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Thats the story of our lives fam. Thats just part of being a man in a relationship...Originally Posted by StuntHard
Originally Posted by Nako XL
yes. good luck when she sees those group pics though. you wanna talk about conflict and stress? try explaining to what sounds like an overly suspicious girlfriend why you lied even though you did nothing wrong.
She saw the group pics a few hours ago, and sent me a text that reads, "you are a F-- liar!!! and you wonder why I don't trust you..."
I told her I lied because I was trying to avoid the b--------, and bam... b-------- commences.
If I felt like I could tell her the truth, I would, no doubt.
It just seems like telling her the truth leaves me with a headache, whereas telling her a lie results in either no headache, or the same headache I would have if I would have told her the truth in the first place. Might as well try to circumvent that initial headache.
I don't like lying, but I loathe arguing.
EDIT: don't know if you can say b------- on NT anymore.
Every man gets caught up in some **#% like that, whether its serious or not. You girl will always take it over 9000.
You just gotta learn to calm her the hell down and gain back control over the situation.
You thought logically, she thought emotionally. Right now its her- 1, you- 0.
Now you have to logically rationalize the situation through emotions to overcome her estrogen filled anger.