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If you're gonna do it you gotta be faithful or you'll go crazy.
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Large piece to consider.
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How u figure that?
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Not putting my name on the lease... gonna put the cable bill and electric in my name though
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OP don't do unless you ready for the pressure of marriage and not just from her.
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Please stop.
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I can't see the validity in this statement. I know females that don't even care about marriage and live with their boyfriends. Also vice versa. I think it's a case by case situation when it comes to the pressures of marriage and moving in together.
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Its been said I'm sure but just make sure you communicate clearly that you need your space or "me time" every now and then. That **** is crucial.
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Def a case by case. I think the likelyhood will shoot up if this move is made tho.
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I can already tell you get no buns
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I can agree with that, depending on OPs girls mindset. I mean he knows her better than us so all up to him to decide
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I want to believe this.
But my life experience(s) is/are slapping me in the face.
These two are mad young and are going to continue to change rapidly. What is today (how they feel) most likely will not be 6 months from now.
She may not want to marry now but mess around and let her friends start getting married
. Let her fall into depression (which we all do) and start trying to fill voids and then we will see. Let the relationship hit those weird years were people feel like they need to marry or break up. This is mad risky but you need to learn either way. Good luck.
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I think the biggest thing is feeling an obligation to be home at night. If you're someone who stays out late with friends/colleagues (till like 2-3 in the morning), that may get curved. She's not trying to go to sleep alone and may want you back we'll before that. Especially if she only sees you part of the week.
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You are pretty confident.
How do you know that I didn't make that comment from experience
. I am trying to help OP.
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Also, I'd probably just move into a smaller apartment. Not trying to spend more money to move somewhere else. Can probably find a 1bd if her roommate is moving out
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You are pretty confident.
How do you know that I didn't make that comment from experience
I am trying to help OP.
My fault.. I thought u were saying it in a different way. My apologies kind sir
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Yea but he talking bout side chicks already. OP get you a storage room to keep your stuff in bc you sound like you not fully ready.I can agree with that, depending on OPs girls mindset. I mean he knows her better than us so all up to him to decide
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Cohabitation leads to divorce :x
wavy daddy
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Da hell is dis.
Bottom line, coin purse is available at all times, and so is her debit card.
Bottom line, coin purse is available at all times, and so is her debit card.
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Tell her to put u on her benefits and fly free.
Green light to travel..
Green light to travel..
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Nothing gets them more bitter/angry/jealous than their friends getting married and having babies.I want to believe this.
But my life experience(s) is/are slapping me in the face.
These two are mad young and are going to continue to change rapidly. What is today (how they feel) most likely will not be 6 months from now.
She may not want to marry now but mess around and let her friends start getting married. Let her fall into depression (which we all do) and start trying to fill voids and then we will see. Let the relationship hit those weird years were people feel like they need to marry or break up.
This is mad risky but you need to learn either way. Good luck.
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Facts. Wait till her friends/co workers start tying the knot.
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Only do it if you ready to be married
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