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- May 2, 2007
On some real #$%$ ive been with this girl for 5 1/2 years...things have went downhill in the past month after we had a big argument about her mother who icouldnt stand, after the fight i realized i was being unfair passing judgement on her mother....after that she told me she shut down emotionally and over thepast month she's been falling out of love with me she tells me. This past Weds she told me she's done and she cant do it anymore...i had a talk withher yesterday she said if i can change she will try. On some simp #$%$ we usually talk about 4 hours a day, calling each other about 6-8 times a day. Keep inmind this is basically all we have since we are long distance...we see each other once a month. Im going crazy not talking to her that much, its killing me.She told me she needs space because there's things in her life she needs to fix (finances, her health) and she feels as if im too controlling andsmothering her. I want to marry this girl and spend the rest of my life with her...how do i fix this? I cant even stand the thought of not being with her, itskilling me.