NT, My Girl is Pregnant. (FTL)

[tylerhundley]

Originally Posted by SeRveJaYs4JaYs

And here i am 23 trying to make a baby with my wife of 6 years and can't

see what I am sayin OP. there are plenty of couples who WANT a kid. and you and your girl cant deal with 9 months of her *****ing/mood swings/gaining weight tolet a family have a kid that they have always wanted and would love/adore, and let a human being have 60+ years of life for your 9 months of pregnancy? Thatssomething you def should think about bro.

 

[produccionfrescos]

Originally Posted by tylerhundley

Originally Posted by SeRveJaYs4JaYs

And here i am 23 trying to make a baby with my wife of 6 years and can't

see what I am sayin OP. there are plenty of couples who WANT a kid. and you and your girl cant deal with 9 months of her *****ing/mood swings/gaining weight to let a family have a kid that they have always wanted and would love/adore, and let a human being have 60+ years of life for your 9 months of pregnancy? Thats something you def should think about bro.

[color= rgb(255, 0, 0)]Suppose dude and his girl aren't financially stable? Would you wanna have a kid knowing youwouldn't be able to stop the hunger pains? You can't afford to get him 3 sets of the standard uniform? Working 2 or 3 jobs in this poor economy and youcan't even see your child?[/color]

[color= rgb(255, 0, 0)]Sure there are people who WANT to have kids, but tell that to those bastards whohave kids (knowing they aren't fit as parents), and raise them in a poor household, the child is getting abused for no reason and no one pays the kid anymind. We read about #*@% like that all the time.[/color]

 

[jmaddness2345129]

Originally Posted by NikeTalker23

so how does it feel to have decided to kill a baby?

So how does it feel to be a pretentious douche bag?

This is between you and her dude. Don't let some strangers on a website sway you. Discuss the options and decide what you want together.

 

[mideastbeast]

I was waiting for this to turn into an argument about abortion....

 

[tylerhundley]

Originally Posted by ProduccionFrescos

Originally Posted by tylerhundley

Originally Posted by SeRveJaYs4JaYs

And here i am 23 trying to make a baby with my wife of 6 years and can't

see what I am sayin OP. there are plenty of couples who WANT a kid. and you and your girl cant deal with 9 months of her *****ing/mood swings/gaining weight to let a family have a kid that they have always wanted and would love/adore, and let a human being have 60+ years of life for your 9 months of pregnancy? Thats something you def should think about bro.

[color= rgb(255, 0, 0)]Suppose dude and his girl aren't financially stable? Would you wanna have a kid knowing you wouldn't be able to stop the hunger pains? You can't afford to get him 3 sets of the standard uniform? Working 2 or 3 jobs in this poor economy and you can't even see your child?[/color]

[color= rgb(255, 0, 0)]Sure there are people who WANT to have kids, but tell that to those bastards who have kids (knowing they aren't fit as parents), and raise them in a poor household, the child is getting abused for no reason and no one pays the kid any mind. We read about #*@% like that all the time.[/color]

You obviously didnt see my first post in this thread. I am tryin to talk the dude into going through with having the baby and putting it up for adoption,or setting up parents for the baby before its born. Im not tellin dude to KEEP it, just have it so it has a chance at life.

 

[eeibaby]

I know its your guys decision and all I just wanted to post this poem about abortion.

Really Deep

Mommy, today is my birthday. I am 4 months old.

Mommy I have toes and I am a girl. Mommy, Please don't be sad any more.

Mommy what is that doctor saying mommy? What is an abortion mommy?

Mommy I love you. Mommy I can fall asleep to your heartbeat.

Mommy do you love me?

Mommy I am in heaven now Mommy. God told me what an abortion is Mommy.

Mommy why didn't you want me? Why don't you love me?

Mommy why can't I ever see the light of day? Mommy I still love you.

Mommy God will take care of me now and I will be loved .

Mommy today is my birthday I am 5 years old now and I still don't understand why you didn't want me mommy

Mommy! You came to see me Mommy!

Mommy what happened to you? You don't know your little girl anymore mommy? You don't love me Mommy? Why did I have to die Mommy?
Mommy I still love you

I can see that you're looking out for yourselves and the child so thats a plus.

Its just I do not agree with abortion at all.

I had a kid when I was 17 (3 days before my bday) and I never regret it.

Its one of the best life changing moment ever but what I do wish was had it happened when we were financially ready.

