If that's the case do your homework before you marry her. I thought Lamar was dumb for marrying her after a month. In this case you get what you ask for. You knew her family was an attention circus before you got there, so you signed up for it, now be a man and deal with your decision. Mark, you're right, they just like to be talked about and that fact alone would make me run away.
Or you could just iuno....... "lightbulb". Not get married. Ppl act as it is some "must have" quintessential need in life...like air, water, nourishment. I promise you plenty of ppl have gone on and lived with out making a law binding "fiscal obligated" contract with a person. I mean hell in any case, but especially in his, there was nothing beneficial about being married, let alone to her. I mean its f'ed up if this is some deep, methodical, convoluted plan. But at the same time he was the fool for getting married.