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if you can still be friends and beat the brakes off her , why not?
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Originally Posted by Xavier
this post is moneyOriginally Posted by GrimlocK
OP listen to me very closely...dump that chick immediately let me tell you why.
1) Her saying she lost interest/that spark is saying that she's not really interested in you
2) Why go from being a general to a lieutenant, she's basically demoting you to friendship...don't accept that
3) You and her were not meant for each other, she likes going out and partying and you don't thats a large gap and it's best that you just look for a girl that has somewhat of the same mind frame as you do
4) This won't work out for you...I've seen it happen alot, just save yourself the time and headache and just find someone else...it's hard at first because you probably think you love this girl but down the road when you find a better girl your gonna kick yourself in the %## for not leaving her sooner.
5)She's making a ton of excuses as to why you and her shouldn't be together no matter how nice she was in breaking all of this down to you. Your best course of action is not to make a big deal out of this just call her up and tell her straight up that being anything with her wouldn'yt be a wise idea but if you see her in the streets you'll say whatup.
Trust me man its better to leave this with your head held high, temper in check and a slightly broken heart than to continue on with this facade.
Learn to also make compromises in the future that are doable for you...no need to put on a serious front that your into something when your not but be willing to do something that your g/f likes to do because you actually care about her.
Originally Posted by Xavier
this post is moneyOriginally Posted by GrimlocK
OP listen to me very closely...dump that chick immediately let me tell you why.
1) Her saying she lost interest/that spark is saying that she's not really interested in you
2) Why go from being a general to a lieutenant, she's basically demoting you to friendship...don't accept that
3) You and her were not meant for each other, she likes going out and partying and you don't thats a large gap and it's best that you just look for a girl that has somewhat of the same mind frame as you do
4) This won't work out for you...I've seen it happen alot, just save yourself the time and headache and just find someone else...it's hard at first because you probably think you love this girl but down the road when you find a better girl your gonna kick yourself in the %## for not leaving her sooner.
5)She's making a ton of excuses as to why you and her shouldn't be together no matter how nice she was in breaking all of this down to you. Your best course of action is not to make a big deal out of this just call her up and tell her straight up that being anything with her wouldn'yt be a wise idea but if you see her in the streets you'll say whatup.
Trust me man its better to leave this with your head held high, temper in check and a slightly broken heart than to continue on with this facade.
Learn to also make compromises in the future that are doable for you...no need to put on a serious front that your into something when your not but be willing to do something that your g/f likes to do because you actually care about her.
same here just went through the same thing. always have a side man no matter what.Originally Posted by socluis90
damn i went through something very similar and wish i woulda asked NT for advice but feared one of those immature "pics" "yns" threads. ended up getting hurt in the end. oh well live n learn.
my advice to op. worry bout yourself. if she comes along great, if not do you.
same here just went through the same thing. always have a side man no matter what.Originally Posted by socluis90
damn i went through something very similar and wish i woulda asked NT for advice but feared one of those immature "pics" "yns" threads. ended up getting hurt in the end. oh well live n learn.
my advice to op. worry bout yourself. if she comes along great, if not do you.
Originally Posted by WISEPHAROAH
O.P. to add further to what I said. The fact that she is questioning your relationship shows a real lack of loyalty. This may be a blanket statement, but I learned that chicks that consistently go out clubbing eventually fall to temptation. It's a dangerous situation to be in. The minute she starts liking someone else you will know. Females switch up and get so cold so fast it will literally have you trippin for a long time. They have the craziest on off switch and the most incredible part about them is they will move on and STILL LET YOU SMASH! These creatures defy the laws of logic and reality back away while you can! Be happy you dont have any kids or a home together and move on, dont put anyone before yourself. She could simply just want to experience someone else or just have sex. You never know what is going on with anyone. She might have a dookie fetish that she knows you wouldnt be comfortable with or shes gay. Life my friend is a funny thing like that.
Originally Posted by WISEPHAROAH
O.P. to add further to what I said. The fact that she is questioning your relationship shows a real lack of loyalty. This may be a blanket statement, but I learned that chicks that consistently go out clubbing eventually fall to temptation. It's a dangerous situation to be in. The minute she starts liking someone else you will know. Females switch up and get so cold so fast it will literally have you trippin for a long time. They have the craziest on off switch and the most incredible part about them is they will move on and STILL LET YOU SMASH! These creatures defy the laws of logic and reality back away while you can! Be happy you dont have any kids or a home together and move on, dont put anyone before yourself. She could simply just want to experience someone else or just have sex. You never know what is going on with anyone. She might have a dookie fetish that she knows you wouldnt be comfortable with or shes gay. Life my friend is a funny thing like that.
This. To add to my story earlier, my ex's new guy is a club managerOriginally Posted by WISEPHAROAH
O.P. to add further to what I said. The fact that she is questioning your relationship shows a real lack of loyalty. This may be a blanket statement, but I learned that chicks that consistently go out clubbing eventually fall to temptation. It's a dangerous situation to be in. The minute she starts liking someone else you will know. Females switch up and get so cold so fast it will literally have you trippin for a long time. They have the craziest on off switch and the most incredible part about them is they will move on and STILL LET YOU SMASH! These creatures defy the laws of logic and reality back away while you can! Be happy you dont have any kids or a home together and move on, dont put anyone before yourself. She could simply just want to experience someone else or just have sex. You never know what is going on with anyone. She might have a dookie fetish that she knows you wouldnt be comfortable with or shes gay. Life my friend is a funny thing like that.
This. To add to my story earlier, my ex's new guy is a club managerOriginally Posted by WISEPHAROAH
O.P. to add further to what I said. The fact that she is questioning your relationship shows a real lack of loyalty. This may be a blanket statement, but I learned that chicks that consistently go out clubbing eventually fall to temptation. It's a dangerous situation to be in. The minute she starts liking someone else you will know. Females switch up and get so cold so fast it will literally have you trippin for a long time. They have the craziest on off switch and the most incredible part about them is they will move on and STILL LET YOU SMASH! These creatures defy the laws of logic and reality back away while you can! Be happy you dont have any kids or a home together and move on, dont put anyone before yourself. She could simply just want to experience someone else or just have sex. You never know what is going on with anyone. She might have a dookie fetish that she knows you wouldnt be comfortable with or shes gay. Life my friend is a funny thing like that.