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So NT, I updated my FB status 7hrs ago saying "It baffles me when Muslims ask for Christmas presents..."
And this girl, treasurer of the student organization I'm president of, and future LAWYER, posts this on my wall:
And this girl, treasurer of the student organization I'm president of, and future LAWYER, posts this on my wall:
u and these ignorant %$$ statuses of urs..sometime u shud think before u say stuff..just saying..being an educated person like urself..
so I respond via fb chat and one of the most lackluster "debates" I've ever been a part of ensues...I almost feel as stupid as she sounded now
Ebun
what was wrong with what i said?
9:15pm
Debbie
its just stupid..almost as stupid as the grl who made the comment bout ppl at mcds makin more than ppl in naija
9:15pm
Ebun
what?!
yo don't come at me like that. it was not directed at u, so just take it with a grain of salt..
u cant' say "its just stupid" what about it is stupid?
9:16pm
Debbie
im not takin it personally
im just sayin
9:16pm
Ebun
ur just saying what?
what is ignorant about the comment? muslims do not celebrate christmas ( a religious holiday) so i just find it odd when muslims ask for chrismtas gifts...what is ignorant about that?
9:17pm
Debbie
because xmas isnt really celebrated in the conventional way anymore
especially in the united states
9:17pm
Ebun
so that makes my comment ignorant?
9:17pm
Debbie
yes it does
9:17pm
Ebun
is it my fault that it has become a more secular holiday?
9:18pm
Debbie
no exactly
9:18pm
Ebun
to me, it's a religious holiday
9:18pm
Debbie
it has become securlar
secular
so for u to say dumb stuff like that
makes u look ignorant
9:18pm
Ebun
because i'm a christian, so me, being a christian who celebrates the birth of christ, finds it ODD that a MUSLIM asks for CHRISTMAS gifts.
sure, i'm ignorant now debbie. pls take the insults somewhere else. i dont have time for that.
9:18pm
Debbie
wateva ur entitled to ur opinion
im just saying its dumb
9:19pm
Ebun
i know.
ok.
9:19pm
Debbie
but i guess u conservation holier than thou wanna b folks
can continue to think as such
9:19pm
Ebun
holier than thou?
9:19pm
Debbie
conservative*
9:19pm
Ebun
what is holier than thou about anything i said?
9:19pm
Debbie
not in this instance
9:19pm
Ebun
if i fasted during ramadan, you wouldn't find that odd at all?
so ur coming at me for something else that is unrelated to this instance?
9:20pm
Debbie
thats different
ramadan isnt secular
9:20pm
Ebun
of course, i expected that response
neither is christmas
9:20pm
Debbie
whatever yo
ur not seeing the point
its kool
9:20pm
Ebun
of course, you cop out. there is no "point"
9:20pm
Debbie
lol wow
some ppl will never change
smh
oh well
for such an educated person
9:21pm
Ebun
if u want to have an intelligent discussion, we can.
9:21pm
Debbie
ur so close minded at times
9:21pm
Ebun
if you want to just insult my opinion and my character because of a postulation i made, be my guest, but don't just come at me sideways
9:21pm
Debbie
im not
9:22pm
Ebun
i'm closed minded because i'm baffled when muslims ask for christmas gifts?!
9:23pm
Debbie
ur missing an element
of the conversation
9:23pm
Ebun
regardless of how secular christmas has become and we give gifts etc, it is a RELIGIOUS holiday. point blank, period. so when someone of another, usually opposing religion to christianity comes along and essentially wants to CELEBRATE that with me, i find that to be odd. it is akin to me fasting during ramadan because i'm not a muslim
u keep saying that i'm missing the point, u have failed to mention this "point"
9:23pm
Debbie
its NOT the same
9:24pm
Ebun
why?
9:24pm
Debbie
because its not like they are going to church with you on xmas
9:24pm
Ebun
if that's the best u can come up with, i'm done lol.
neither am i going to the mosque with u during ramadan...
9:25pm
Debbie
this is going nowhere
9:25pm
Ebun
it isn't
because u are just making blanket statements instead of intelligent points.
9:26pm
Debbie
not really
its cuz ur so stuck in your way of thinking
9:26pm
Ebun
am I?
9:26pm
Debbie
you dont care to see my point
yes u are
9:26pm
Ebun
becasue u NEVER said wht your point is.
i'm waiting
say "ebun, my point is ....."
u just keep calling me closed minded. pls open my mind.
9:27pm
Debbie
ma worry
learn on your own
9:27pm
Ebun
of course, and you're gonna be a lawyer
lol
9:27pm
Debbie
wow dont come at me sideways
9:27pm
Ebun
u cop out of a simple discussion
9:27pm
Debbie
i dnt feel like doin this with u..really
cuz i know u
9:27pm
Ebun
ur job is to convince me w hy my point is wrong, and as of yet, you haven't done that
u s hould, because ur the one who wrote on my wall calling my statuses ignorant and saying that i should think before i say stuff
funny enough, of all the muslims on my friends list, you're the only one who took it as "ignorant"...that says something
9:28pm
Debbie
ok
so NT, what are your thoughts on this issue? Muslims "celebrating" Christmas . I know, in American culture at least, it has become more of a secularholiday, with the gift-giving, Santa, etc...but it is a religious holiday.