In the end I love him to death and would risk my own life just to see him smile.

 

[geminifly]

Birth control and condoms FTW

 

[nako xl]

Originally Posted by tylerhundley

Originally Posted by SeRveJaYs4JaYs

And here i am 23 trying to make a baby with my wife of 6 years and can't

see what I am sayin OP. there are plenty of couples who WANT a kid. and you and your girl cant deal with 9 months of her *****ing/mood swings/gaining weight to let a family have a kid that they have always wanted and would love/adore, and let a human being have 60+ years of life for your 9 months of pregnancy? Thats something you def should think about bro.

and again, life isn't that cut and dry.

do you realize how many people have children fully intending to give them away for adoption, then when the child actually comes can't bring themselves todo it? people who aren't fit to be parents?

 

[jmaddness2345129]

Mommy, today is my birthday. I am 4 months old.

Mommy I have toes and I am a girl. Mommy, Please don't be sad any more.

Mommy what is that doctor saying mommy? What is an abortion mommy?

Mommy I love you. Mommy I can fall asleep to your heartbeat.

Mommy do you love me?

Mommy I am in heaven now Mommy. God told me what an abortion is Mommy.

Mommy why didn't you want me? Why don't you love me?

Mommy why can't I ever see the light of day? Mommy I still love you.

Mommy God will take care of me now and I will be loved .

Mommy today is my birthday I am 5 years old now and I still don't understand why you didn't want me mommy

Mommy! You came to see me Mommy!

Mommy what happened to you? You don't know your little girl anymore mommy? You don't love me Mommy? Why did I have to die Mommy?
Mommy I still love you

Get that right-wing propaganda outta here. That'slike something you'd read on a pamphlet at a Catholic fundraiser. There's nothing "really deep" about it; it's nothing but a guilt tripvia impossible personification.

 

[tylerhundley]

Originally Posted by Nako XL

Originally Posted by tylerhundley

Originally Posted by SeRveJaYs4JaYs

And here i am 23 trying to make a baby with my wife of 6 years and can't

see what I am sayin OP. there are plenty of couples who WANT a kid. and you and your girl cant deal with 9 months of her *****ing/mood swings/gaining weight to let a family have a kid that they have always wanted and would love/adore, and let a human being have 60+ years of life for your 9 months of pregnancy? Thats something you def should think about bro.

and again, life isn't that cut and dry.

do you realize how many people have children fully intending to give them away for adoption, then when the child actually comes can't bring themselves to do it? people who aren't fit to be parents?

couldnt bring themselves to get rid of it!? dude wants to kill the baby before giving it a chance, and your worried about him wanting to keep it?

 

[eeibaby]

Get that right-wing propaganda outta here. That's like something you'd read on a pamphlet at a Catholic fundraiser. There's nothing "really deep" about it; it's nothing but a guilt trip via impossible personification.
Just because you can't see the baby physically does it mean its not human

And how you going to tell me how I feel about a poem

 

[limitedretroog]

Man, if you really get that unlucky, don't even bother playing Poker, Lotto, or any kinda risky game...

 

[jmaddness2345129]

Originally Posted by eeibaby

^

So just because you can't see it its not a human being?

So because it's a collective of cells it can speak english, recognize parental figures it's never seen, and comprehend the afterlife? It's just astupid poem all together.

 

[eeibaby]

Originally Posted by JMaddness2345129

Originally Posted by eeibaby

^

So just because you can't see it its not a human being?

So because it's a collective of cells it can speak english, recognize parental figures it's never seen, and comprehend the afterlife? It's just a stupid poem all together.

Its breathing and has human features during the 8th week what more do you want?

I'm just putting in my 2 cents, all I'm saying is that you don't you guys ever think I'm happy I wasn't an abortion.

That I actually got a chance to live and didn't cut my life short because they were unprepared.

 

[produccionfrescos]

Originally Posted by JMaddness2345129

Get that right-wing propaganda outta here. That's like something you'd read on a pamphlet at a Catholic fundraiser. There's nothing "really deep" about it; it's nothing but a guilt trip via impossible personification.

