NT, would you ever spank your child?

[limitedretroog]

I know it's a bit of a debate whether or not it's right or wrong to spank your child, but I just wanna know how NT feels about it.

 

[jordanhead2]

yes. but I wouldn't "beat" my child

edit: My avy has come back!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

[mideastbeast]

Depends on the situation. 99.9% of the time no.

 

[eye see soles]

Spank. Yes.

Abuse. No.

 

[can i live]

yup...

 

[tony ayooo]

hell yeah..gotta teach them discipline..can't have you kid acting a fool in public, hitting you, talking back..things like that

 

[stocksandbonds85]

Depends on the situation.

but i wouldnt hesitate if i felt it was necessary

 

[harlemkickdiva]

Originally Posted by eye see soles

Spank. Yes.

Abuse. No.

 

[obie21]

yes

 

[produccionfrescos]

[color= rgb(255, 0, 0)]Parents never laid a hand on me, I won't lay a hand on my kids. Although a fewdays ago my mom told me she should've because I'm "rude"[/color]

[color= rgb(255, 0, 0)]but w/e[/color]

 

[carlosdapaperboy]

I'll spank em with my hand, but not a belt or anything.

 

[ritch1088]

Indeed I will.

 

[sekim2detcidda]

discipline/spank=yes

 

[darthska]

Would I? Yes.

Do I think it's necessary, like it's something that has to be done in order to properly raise a child? Heck no.

Can discipline be taught without ever laying a hand on your child? Absolutely, and I hope to accomplish this; so does my wife. Our son is only 13 months old,but we can tell we're already off to a good start.

 

[pushak513]

A light tap just to get the message across. Ive seen some vile parents though. kid looked like a 5th round UFC fighter.. awful

 

[b smooth 202]

Probably, but it depends.....I've never really been spanked because I know how to act....

 

[geminifly]

If they cutting up I will beat the Black off they a##! Black folk know about them racecar tracks, switches, house shoes,
belts, extension cords and whatever moms could get a hand on!

 

[illmaticsoulchild]

If raised correctly, parent's should never have to spank a child.

With that said, there are so many factors out of a parent's control, that spanking becomes necessary.

 

[carlosdapaperboy]

Originally Posted by geminifly

If they cutting up I will beat the Black off they a##! Black folk know about them racecar tracks, switches, house shoes,
belts, extension cords and whatever moms could get a hand on!

I'm Latino but my parents was the same.

 

[primavera vills]

I would do it when I needed to. I wouldn't go overboard like some parents, or underboard like a lot of parents. My mom gave me a fair share until I learnedmy lesson on right from wrong, so my kid will get the same treatment I had.

Unless he/she is a good kid, then no, I wont give them that butt whoopin'.

 

[klipschorn]

Yes, I'll spank them and make them face the corner for thirty minutes.

 

[shake n bake718]

For sure I will hit my kids if the situation warrants it. Putting them on timeout or taking something away from them really doesn't keep them from actingup, but a nice wack on the behind usually does the trick. My mom used to woop my @$* when I was bad and I think I turned out ok.

 

[produccionfrescos]

[color= rgb(255, 0, 0)]Some parents take it too far. I was waiting for a friend to come pick me up, andthis kid must've been like 3 or 4 years old.. his mom was just hitting the %+%% out of him and pulling his hair telling him to "shut the %%+!up"(they were black btw) .. I mean really?[/color]

[color= rgb(255, 0, 0)]That stuff infuriates me[/color]

 

[joshhassolex]

nah chill
look at how michael jackson turned out
he got beat as a kid

 

[gregory house]

Originally Posted by illmaticsoulchild

If raised correctly, parent's should never have to spank a child.

With that said, there are so many factors out of a parent's control, that spanking becomes necessary.

PREACH

Funny thing is we were talking about this in Psychology