It's the EXACT SAME THING THO
You're just saying one is appropriate because you VALUE cleanliness more, so you're ok with people asking adults to partially undress.
A person that places more value on CONNECTION may feel that asking for the phone is fair game.
Both are doing too much. Just like (pre-covid) asking people to wear masks or gloves in your crib is doing too much. Germs spread that way too. But it comes across as pesky to ask someone that.
But...but.... But.... What happened to respecting people's house/rules
Both are doing too much.
I love that someone introduced a topic that hit y'all in a soft spot.