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We're herbs and chumps for thinking he should honor the commitment he made by committing to her? Dude had a lifetime before her to have a threesome and smash random women. **** outta here.
Planning a Bachelor Party... Best Man Requirements Etc...
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Yes, very herbish .. should of went to the bachelorette party instead
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NT summit? I got dibs on last!
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My point is/was. It's his decision and if that's your boy, you support that decision anyway you can.
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Strong username to beliefs ratio.
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this is kinda the point i was going for, without callin anyone here herbs or lames or whatever.
For me personally, I believe that everyone's relationship is personal. What they do and how they treat their girlfriend, fiance, wife, or whatever, is their business (within reason). My boys, the ones I go way back with 20+ (some of them 30) years, they know that about me. We all kind of abide by the same code. Aint none of us each other's mothers. We are all adults who can make our own decisions, and on the flipside, are responsible for the repurcussions of our decisions. I try never to force my buddies into doing anything they dont want to do.
If my buddy is adamant about starting off his marriage by having a 3some with some randoms in Vegas on his bachelor party. So be it. As best man, I'm gonna do what I can to deliver on that request. If he doesnt want any of that shenanigans then I will make damn sure no one tries to bring that around him.
Everyone and every relationship is different. My wife heard about everything that went down at my bachelor party. Was she happy about it? No, but we value honesty and open communication in our relationship and I didnt feel it was right lying to her about anyhing.
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Sorry about the thread derail OP. Lets get back on topic.
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Just got back from a bachelor party in Vegas. You are gonna spend way more than $1k by the sound of your trip.
You can expect to spend $300 per dude at the legit nightclubs - same goes for cabanas at EBC.
As far as the gift, I'm just about over wedding gifts. I feel like half the reason people get married is for the damn $20k in gifts.
Isn't putting together a sick bachelor party and having his back for life enough? I think anything more than something off the registry would be excessive.
Anyway, definitely stop by Sapphire's while you're in Vegas
You can expect to spend $300 per dude at the legit nightclubs - same goes for cabanas at EBC.
As far as the gift, I'm just about over wedding gifts. I feel like half the reason people get married is for the damn $20k in gifts.
Isn't putting together a sick bachelor party and having his back for life enough? I think anything more than something off the registry would be excessive.
Anyway, definitely stop by Sapphire's while you're in Vegas
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I'm so mad I went to Sapphire's during lunchtime. Place was empty except for like 4-5 dancers working. Of course I got the drunkest dancer there who was a 6' foot crazy blonde. Was cool though, she took me on a tour of the vip rooms and I was walking on the walkway above he club. Place must be awesome when it's full.
I'm so mad I went to Sapphire's during lunchtime. Place was empty except for like 4-5 dancers working. Of course I got the drunkest dancer there who was a 6' foot crazy blonde. Was cool though, she took me on a tour of the vip rooms and I was walking on the walkway above he club. Place must be awesome when it's full.
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man thats some dedication right there. I've always wanted to go to the strip club for the lunch special but havent pulled the trigger.
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Yeah man no cheating let your boy go wild maybe let randoms be all over him but draw that line.
I've been to two bachelor parties and it was fun and uncomfortable *** hell man. Having nothing but sisters man
Also if your boy is into guns or cars do a lap in an exotic car or shoot some guns we were going to do that both times but got wasted every single time and never did it
I've been to two bachelor parties and it was fun and uncomfortable *** hell man. Having nothing but sisters man
Also if your boy is into guns or cars do a lap in an exotic car or shoot some guns we were going to do that both times but got wasted every single time and never did it
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Gifts at bachelor parties? I've been to seven (Vegas x2, Puerto Rico, Miami, Chicago, Dallas, Clearwater Beach) and not once did we do a gift. Comping the hotel room, strip club, strippers, night and day club, plus all food and drink costs is plenty. A gift for the bachelor is news to me.
I throw at least $100 per plate off the registry or a check. It goes up depending how close we are.
Oh, my only advice, don't create a very strict plan. Plan a couple things (like clubs, etc), but don't make everyone follow an itinerary. That **** is buns. Cats want to enjoy themselves too. Everyone doesn't have to do the same stuff.
I throw at least $100 per plate off the registry or a check. It goes up depending how close we are.
Oh, my only advice, don't create a very strict plan. Plan a couple things (like clubs, etc), but don't make everyone follow an itinerary. That **** is buns. Cats want to enjoy themselves too. Everyone doesn't have to do the same stuff.
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OP, where is your boy going on his honeymoon? Get him a GoPro
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It was our friend's last day in Vegas so we wanted to have fun before he left. We got kinda bored at Sapphire so we hit up our favorite spot, Spearmint Rhino after. Place is always live. Saw an older guy eating a chicken salad with a dancer. Weird to see people actually eating food there. Our first day of vacation our flight arrived at 3am. We hit up Fatburger first then went to Rhino at 4am on a Monday morning.
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man my level of respect for you and your dedication just skyrocketed. I'm all about hitting the ground running when I get to Vegas , but damn thats next level ****. What flight gets in at 3am?
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My last Vegas trip we rolled in around 2 and went hard. No sleep at all, smashing so loud the people next door opened their door to see the talent I had brought back lol.
Nah, I won't spend more than a grand since I have a ton of connects at the nightclubs.
Nah, I won't spend more than a grand since I have a ton of connects at the nightclubs.
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I feel like am the only dude in the world who hasn't smashed in Vegas 
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Whats the point of sleeping in Vegas?
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This was a few years ago, we arrived probably more like between 1-2 am. Departure was at night and we had a long delay before takeoff. Plus the fight from NY is a few hours.
My friend goes to New Orleans every year and tells us how awesome it is. It'll definitely be considered as a destination when someone needs a bachelor party.
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I feel like am the only dude in the world who hasn't smashed in Vegas
Lol. My buddy lost his virginity there and has smashed all but one girl there.
Lmao when ur there 5-6x a yr you need it!
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So the line for him is motor boating I guess lol.
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Cheers to a trip full of the finest motor boats the city has to offer!
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Cheers to a trip full of the finest motor boats the city has to offer!
Hahahahahaha!
I bet he will do more than that
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I heard nothing, I saw nothing.
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Exactly.
Groom is killing me with the actual invites... He hasn't put together a final list and we are... 3 1/2 months out. Feel like he needs to do it asap, right?
Groom is killing me with the actual invites... He hasn't put together a final list and we are... 3 1/2 months out. Feel like he needs to do it asap, right?
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