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I grew up in a single parent household and everything was good. Just depends on the parent financial power.
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That can easily be seen as an arrogant and deluded world view.I saw this in another thread.
agreed...not having children is selfish, we need to keep adding to man's legacy...
matter of fact, even the bible says "go forth and be fruitful," its mans duty to pass on his seed and the more he does it, the better he is...
Yeah but it's not like he asked to be born or be raised by an unfit father.If he thought like that you wouldn't be here
You can be better than your father famb.
This is why we have such a reasonable argument for pro-choice when it comes to abortion.If your progenitors struggled for hundreds of years to allow your life to be possible and you decide the line stops with you, I think that is a bit selfish. Especially if your family hasn't accomplished or contributed to society.
But then again, if your family has always struggled and never contributed to society and only taken, why continue that line of failure? Kidding obviously.
It's a personal choice. Most of the time pregnancies are unplanned any way. We like sex and kids come from that. There's a reason sex feels good. It's because if the act of creating a life was anywhere close to the difficulty of protecting, guiding, providing for and nurturing that life, mankind would cease to exist. There are a lot of ****** parents out there.
My progenitors struggled, why the hell would I want to bring someone into this world AGAINST their will so they could struggle through life. I don't consider life a "gift", I was perfectly fine with non-existence. I didn't have to deal with ignorance, violence, disease, and a long list of life's ills. If anything it's selfish on the part of family members who they have something to gain by bringing another life into this mess.
There's no one to blame in that scenario because you can always adopt.In my experience people who are adamant about others having children are selfish and obtuse. Having children is a sellfish act.
I suppose that woman who wants to forgo having children because she thinks it may interfere with her career as a surgeon (takes commitment and sacrifice, she wants to help others) and she feels she can't give the child the attention it deserves is somehow less committed than that woman with 5 kids and no job, who relies on government funds and child support?
When your womb becomes barren and you've lost out on potential life partners because you kept putting off children in lieu of a career you have no one to blame but yourself for being selfish.
How were you selfish?
I remember back when I was dating this one chick and she wanted to have kids. We were together for a couple of years and I thought we could've had a future together and I figured it would happen at some point in the future. Only thing was that she wanted them NOW. As a 21 year old I was like hell no, we are still kids ourselves. I don't know if it was the fact that her mother had her when she was a teenager or if all of her friends were either having kids or getting married, but she was determined to have a kid. She didn't have a plan or anything. Neither of us had any real money or a place to stay; we were just college kids trying to get degrees. Maybe I was selfish, but there was no way I was ready to have a kid without a stable job or a place to live. Plus I still wanted to travel a bit. A year later after we broke up and I moved across country she tells me she's having a kid. In the end we both got what we wanted. I got to travel, grow up and learn about myself and she got a kid.
No. But I think it's weird to not want to.
Lol @ you be in ng selfish for THATI'm 27 and my lil sister is 7, as far as I'm concerned my folks already took care of the whole having a child thing. I feel no need to have a child of my own knowing one day I might have to look after her.
Some of you know, I am a teacher. So I deal with kids 50+ hours per week. More than any parent deals with their own child that is of school age.
I need a break from them by time 6 pm comes. Picture me going home and spending time with MORE children. Nah, I need my time. I need to be able to watch wrestling. I need to be able to watch NBA. I need tk be able to play 2K. No, I don't need to grow up. That's how you grow old
I need to keep my sanity. Am I allowed to be selfish or am I not doing enough for the community as it is.
That is why I laughed at the statement of people that don't want them as being selfish.
not true at all.A lot of people base their opinion on having kids off someone they see out in public struggling to keep their children in order or just a bad parent in general that they see and generalize it into that being what parenting is all like. It isn't the case, in the least bit.
Lol @ you be in ng selfish for THAT
not true at all.A lot of people base their opinion on having kids off someone they see out in public struggling to keep their children in order or just a bad parent in general that they see and generalize it into that being what parenting is all like. It isn't the case, in the least bit.
im basing off good parents, great parents actually. i see how much they love their children and see how much sacrifice is needed.
it really is a full time job to be a GOOD PARENT.
As a teacher, you should be able to calculate that out of 24 hours a day, you have heir kids 6 of those 24, leaving the remaining 18 hours of that child's time spent with their parents, in addition to the 48 hours on the weekend adding up to 138 hours a week spent parenting.