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Long story short, a friend and I started dating towards the beginning of the summer. We had known each other for a little bit, but we were both still dealing with issues from past relationships and it just worked out that way.
I'm no saint. I cheated in the beginning, but unlike other relationships, I couldn't do it again. The overwhelming sense of guilt I got from it was terrible, and instead of telling her the truth, I just kept my mouth shut and went on. As selfish as it sounds, I'm glad I did, because I've really grown to like this girl. Hell, I'm head over heels for her.
Over this past weekend she went on a trip to Milwaukee with some friends. One morning when I called, she sounded like she had just been bawling her eyes out, but she said she had been watching a romance movie and I didn't push the issue. She came forward yesterday and said it was because she ended up hooking up with some dude while drunk, and she said she couldn't go through with it, got up, and left. After she poured her heart out to me, I told her that I wasn't innocent either, and admitted what happened between me and the other girl.
After talking for a while she said that the experience made her realize how much she cared for me, and usually I'd just play it off like it was game, but the same feeling she described is the one I got after I did what I did. I spent the night, like a %@#@%$%, too.
So, I don't know what to do NT. What would you do?
Cliffs:
I cheated.
Girl cheated.
She tells me what happened, I tell her.
What now?
I'm no saint. I cheated in the beginning, but unlike other relationships, I couldn't do it again. The overwhelming sense of guilt I got from it was terrible, and instead of telling her the truth, I just kept my mouth shut and went on. As selfish as it sounds, I'm glad I did, because I've really grown to like this girl. Hell, I'm head over heels for her.
Over this past weekend she went on a trip to Milwaukee with some friends. One morning when I called, she sounded like she had just been bawling her eyes out, but she said she had been watching a romance movie and I didn't push the issue. She came forward yesterday and said it was because she ended up hooking up with some dude while drunk, and she said she couldn't go through with it, got up, and left. After she poured her heart out to me, I told her that I wasn't innocent either, and admitted what happened between me and the other girl.
After talking for a while she said that the experience made her realize how much she cared for me, and usually I'd just play it off like it was game, but the same feeling she described is the one I got after I did what I did. I spent the night, like a %@#@%$%, too.
So, I don't know what to do NT. What would you do?
Cliffs:
I cheated.
Girl cheated.
She tells me what happened, I tell her.
What now?