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Obviously I don’t know lolo so I could be completely wrong but I follow her on social media and she puts out a lot of content. I get a really immature/little sister vibe from her. Like immature in the sense that I don’t think shes had enough practice in adult social/romantic settings. I don’t get the “modern woman” vibe from her though. I just think the kind of dudes that could vibe on her wave length are going to be too intimidated approach her.
“Intimidated”?? Ain’t no dude intimidated of Lolo Jones with her bony body that resembles an ironing board or any chick for that matter. Lolo Jones is basically a regular female that’s somewhat known……nothing special about her.
My wife works with this hot 40 year old lady who is a virgin because she's religious. Something doesn't add up. She drives a really nice car and is successful. I wanted to be like hook me up with them digits. I am so down with polygamy.
i didnt say theyd be intimidated by here appearance. intimidated by the fact that shes a public figure, olympian, etc. the kind of dudes that would go for a girl thats described the way i described her in my post is more than likely introverted
tbh that's another thing I think that KS was 100% right about.
if you are actually religious and are waiting for marriage
you should be actively working with your church, or family to find a partner.
otherwise the religious thing is likely just an excuse to avoid self reflection.
if a man said he was a virgin at 40 because of religion
no one would think that was cute or believable.
most woman would rightly assume there is some deeper trauma or personality flaw at work
introverted or nah, i’d argue that intimidated is probably the wrong word…i would think for one, if most men could choose between someone who was something of a celebrity or someone low key everything else being more or less equal, they’d prefer the low key option.
then there is being available, chasing a highly competitive/selective/specialized thing, track & field, wherein they basically train year round for a few meets and where most don’t make much money, which means she’s probably ambitious, disciplined, & would necessitate giving serious priority to her sport. doesn’t make finding a mate impossible but being so driven would likely add difficulty for a woman to get with someone not in/of that world & understanding it
it’s speculation, but i’d bet there were a bunch of different types of dudes willing to accept her as she was when she was younger, chastity belt and all…and for whatever reason it never worked out. i don’t think women who share her similar values are cognizant of the degree of difficulty they are adding to their mate selection…if they want a certain type of man, in the modern dating context, they will have to find him and not the other way around; which is part of why i believe kevin samuels content blew up when he started talking to women…it exposed/revealed the women who were looking for a specific kind of man, and altho they may have had some experience with/exposure to these men in their lives, they really don’t know anything about these men or how to find & approach them.
Obviously I don’t know lolo so I could be completely wrong but I follow her on social media and she puts out a lot of content. I get a really immature/little sister vibe from her. Like immature in the sense that I don’t think shes had enough practice in adult social/romantic settings. I don’t get the “modern woman” vibe from her though. I just think the kind of dudes that could vibe on her wave length are going to be too intimidated approach her.
i didnt say theyd be intimidated by here appearance. intimidated by the fact that shes a public figure, olympian, etc. the kind of dudes that would go for a girl thats described the way i described her in my post is more than likely introverted
Generally speaking nobody knows who the hell Lolo Jones is. She can be in Times Square or at her Family Reunion cookout and folks would walk by her like it’s nothing. Brothas ain’t checking for Lolo Jones. How are you going to be “intimidated” by something or somebody that doesn’t exist.
I remember when Lolo Jones came onto the track and field scene back in 2008 at the Beijing olympics. She was getting a LOT of attention back then as the newest young person on the scene. The subject about her virginity came up back then as well. I remember not thinking much of it at the time, but I didn't think she'd be here damn near 15 years later at almost 40 years old complaining that she can't find a man willing to wait for her. I have no issue with her being a virgin at her age, but her wanting a husband and her own kids ........... that dream is out of reach. And i hate to say it, because she seems like a decent woman.
Definitely a case of putting her career first in my opinion
This was 2 years ago. If you watch the first couple of minutes, she seems.............socially awkward. Self awareness seems lost upon her.
Any man that’s intimidated by a woman is insecure and a certified scaredy cat. NO WOMAN should ever make you feel intimidated…..
That’s something that should never even fester in your mind
Not only the religious stuff she seems to be trap in some sunk cost fallacy thinking. Like she has done things a certain way for so long that she won't give up now because she needs her strategy to pay off.
All that religious stuff she ingested seems to have really sabotaged her relationship prospects. Not only with the sex stuff, just generally she seems a bit detached from the realities of dating.
Like if she wants a man to accept her being a virgin an waiting until marriage, cool. But seems also unwilling to compromise in any other area. Not only that, she is making extra demands on top of that.
I don't even think looking for a dude at church will help her. She really sounds like some of my high school friends before they got their first serious boyfriend.
Not only the religious stuff she seems to be trap in some sunk cost fallacy thinking. Like she has done things a certain way for so long that she won't give up now because she needs her strategy to pay off.
Kinda feel bad for her.
Definitely a case of putting her career first in my opinion