NT fam. What should I do?

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I've been pursuing this girl for a couple weeks now. We've been on about 4 dates.

So yesterday I decided to get something delivered to her job. I ended up picking it up and taking it to her house.

Later in the day, I get a text from her and she asks would I want to get her nails done?

I am immediately turned off!!

Should I cut my losses now? I need opinions!
 
mjhead23 said:
I've been pursuing this girl for a couple weeks now. We've been on about 4 dates.

So yesterday I decided to get something delivered to her job. I ended up picking it up and taking it to her house.

Later in the day, I get a text from her and she asks would I want to get her nails done?

I am immediately turned off!!

Should I cut my losses now? I need opinions!
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ShotsRangOut said:
I don't get it.

 She wants you to go with her to get her nails done? You give off a fruity vibe or something, papi?
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Nah. She wants him to pay for her to get her nails done. :rollin

OP, you dropped the ball by trying to be romantic and showing a bird the finer things in life too early.

Invite her over, acquire yambs, and kick her out before she has you tricking your entire paycheck.

You said you delivered something to her JOB. Its HER money that should be going to stuff like that.
 
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Yeah said:
Nah. She wants him to pay for her to get her nails done. :rollin

OP, you dropped the ball by trying to be romantic and showing a bird the finer things in life too early.

Invite her over, acquire yambs, and kick her out before she has you tricking your entire paycheck.

You said you delivered something to her JOB. Its HER money that should be going to stuff like that.
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It's crazy because I never got that vibe from her. She's a dope chick. But this just ruined it for me. And it's not like we are on the midst of a relationship, if we were closer to that maybe I would occasionally do that, but we aren't even close so I don't get it. Then I start a new job making a nice amount of money and I don't want her to get any ideas. You gotta play broke with these chicks nowadays. Smh
 
sckid20 said:
Wat u deliver 2 her job op
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I ended up taking to her house, but an edible arrangement and flowers. It was just a nice gesture that I WANTED to do. Then the same day you ask me to pay for your nails. Smh I was salty cause I was feeling this girl. All of my women friend that I told were outraged. Ha one said she was trying to see what else she could get out of me.
 
Ordered her the filet told 'em butterfly it she’ll love it
She used to soda and nuggets she really just out here thuggin'
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Drake be letting you know. Don't do extra **** for these girls, b.
 
Op a lot of women have two kinds of guys in there life if theyre not cuffed and sometimes dat dont even matter

ones who please them fiscally. buying things,treating them, the come over to screw in light bulbs and fix door hinges with a smile on his face type of guy ya feel me

the other is an a hole who could care less bout her and for damn sure aint breaking that much bread that looks like this guy
Meet tyrone
but guess what for some reason he gets the box.

you gotta be the somewhere in the middle of these 2 guys

who are you op  
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u lookin like the first dude right now b
 
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"Nah"

Is all you need to say to her...


**** you getting **** delivered to her job for, b? C'mon man, you should know better than that. This ain't no movie. ******* don't appreciate that type of **** and see it as a romantic gesture from then heart.

They see it as, "this fool got money to order me random ****, so he can pay for other stuff I want too"

You trying to get these birds to land, but they just want to fly, b.


Tell her no and see how she responds. If she starts acting like a lil ***, then drop her.

If she says its all good, but thanks you for the gift, you might be able to work something out.


But ******* shouldn't be asking for **** from you if you've just been dating for a couple weeks.


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You a good dude OP. I can tell from your kind hearted gesture. That **** was nice, son. Thats something you do for wifey though fam. Seriously. save that type of stuff for the girl you've been with exclusively and got some miles on. You jumped 0-60 too fast.
 
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mjhead23 said:
I ended up taking to her house, but an edible arrangement and flowers. It was just a nice gesture that I WANTED to do. Then the same day you ask me to pay for your nails. Smh I was salty cause I was feeling this girl. All of my women friend that I told were outraged. Ha one said she was trying to see what else she could get out of me.
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Exactly.

My homegirls would murder me id I did this for a chick I'm not in a relationship with.
 
mjhead23 said:
I've been pursuing this girl for a couple weeks now. We've been on about 4 dates.

So yesterday I decided to get something delivered to her job. I ended up picking it up and taking it to her house.

Later in the day, I get a text from her and she asks would I want to get her nails done?

I am immediately turned off!!

Should I cut my losses now? I need opinions!
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You're officially in the trick bag. Charge that to the game and keep it moving, player...
 
aNYone said:
Op a lot of women have two kinds of guys in there life if theyre not cuffed and sometimes dat dont even matter

ones who please them fiscally. buying things,treating them, the come over to screw in light bulbs and fix door hinges with a smile on his face type of guy ya feel me

the other is an a hole who could care less bout her and for damn sure aint breaking that much bread that looks like this guy

Meet tyrone
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but guess what for some reason he gets the box.

you gotta be the somewhere in the middle of these 2 guys

who are you op  8o

u lookin like the first dude right now b
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Crazy thing is I'm usually the a hole. Was trying to switch it up though. Smh
 
PRIME said:
"Nah"

Is all you need to say to her...


**** you getting **** delivered to her job for, b? C'mon man, you should know better than that. This ain't no movie. ******* don't appreciate that type of **** and see it as a romantic gesture from then heart.

They see it as, "this fool got money to order me random ****, so he can pay for other stuff I want too"

You trying to get these birds to land, but they just want to fly, b.


Tell her no and see how she responds. If she starts acting like a lil ***, then drop her.

If she says its all good, but thanks you for the gift, you might be able to work something out.


But ******* shouldn't be asking for **** from you if you've just been dating for a couple weeks.


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You a good dude OP. I can tell from your kind hearted gesture. That **** was nice, son. Thats something you do for wifey though fam. Seriously. save that type of stuff for the girl you've been with exclusively and got some miles on. You jumped 0-60 too fast.
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You're right. Guess I was sprung and moving too fast. But I was thinking she would be wifey eventually. I'll see if she puts in any more effort. If not I'll charge it to the game.
 
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