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Dirty I undertstand where you are coming from, but I have to tell you, NO ONE really knows when they are ready for marriage, it's a leap of faith we takewith the person we love, it's similar to parenting, who's really ever ready to be a parent?...I think NO ONE. With that being said I have to tell youthat simply because two people are not ready to let go of their complete independence to then be dependent on each other for eery decision, it does not meanthey are NOT ready for marriage. Like I stated earlier I've been engaged for 2 years and been with my fiancée for 10, we live together and now we each haveour personal accounts along with one joint, this will not change once we get married, we will continue to each handle our own money, we respect each othersopinions on spending matters, but as long as our bills get paid and we are doing our best to stan some money away, then if she wants to spend some of her hardearned money on herself who I'm I to tell her no?...and vice-versa. Your idea of marriage may mean something completely different than mines orthe previewsposter, but that doesn't mean that you were *anymore* ready than we are. Be a little more open minded, specially about something like marriage.