[color= rgb(255, 0, 0)]Agreed.[/color]

 

[nako xl]

Originally Posted by tylerhundley

Originally Posted by Nako XL

Originally Posted by tylerhundley

Originally Posted by SeRveJaYs4JaYs

And here i am 23 trying to make a baby with my wife of 6 years and can't

see what I am sayin OP. there are plenty of couples who WANT a kid. and you and your girl cant deal with 9 months of her *****ing/mood swings/gaining weight to let a family have a kid that they have always wanted and would love/adore, and let a human being have 60+ years of life for your 9 months of pregnancy? Thats something you def should think about bro.

and again, life isn't that cut and dry.

do you realize how many people have children fully intending to give them away for adoption, then when the child actually comes can't bring themselves to do it? people who aren't fit to be parents?

couldnt bring themselves to get rid of it!? dude wants to kill the baby before giving it a chance, and your worried about him wanting to keep it?

you clearly arent understanding me. i'll leave it alone.

 

[nako xl]

Originally Posted by Nako XL

Originally Posted by tylerhundley

Originally Posted by Nako XL

Originally Posted by tylerhundley

Originally Posted by SeRveJaYs4JaYs

And here i am 23 trying to make a baby with my wife of 6 years and can't

see what I am sayin OP. there are plenty of couples who WANT a kid. and you and your girl cant deal with 9 months of her *****ing/mood swings/gaining weight to let a family have a kid that they have always wanted and would love/adore, and let a human being have 60+ years of life for your 9 months of pregnancy? Thats something you def should think about bro.

and again, life isn't that cut and dry.

do you realize how many people have children fully intending to give them away for adoption, then when the child actually comes can't bring themselves to do it? people who aren't fit to be parents?

couldnt bring themselves to get rid of it!? dude wants to kill the baby before giving it a chance, and your worried about him wanting to keep it?

you clearly arent understanding me. i'll leave it alone.

and he' not killing a *#%!$++ baby! it's not a baby!! geez!

 

[jmaddness2345129]

Originally Posted by eeibaby

Originally Posted by JMaddness2345129

Originally Posted by eeibaby

^

So just because you can't see it its not a human being?

So because it's a collective of cells it can speak english, recognize parental figures it's never seen, and comprehend the afterlife? It's just a stupid poem all together.

Its breathing and has human features during the 8th week what more do you want?

I'm just putting in my 2 cents, all I'm saying is that you don't you guys ever think I'm happy I wasn't an abortion.

That I actually got a chance to live and didn't cut my life short because they were unprepared.

I want anyone who reads that ridiculous trash to erase any notion that the fetus is having some introspective, HighlightKids moment. It's cool you loveyour son, but what's right for you isn't right for everyone. People should mind their own business.

 

[eeibaby]

Originally Posted by JMaddness2345129

Originally Posted by eeibaby

Originally Posted by JMaddness2345129

Originally Posted by eeibaby

^

So just because you can't see it its not a human being?

So because it's a collective of cells it can speak english, recognize parental figures it's never seen, and comprehend the afterlife? It's just a stupid poem all together.

Its breathing and has human features during the 8th week what more do you want?

I'm just putting in my 2 cents, all I'm saying is that you don't you guys ever think I'm happy I wasn't an abortion.

That I actually got a chance to live and didn't cut my life short because they were unprepared.

I want anyone who reads that ridiculous trash to erase any notion that the fetus is having some introspective, HighlightKids moment. It's cool you love your son, but what's right for you isn't right for everyone. People should mind their own business.

I already said I understood where he stood with it and don't tell me to mind my own business if the guys posts on a forum

 

[jmaddness2345129]

It's whatever dude, arguing on the internet is an exercise in futility. I don't have any more interest in it than you do.

 

[dugtrio]

i tried to pm you but it said "that user is not found". anyways, stay up man. it's not the end of the world. i've been there too but wentthe other route. you'll be all good, maybe your girl should switch bc's after. don't let that right wing garbage get to your head.

 

[eeibaby]

^

All good bro I'm not trying to argue about it either. I respect your side on it and opinions

 

[saymoregotsole]

RIP

 

[yungmatt]

My main chick got 2 abortions...Cried both times even though we clearly werent ready

She said if I got her prego again then theres no chance of her getting another abortion... I aint takin the risk of seeing if shes bluffing

Good Luck

Originally Posted by macdeez

honestly as selfish as it sounds, going through the whole 9 month procedure would be too much of a sacrafice of our own lives. we have jobs, school and other responsibilities that would be effected. as cruel as it may sound, we think its right. It would be unfair to the baby to be brought into a world where his/her parents could not give them everything they could because they are at a point in their life they ant make the sacrifice.

Same EXACT was I felt

 

[eight2one]

i didnt think people that been together that long, at that age got abortions...