a virgin or close to it when he has been loose and in the streets.
THIS. Hypocritical standards.

I find it so ridiculous for a man to expect an idealistic body count when he has had more than his fair share. To me, right there, you are not equating her as an equal sexual being and you see her as beneath you. Women love sex as much as men too and they get really horny too.

I can understand some men being turned off by high numbers and vice a versa with women turned off by high numbers from men. But, as for men, if they are very concerned with numbers, I think it tends to be insecurity with them.
They think that maybe they can't satisfy or compare to the other partners that she's had before him. Penis complex plays into it too.

  
there is NOTHING you can do about the double standard but do you REALLY think that its bs? you don't see the relationship between a high number of sexual relations and how a women respects herself? there is NO devils advocate slim ahaha. 
but just to play... by your logic, because a man sleeps around, he can't be mad if he finds out his girl is a bop joint? 
I see the relationship but you know a lot dudes out here sell nice cozy ever-after dreams that mess with girls minds and they won't stay around too long if she isn't giving it up. Alcohol, bad choices, bad boys and a false sense of sexual independence lead to crazy body counts for women. I personally believe that since women are the receivers we shouldn't just invite any ol' body in but that takes a certain kind of will in this day and age. Women having sex shouldn't be so taboo but you know *%+# happens.
 
You're asking a question you don't want to know the answer to. Just like Chris Rock said, no matter what she says, it's going to be too many bodies for you. There's no benefit of asking that question and you can't change the past anyway. Besides what makes you think she won't just lie to you about it anyway? As long as they aren't still smashing then you good. However, if she's in the pornstar number body count then maybe you should reconsider wifing her.
 
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