illwill8710 wrote:
Originally Posted by
Executive76
illwill8710 wrote:
lovemysole wrote:
There is this guy that I've known for almost 7 years now and he is what I call a "real man" IMO. He graduated from UW Business School a year early, got accepted into his master's program and already has a job lined up for when he's done with his mater's from the firm that he interned at this summer. He has a job, his own place, a car and can clean and cook. He's not the cutest guy but he has a niiice *@@ build and is pretty tall for an Asian guy.
Where are the rest of you REAL MEN at?!!!
this changed everything.
if he was black this would be something to talk about but I know quite a few asians that got their own.
And does he come from a middle class family? you just discribed things that alot of people are given coming from a house with a decent income.
What are the odd's of finding a heterosexual Black male who:
>Finishes school early
>going for masters
>job
>interns
>own place
>car
>cleans
>cooks
>has a woman to at least apreciate his qualities
its rare so keep your stoneface.
if i'm that wrong can someone educate me. I'm not saying that there aren't alot of good black men (real men). I'm saying that there are few that meet op description and are praised by women.
I'm saying don't generalize an entire group of people based soley on your limited perspective and stereotypes. It seems like you don't even have much interaction with black people so why even make an ignorant statement like that?
And why get specific with heterosexual black males? Are homosexual males supposed to be more accomplished? You brought up race when it did not need to be brought up. Seems like your heavily racially biased.
I apologize if my generalization and bringing up race but I did get my hopes up and thought that the post was going to be about black men. Idon't mean to offend anyone but.
my perspective isn't limited. Going to all black schools until college I've noticed there aren't alot of males in college, going to college, orgraduating college compared to asians, white's etc. It's not stressed in public schools or in households to even go to college from where I grew up(North Philly). Yes their are the few that do make it but HS/College graduation rates of black males aren't even comparable to most races.
In the office where I work, out of 200 people 5 are black and has a degree. granted thing and rates are getting better but it's not like I see it as acommon accurance in my enviormnent.
And out of all the black men that I have come across in college only one graduated early with a communcations degree.
I've also noticed that black men don't as often get praised by female counterparts as much.
yes i have seen and read that more homosexuals are driven toward sucess.
but as I said I apologize if my generalization offens anybody. I'm black and speaking from a middle of the road perspective.